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I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 4:12pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Good day nairalanders. First and foremost I'd like to apologize for the circumlocution in writeup below. I'm a young dude in my early twenties still an undergraduate,my major challenge is not been able to socialize but i flow relatively well with people am used to even if it took me a while to build such amiable relationship with 'em so technically I think am an antisocial extrovert. I have a strong penchant for studying the dictionary for vocabularies and also watching American and British movies just to study their diction and how to use vocabularies. Now it has gotten to an extent where knowing too many vocabularies is turning into a menace to my personality because of this part of the world were we live,although I feel embarrassed most times when i speak to people predominantly the opposite sex because I know I use too many big words inordinately so i try as much as possible to curb it but to no avail instead it becomes even more unabated,i'd be trying to explain the ambiguous words I use for them because I could see the perplex look on their faces due to my verbosity. When I try to speak freely to my friends they feel I have the intent of ridiculing and disparaging their level of intelligence. Right now everyone who knows me treats me with contemptible flippancy because of my gross knowledge of big words. They even call me oversabi. So please how do I learn to speak plainly again?? It sounds funny but its a serious matter i need to look into,I'd appreciate your Opinions.thanks in advance. Ladies look at me like this when am throwing my complicated punchlines at them 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by LuciferKristi: 4:16pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Where is the vocabulary? [img]https://media1./images/7c35fce1e3ce0a3d4add2ac30cffca1c/tenor.gif?itemid=6117941[/img] 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Abortions: 4:16pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Just speak pidgin tothem if u can't go to the nearest tailor to fix ur vocabulari. Simple 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Rextizzle(m): 4:18pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
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Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Rextizzle(m): 4:18pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Speak your language if you can't speak English 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 4:22pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Abortions:I was actually waiting for somebody like you to complete the vocabulari with the 'es' |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 4:24pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Rextizzle:unfortunately we live in a diversified country if I resort to speaking my native language |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Cholls(m): 4:27pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
my brother e worse pass Patrick Obahiagbon own 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Davash222(m): 4:31pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
You can’t be poor and also a nuisance to the society with your vocabulary. Girls don’t eat vocabulary. 16 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by XhosaNostra(f): 4:33pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
I don't think they're intimidated by your "expansive vocabulary" per se, you're just coming across as a try-hard imo & that's not attractive at all. If you have such a vast wordpool as you claim, then you should be able to use simpler synonyms. It's not that difficult to do. All this use of unnecessary, bombastic words is obnoxious at best because not everyone "studies" the dictionary for words to use in everyday conversation. That's just ridiculous. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 4:39pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Davash222:I don't use the words deliberately brah |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Abortions: 4:54pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago:Why go meet a tailor and stop waiting for someone like me. U go old |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Liliyann(f): 5:14pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Broke boy with high low self esteem!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 6:05pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Liliyann:it's the internet,nobody knows anybody..so young lady or old lady which ever category you might fall in don't just call someone broke while you know nothing about them...think before you utter crude words. 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 6:09pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Abortions:dude I'm not the cause of whatsoever ordeal you're passing through try not to transfer aggression to a pseudonym dumb African boy! |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
then use money toast them nau |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 6:18pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Davash222:I've encountered a lot of dumb people today I hope you're not one...dude I'm alive and that's enough reason to say am rich...think about it 7 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 6:19pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
lefulefu:I never said I'm looking for a LovePeddler my nigga! |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by raphretle: 6:31pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
the same way you learnt the vocabularies... use the same process for simpler and easy to understand words... |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago:use wat u have to get wat u want no be so dem dey talk am dem oshio baba and tinubu na money dem take get their wives but then if u no wan use money then package urself dress well and look nice.babes like guys who look nice.forget about grammer . |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 7:53pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
lefulefu:I dig your point brah.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Uniquetani1(f): 8:14pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
always give them dictionary when speaking with them 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago: We have the solution you're looking for. I have been in your shoes as well. I'll get back to you when I have some free time to spare. Happy new year. 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Wuraola01(f): 8:38pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago: @Op, you quite funny Well, you alone can change things. Try to speak in lame man's language. From ur post, I kind of have the feeling you do it intentionally. My observation tho 2 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Davash222(m): 8:41pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago:We have over a hundred and fifty million Nigerians alive today. You are not the only person alive, shut up and go and hustle. Don’t let your nonsense vocabulary deceive you . 3 Likes |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 8:44pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Wuraola01:lol I bet you read psyches understanding is the major key! Great observation |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by sanmtiago(m): 8:49pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Davash222:why you still crying over a pseudonym's post?? Die na make you know say your hustle without God and common sense na nothing..African riffraff With limited thinking 1 Like |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Wuraola01(f): 8:55pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Diamond23(f): 9:16pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
sanmtiago:
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Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by mrblessed(m): 9:56pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
I surmise it is your "comprehensive" knowledge of the English language that is responsible for the refusal to obey punctuation rules. It is one thing to memorise high-sounding words to be used for show-off, while it is entirely another thing to understand the rules and conventions of the language. The latter, and not the former, depicts true and grounded learning. So much for possessing "excessive" vocabularies. |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by Ranchhoddas: 9:59pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Jester! |
Re: I Can't Woo A Girl Because Of My Uncontrollable Way Of Using Too Much Vocabulari by mrblessed(m): 10:01pm On Jan 05, 2019 |
Wuraola01:Nope. The Op will never speak in "lame" man's language. I prefer a "blind" man's language. |
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