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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Youngpo413: 2:50pm On Apr 07
BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .
Fine boys no dey pay.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Youngpo413: 3:45pm On Apr 07
mayort12:
You're very correct,
What do I talk to him about, you guys know yourselves. He will start to think I'm bugging him on marriage issues and all that.
I thought of waiting too,but is it advisable? I'm 26 now, in 2 years time, I'll be 28.
Don't wait for him if you dont want to you can go ahead and marry a man you dont love,I heard love grows with time...or u marry to pass time then divorce and marry your lover when he is ready...or you can also do what your mates are doing...that is marry now cheat later...thats killing 3 birds with one stone!
No wonder marriage is a joke nowadays...cést pitoyàble.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Richimills(m): 4:44pm On Apr 07
Always be proud of your partner ...was ashamed of showing off my ex...thou i loved her,it didnt stop her from leaving me for a smart/sharp guy... Sometimes women like publicity .... Really don't give a �now...just want to be richly happy.
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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by dingbang(m): 11:10am On Apr 14
Yuneehk:

Well, some of us look way younger than our real ages. What they call stainless body, e no dey old. Thanks for the compliment tho cheesy
fine girl hawa you. I dey lagos . make we see cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vikkimimi(f): 3:20pm On Apr 14
alfredo4u:
Paying her school fees and feeding her for four years in school and after everything she dumped me for my friend........

Today, the two of them are working for me in my fathers company.












Just be good no matter what

It's the Lord's doing...lol
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vikkimimi(f): 3:21pm On Apr 14
soberdrunk:
Never ever confess!!! Stick to your lie!! angry

For real?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vikkimimi(f): 3:23pm On Apr 14
Deflames01:
avoid long distance relationship. last last you still need the money

You may be right.....or not
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vikkimimi(f): 3:24pm On Apr 14
katunboy:
Girls are confused in nature, they don't really know what they want.. The biggest thing I learnt is lie is wht they want most.

They don't know what they want........Then lie is what they now want.....?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by soberdrunk(m): 3:26pm On Apr 14
vikkimimi:


For real?


For real!!!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Just2endowed2(m): 4:14pm On Apr 14
Una well done
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Raydans: 7:47pm On May 19
Funny
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Starz825(m): 9:26pm On May 19
Don't expect your partner to love you the way you love them....becos u love a lady 100% don't expect 100% from her...always expect your partner to disappoint you..hope for the best prepare the worst
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Obarofrederick(m): 7:01pm On May 20
b0rn2fuck:
Now I enjoyed life, no pressure, no seeing miss call and be panicking , no unnecessary transfer from mobile application, no woman following me to ATM and even be helping me press the amount using her nipples to reset my brain system to suite her task, I don suffer , life is sweet if you stop looking for woman and stop impressing them, if you don't care/you don't get hurt even if she snap with 1000 guys and be uploading, but the moment you turn to father Christmas/ you will almost died of attack or commit suicide even she snap with just 1 guy self, my dick cannot give the directions of my life anymore, my brain do the job now while my dick hear words, I dab for my lifestyle now but the mumu past make me a better person, I dab again!!
you are wise my brother. You deserve an accolade

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by tunize(m): 7:13pm On May 20
selfwife:
Never trust a man with all. Something you never considered might be his downfall.
sorry i find ur last line confusing how do you mean pls?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by selfwife(f): 7:18pm On May 20
tunize:

sorry i find ur last line confusing how do you mean pls?
what you consider is strength might actually be is weakness. For instance, you may think he won't be involved in fraud, womanizing, pornography, lying, pride and other vices you can think of only to find out he is involved in such things. Do you understand me a bit now?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by tunize(m): 8:18pm On May 20
selfwife:
what you consider is strength might actually be is weakness. For instance, you may think he won't be involved in fraud, womanizing, pornography, lying, pride and other vices you can think of only to find out he is involved in such things. Do you understand me a bit now?
i tink i do a little though. but judging wit the said topic, anyway forget it. but all these are weakness that can be corrected.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by periphetes: 8:32pm On May 20
PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.

Hmmn bruv, all you did for her was out of love and deep emotional feeling I respect that. But, not all ladies deserves such full attention.

The bad signs are always there at the beginning, most ladies are materialistic, selfish, self-centered and Non-supportive. I do advise dudes test a lady after 3 months of commitment relationship.

Example Pose temporarily you got a little challenge and see what kind of assistance she can render. This will reveal her true nature either good or bad.

Lastly, giving and sharing In a relationship should be reciprocal even if you are more capable for the both of you. Don't act like Santa Claus always to her needs else you will lose value to any lady. Cheers
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by selfwife(f): 10:14pm On May 20
tunize:

i tink i do a little though. but judging wit the said topic, anyway forget it. but all these are weakness that can be corrected.
somethings can not be corrected anymore by a partner except the person affected decides to. lesson I learnt from my past relationship is that he is he and you are you. many things should be left alone as they are. and others should be done with limit even if you do get married.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by tunize(m): 10:35pm On May 20
selfwife:
somethings can not be corrected anymore by a partner except the person affected decides to. lesson I learnt from my past relationship is that he is he and you are you. many things should be left alone as they are. and others should be done with limit even if you do get married.
hmmm your words are deep though. are you female or male?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by selfwife(f): 6:42am On May 21
tunize:
hmmm your words are deep though. are you female or male?
i am female.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by luminouz(m): 9:17am On May 21
BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?
Lol..
Where are u based?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by tunize(m): 3:27pm On May 21
selfwife:
i am female.
okay.
where are u from?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Godsgracee: 6:18am On Jun 12
May God be with you!!
selfwife:
I once gave love a trial. we trusted each other explicitly. I could breathe love. I was working(i made sure I never made the mistake of asking for anything) he was working. he was a single father and I accepted him and is baby (the baby already called me big Mummy). we had goals, dreams, to me, everything was damn set. we were planning to get married,we got the parents involved, excitement was everywhere.... Suddenly, I started seeing him with small small stuffs like nice clothes and perfumes that I knew he didn't buy(we buy on budget) I became inquisitive. I will never check my man's phone.... so I took him out that weekend as usual, made sure he drank double of what he is used too( though he can still talk sense) I started asking questions and he replied (he was now going out with a rich ex who was ready to give him this and that -all material things) I told him that with a steady growth, we will achieve all her promises.......... the next week, he told me not to come to his place again that he will look for another means for us to meet each other by now, I was in tears, I cried my eyes out, what will I tell everybody? for what reason? money? I forgot about my health, bp start to go up.headache.me that have hormonal issues before hmm my body was in a mess. I increased the number of Guinness I took per day, I ate uncontrollably. I couldn't figure out what I did wrong. I called and called. I cried and cried and yes I ate and ate. I landed in the hospital my blood pressure was high something I never experienced before.................... to cut the long story short, I tooky life my the horn..... I had no savings again all spent at the hospital, I took a loan, and got a room apartment, I changed my church, and changed those contacts (our mutual fake friends) he is now with the woman and I am now with my peace of mind......... ........I Am happy to inform you that as of yesterday, he is looking for a divorce lawyer because everything did not turn out as expected.HE THINKS HE CAN COME BACK AND I LAUGH IN MY LANGUAGE because my peace can not be compromised.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by tommyken(m): 7:05am On Jun 12
Some ladies are not looking for love but who to solve their needs...I will always thank god for the big lesson I learnt in my past relationship. The true test of love from a woman is when you are broke.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by TheControversy: 7:13am On Jun 12
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.
Finally it's over
I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough
You deserve better bro
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by stinflame: 12:41pm On Jun 12
mayort12:
Lol, seriously? What's the morally wrong thing about it? What full package? Guy, I'm not like that at all, just remove all those servicing things from your head and think straight. You can't just open your mouth and start spitting rubbish. During these 7 years, we've never even had sex ever.
Please, just keep your opinions if you don't have something meaningful to contribute.

Even if u were having sex is it any of their business, kudos to u for been with a guy for seven years. Am sure u both are now like sibling which is the essence of a Happy home.. Sadly the society have made things tough for we the youths. If he is really serious about u, talk to him let him spell out his plans and let's him tell you if you in with him or not. It will be assuring to know you both are In on him finding stability. Trust me it isn't easy finding love out there don't be deceive, unless ur partner is less of human, then u right to walk out.

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