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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Rextizzle(m): 5:48pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.
Mumu

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by bluefilm: 5:48pm On Jan 12
PharmaGirl:
Makes sense.

I dey tell you.

It made a lot of sense.

I'm even suspecting it was a guy that penned the piece or maybe the girl is just speaking from her own personal painful experience.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Edge1(m): 5:50pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.


So you are not ashamed to tell us all that your are too lazy to read abi? Your life would have been a bit better this year if you took time to read till the end.
I know you are still below 25 and experience will teach you better. I can deliver this medicine to you wherever you are at no cost

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by bluefilm: 5:50pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.

You know you are just arguing with yourself, right?

Everything in that piece is sacrosanct.

Going or arguing otherwise is just making noise.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Rextizzle(m): 5:50pm On Jan 12
BecaciaBarbie:
I think this message should be, don't turn all men down as she didn't address the situation where a girl can be with a guy for so many years without the signs of any marriage proposal coming soon. If such relationship collapsed, that girl would have wasted her youthful life with the destiny waster of a dude lol is it her fault? She wasn't twisting her waist on the bed with different guys, she was a good girl but foolishly relied on just one man. So really, it is never always the faults of these ladies. I know many people with this exact situation which I believe is very common.


Ladies, pray against destiny wasters and do not turn all men down! You are single unless you are married.
For your mind grin
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by olufolarin2222: 5:50pm On Jan 12
Brothers in the lord. Beware of those SU sisters in church oooo. Most of them are Serious after useless
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by LegitGirl(f): 5:51pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend

She didn't even give credit to the original author. Seen the post somewhere else before...last year.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by riversatikulate: 5:52pm On Jan 12
dokunbam:
Experience is the best teacher
Advice from grand olosho
Please take to it o


grin
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by TemmyT002(m): 5:52pm On Jan 12
Unfortunately, out of many ladies that then post is meant for, only 1 percent will listen.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 5:52pm On Jan 12
Clap ! Clap!! Clap!!!
Dis lady is awesome ,she is frm aguata in anambra...ladies there ar so wise n carefull.
I am a devorcee ,married at 25 to a ritualist.hmmm.
Miss achipu God safeguard u 4 ur uncommon wisdom

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by marvin906(m): 5:53pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend


Ohhh shut up..
This what I hate about Nigerian girls they will never admit the truth..
Anything that doesn't favor them is crap

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 5:56pm On Jan 12
LegitGirl:


She didn't even give credit to the original author. Seen the post somewhere else before...last year.
she wrote it herself, i no d lady n her brilliance

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Edge1(m): 5:57pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend


You will not learn now, tomorrow you'll be the one wanting to trend with your outdated and disgusting "MEN ARE SCUM" lines. Now receive sense before sunset, you no gree.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by lilmax(m): 5:58pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend
where's the lie?
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by marvin906(m): 5:58pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.




I don't blame you is the guy that did this to I blame

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by oluwasegun007(m): 5:59pm On Jan 12
Bossontop:
undecided
Dem no go hear now ooo.....later now we go see dem for SHILOH dey form prayer warriors


This your gif na die ooo... grin grin grin

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by larryking540: 6:01pm On Jan 12
Echine:
cheesy ;
cheesy
Some gals are d worst creatures when it comes to taking of an advise
tongue

I don't waste my time advising ladies
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 6:01pm On Jan 12
bluefilm:


I dey you.

It made a lot of sense.

I'm even suspecting it was a guy that penned the piece or maybe the girl is just speaking from her own personal painful experience.
4 ur mind all ladies ar fools(dis insult is horrible), remember some ladies ar trained n grilled more dan men,
I talk commonsense on social media dey call me a man,


I talk dsame mutually dey ask ar my human or angel ,dont use because most ladies ar inexperience n criticise d few wise one,
2 me wisdom comes frm suffering n God

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by riversatikulate: 6:03pm On Jan 12
franchasng:
Marrying a lady below 25yrs is suicide mission in our present time and in Nigeria especially.

Marry ladies above 25yrs, that's the age majority of Nigerian ladies start to develop sense



You are correct but even at that age they are easily laid by other men.

married women love sex these days

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by lilmax(m): 6:06pm On Jan 12
riversatikulate:




You are correct but even at that age they are easily laid by other men.

married women love sex these days
who dey pester these women for sex? women?
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by JJOF(m): 6:06pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend
At least she wants to trend by dishing out good advice, not by xposing her body.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 6:06pm On Jan 12
1stpikin:
Eye service somborry

So you ever think straight?
Or just dumb

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Ranchhoddas(m): 6:09pm On Jan 12
Not again...
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by victorian(f): 6:10pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.













Don't mind her

She thinks life is all about getting married to any dead beat guy because the ass and boobs is standing firm.

Does she think all men are husband materials ?

Thank God she mentioned men who were cursed in life but babe still sleep with them ,carrying along the guy curses or different men curses .lol

@22, I got engaged to a ritualist , if not for God I would have been history then. I escaped to avoid been killed . it was a traumatic experience and I stayed off men for 5years !
@ 30 years , another guy I wanted to marry , aslo had the sick idea to use me for rituals again!

Possibly they feel because I look successful , their juju go accept me but fortunately for me , it failed and I freed myself through God .

Later one useless op, we will talking about marriage as if most men out there are God sent ? Smhhhhh!

Anyways my own is look well, Pray about any suitor cominf your way before u marry . Be very very careful , not all men u see wearing trousers are meant for marriage .
Not all men smiling are u are angels , some are demons in human form.

Word!

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by LegitGirl(f): 6:11pm On Jan 12
husbandsnatcha:
she wrote it herself, i no d lady n her brilliance

I wish I could dig out the first post for you... but I don't have the strength. It was written by a man.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Pavarottii(m): 6:19pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.
U jsut want to talk cos u must talk... Did u even read d write up? Where did she say u should rush and marryl?

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Mikeyy: 6:19pm On Jan 12
Nigerian girls are so selfis!.... Not all tho!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by fastseo: 6:22pm On Jan 12
bluefilm:


I dey you.

It made a lot of sense.

I'm even suspecting it was a guy that penned the piece or maybe the girl is just speaking from her own personal painful experience.

Why not learn from experience.
She says the whole truth... Look for a man that is understanding, listening, mature in thought and build something from it.
There is a girl I was chatting with few days ago, my age mate and class mate, I notice she blame her village aunt for not being able to settle down and also I noticed she turns down men who don't have the kind of money E money them have.

I ask her to list her type of man. Her description is something else, she can't suffer in marriage, this that. I reminded her we are now 30, she said that does not concern her, she is forever young.
But a certain time will come when I know she will humble if she refuse to settle down now.


My mom keep on reminding me that at 33 she has given birth to all of us that early marriage is the best for both men and women..
Lastly see Linda that preaches up and down finally she quickly went to find a way to fix her life.

The society we leave in sees a girl as nothing with out a man. Young girls won't understand this untill they are 35 to 40 you will understand that you surely need a man by you.

I for one won't and never marry a woman that's same age with me if am 30 I will go 5 or 8 years downward. If am 35 I will still prefer to go down to find those who are 28 downward after all who no like better thing

Cos I know when she gives birth to 2 her real age will show.

A woman bargaining power lies when she is in her twenties

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by koyeni(m): 6:24pm On Jan 12
cool
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 6:24pm On Jan 12
Men ar d one making life bitter n frustrating 4 ladies, (am married wt 2)
Men help ur fellowmen so dey can come n reduce d number of unmarried ladies,
1. U wont give dem job n u give it 2 ladies
Ques. Can a lady pay a brideprice ? No
2. U wont give dem contract but u give ladies n even help 2 correct dia wrong quotations
Ques .women wt 8million in account wont remember her swt n broke fiancee.but go 2 d likes of adenuga sons n dantata sons who has 100 ladies already

I was happy dat women ar taking over jobs increasingly ,through men benevolence.unlike b4 but
I saw d adverse effect dat unmarried women has increased so meticulously
Example: my company in onne ,my superior loves women 2 a fault as am talking 2 u all of us in d company ar women even d engineers ,i dey pepper me eh,No man 2 chill out wt during lunch .
In d whole company is only me n yemisi a yoruba lady dat is married.

Unmarried women has increased 2 a greater number by 50%...Am afraid i wl lose my husband 2 a diabolical lady,i av dat feeling

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Daeylar(f): 6:25pm On Jan 12
victorian:














Don't mind her

She thinks life is all about getting married to any dead beat guy because the ass and boobs is standing firm.


Does she think all men are husband materials ?


I just tire for the babe.

And she is making it seem like the only reason men are coming for marriage is because of breast and ass and these are the kind of men we should be rushing to marry.

Men who only come around for breast ass and looks. Such shallow reasons.
We should marry men who only came for our body.


Thank God she mentioned men who were cursed in life but babe still sleep with them ,carrying along the guy curses or different men curses .lol


My own is look well, before u marry . Be very careful , not all men u see wearing trousers are meant for marriage .

Simple!


That's all.
It's to be careful.



It's better for a babe to keep going from men to men. Dating and breaking up under 6 months rather than marrying a man not good for her Or wasting time dating a man she knows won't work for 1 year or more, so that this one will clap for the lady that she knows how to bend down and build a solid relationship or know how to tolerate men
After all if a lady knows under 6 months that a man is not for her, isn't she expected to break up and find someone that will work?


If the same lady dates a man for 3 years or more and breaks up, They will still attack her for wasting her youth on a man when she was supposed to be smart and date many men.
If she stays single, they will attack her for not using her time wisely to look for a man. They will attack her for being single.

SMH
When will women rest?

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