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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by fastseo: 7:42pm On Jan 12
1Sharon:


If she takes care of herself, this shouldn't happen. Exercising and staying slim is important


You can't cheat nature, in fact I heard she lost more kids cos the doc said her womb was weak and she couldn't push.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by tfash96(m): 7:42pm On Jan 12
dokunbam:
Experience is the best teacher

Advice from grand olosho

Please take to it o
lol
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by webizone(m): 7:43pm On Jan 12
So many guys just don't know what to do to get the girls they would go through life with. Girls, if a guy says hi please reply. You may never know.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by tunary(m): 7:44pm On Jan 12
This is wisdom from a female

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by islandmoon: 7:44pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:


What happened to my DP? grin


I dont know oo! cheesy I dont look at peoples DP, whats my business with Onitsha goat seller cheesy cheesy ?

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by victorian(f): 7:47pm On Jan 12
Raalsalghul:









They must have checked my star. Get confirmation , OK she has a bright star. So she can be used. Forgetting that not every person who has a bright star can be used for rituals , especially when God's stamp is on the Lady or male .
Killing such person , u kil for nothing . cos money wont spill out .

Women are really endangered species in Nigeria .

But God gave me the grace and strength to escape .

Do u know how traumatic it is ? Worst experience ever to go through especially when all the lady feel is love and commitment towards her partner .

Worst ever.

Anyways thats in the past but I sometimes remember during reading post like this one, and it comes rushing down my brain like it happened yesterday.
I thank God I can eat well. Sleep well , buy whatever I want without any man breathing down my neck and telling me my life story because of bills .

I thank God for taking care of my needs . God is great!

Baba God I thank you!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by tfash96(m): 7:47pm On Jan 12
OdikwaRisky:
shùt the fučk up ho! smelling attention seeker. life doesn't begin and end with men and marriage.
Then die a single then.And this thing is forming o she's not a virgin o

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by sallazlee(m): 7:52pm On Jan 12
true talk�
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by prince3009(m): 7:55pm On Jan 12
jasonguru:
If girls take this advice, there won't be a case of buying oneself a husband

Just like one wanted to buy me by promising me heaven and earth if I can just marry her.

I ran like Usain Bolt

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by tfash96(m): 7:55pm On Jan 12
OdikwaRisky:
shut the fùck up! whats the whole fuss about marriage sef?? not everyone will marry by age 25, its okay to marry at 35 and 40 also. tbh Nigerian men aren't even worth this whole marriage craze grin
are u even worthy of being in relationship with let alone marriage?u this obstreperous monster

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1stpikin(f): 7:57pm On Jan 12
grin
Bamz:

Are you referring to 1stpikin? grin
Have you been bitten before grin
Bamz:

Are you referring to 1stpikin? grin
Have you been bitten before
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by mhizbel(f): 7:58pm On Jan 12
Super cool!
This is the best thing I've read in recent times.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1stpikin(f): 7:59pm On Jan 12
grin
Bamz:

Are you referring to 1stpikin? grin
Have you been bitten before grin
Bamz:

Are you referring to 1stpikin? grin
Have you been bitten before

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Sabby1(m): 8:05pm On Jan 12
On point but only if possible
I don wakáàâ

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by RighteousI: 8:06pm On Jan 12
THE COWARD WOMAN IS CRYING OVER SPILT MILK!

Shame on you coward woman, the Bible says he shall rule over you.
Now you are crying like a female dog.
instead of cowardly crying over spilt milk, confess your crimes as you have done and accept your sentence which is singleness at 30+

FYI, even though you get 1000 likes on Facebook in your early twenties, 90℅ of those men that flock to you in your early twenties want to pull down your silk or cotton pants and have sex with you; they do not marry you, honour you and love you.

you are a bloody fool to believe that a good man that will love, honour and protect you, will flock to your Facebook page, comment on your youthful breast on the street or smile at you anyhow. men that do that are pervert men like your father.

it takes skill for the woman to identity the very few husband material men out of the multitudes of pervert men that will start chasing her at 16.
most women do not acquire this skill until they reach 40+ years.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by koyyes: 8:09pm On Jan 12
In a country where very few people teach their daughters to have higher aspirations, I am not surprised that all a typical Nigerian female sees herself as is a tool for sexual gratification. That is how they measure their worth which is a big, disgusting shame.

Marriage or no marriage, breast will still fall, tummy will still bulge out, fats go full everywhere. But a man that looks beyond the physical will pick his wife of any age and remain faithful to her.

Let the dogs drool after the 20 something and replace them with their children's mates. It is this type of males that fit the creator of this dumb epistle.

If she had sense. She will know that marriage is not about breast and nyash. Neither should a female see herself as a tool for sexual gratification only in marriage. By the time she jam male with low sperm count, her head go correct.

Finger battery d1ck males be like 'she is right'.
Una never start to pay rent and school fees. Na breast and nyash una go use pay. Dumb kids.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by escapefromusa(m): 8:11pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
When will women rest?

If you do not want to get married, make it clear to important people in your life. It might shock them, however, after a while, they will accept it.
And, if you do want to get married, then you need to plan toward achieving "this". It's a goal like every other goal, job promotion, passive income e.t.c
You must plan for it, the more effort you put into it, the better your results.

All the so called "olosho's" married to successful men, put in work - it was a goal; to marry well for them.
Pick your goal/goals and stop waiting for the 99% of the society who live a pathetic life and constantly need validation from the majority ; join the 1% that rules of the 99%

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Bamz(m): 8:12pm On Jan 12
1stpikin:
grin

Have you been bitten before grin

Have you been bitten before

So now you bite? angry
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by ianq: 8:13pm On Jan 12
husbandsnatcha:
Clap ! Clap!! Clap!!!
Dis lady is awesome ,she is frm aguata in anambra...ladies there ar so wise n carefull.
I am a devorcee ,married at 25 to a ritualist.hmmm.
Miss achipu God safeguard u 4 ur uncommon wisdom

Ur smile indeed does not deceive me...but ur figure.the hips especially would make a man's knees go mush and his brain turn into cotton candy.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1stpikin(f): 8:15pm On Jan 12
Bamz:

So now you bite? angry



*winks
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Daeylar(f): 8:19pm On Jan 12
What prompted this mentioñ? before you give someone a mentioñ? it should be in response to a person's post, if not it becomes meaningless and pointless.
So what was the message in response to?
escapefromusa:


If you do not want to get married, make it clear to important people in your life. It might shock them, however, after a while, they will accept it.
And, if you do want to get married, then you need to plan toward achieving "this". It's a goal like every other goal, job promotion, passive income e.t.c
You must plan for it, the more effort you put into it, the better your results.

All the so called "olosho's" married to successful men, put in work - it was a goal; to marry well for them.
Pick your goal/goals and stop waiting for the 99% of the society who live a pathetic life and constantly need validation from the majority ; join the 1% that rules of the 99%
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by intrinsicniyi(m): 8:22pm On Jan 12
Bossontop:
undecided
Dem no go hear now ooo.....later now we go see dem for SHILOH dey form prayer warriors



Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!! This killed me. grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by BecaciaBarbie(f): 8:30pm On Jan 12
Mbkite:

you're smart. can we be friends?
Lol thanks.... Sure... smiley
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 8:32pm On Jan 12
kunleweb:



My dear sister.may your oil not run dry.

You spoke well. I've always said this same thing. I'm glaglad a female is seeing.things from this point of view.
Tanks.
D issue is so frustrating, my husband always Taunt me dat a lot unmarried women disturbs him.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Angelina996(f): 8:35pm On Jan 12
Is she telling us or trying to reinforce the idea/advice in her own head
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Angelina996(f): 8:37pm On Jan 12
Bossontop:
undecided
Dem no go hear now ooo.....later now we go see dem for SHILOH dey form prayer warriors

Mehn, this got me grin grin grin

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:41pm On Jan 12
chiboy1116:
bia husbandsnatcha , what's your say on this matter.
LORD.. shocked.wat did u want me 2 say Nw, i av tasted marriage 4 half a decade ! Dos talk arent 4 me but 4 unmarried ladies
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Tundexxy(m): 8:44pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.

View from other angle...nice one!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by jasper83: 8:44pm On Jan 12
CzarChris:
I always get pissed off when I see or hear this kind of utter rubbish, "marry early so that you and your kids grow up together". Who spread this kind of lie everywhere.

You are meant to be a PARENT to direct and guide your kids, not to be your kid's playmate. In growing up, you make mistakes and learn from it, in parenting you teach your children values and mistakes to avoid in life and not to make mistakes together because your "growing up together". This is why we have a lot of poorly raised children everywhere.


Bros with due respect to you , are you married? Because the guy you quoted is right and you are very wrong. Ask around and people who are sincere will tell you parenting is hardwork. You need youthful energy to raise kids, you can't cheat nature. Raising kids is hectic and no child's play, there is time for everything.

If you marry in your forties and give birth say 42 years, presently you may fill nothing but 18 years after you will be 60 years, haba do you want to train a child till you die? Imagine if they are two or three, it's awkward for grandpa like you to be worried about 18 years, 15 years old kids, at that age you be retired, resting and taking your health seriously. God forbids if one of them is stubborn growing up you will fizzle out, that's why kids who grow up with grandparents are spoilt brats. Even at 45 years age as a young dad in the peak of your career raising babies/toddlers for you and wife nah war. Waking up at midnight, I swell you go get migraine. I know what I'm saying.

Our parents were able to put in energy for us because they had us with there youthful strength, I just wonder how this generation always think they are smarter than men and women of yesteryears, and in all ramifications they beat us hands down in achievements, longlife, marital bliss and happy ending. We love fooling ourselves so much with career jargons, and " I'm still waiting for perfect partner gibberish" as if they exist somewhere. Even the white marry early, the point I'm making is if you start early, you rest early. So be truthful to yourself. Life is a journey, you settle down as you go in life.

Gracias.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Tallesty1(m): 8:46pm On Jan 12
CzarChris:
I always get pissed off when I see or hear this kind of utter rubbish, "marry early so that you and your kids grow up together". Who spread this kind of lie everywhere.

You are meant to be a PARENT to direct and guide your kids, not to be your kid's playmate. In growing up, you make mistakes and learn from it, in parenting you teach your children values and mistakes to avoid in life and not to make mistakes together because your "growing up together". This is why we have a lot of poorly raised children everywhere.
If having a father and son moment like this is your definition of poor parenting then let it continue pissing you off till you take your last breathe.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:53pm On Jan 12
ianq:


Ur smile indeed does not deceive me...but ur figure.the hips especially would make a man's knees go mush and his brain turn into cotton candy.
tanks...but am of age
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by husbandsnatcha(f): 8:57pm On Jan 12
LegitGirl:


I wish I could dig out the first post for you... but I don't have the strength. It was written by a man.
but she has been writing Dis type of article even in our school magazine

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