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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by weyreypey: 9:10pm On Jan 12
victorian:









They must have checked my star. Get confirmation , OK she has a bright star. So she can be used. Forgetting that not every person who has a bright star can be used for rituals , especially when God's stamp is on the Lady or male .
Killing such person , u kil for nothing . cos money wont spill out .

Women are really endangered species in Nigeria .

But God gave me the grace and strength to escape .

Do u know how traumatic it is ? Worst experience ever to go through especially when all the lady feel is love and commitment towards her partner .

Worst ever.

Anyways thats in the past but I sometimes remember during reading post like this one, and it comes rushing down my brain like it happened yesterday.
I thank God I can eat well. Sleep well , buy whatever I want without any man breathing down my neck and telling me my life story because of bills .

I thank God for taking care of my needs . God is great!

Baba God I thank you!

You really have PTSD.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by tosyne2much(m): 9:21pm On Jan 12
BecaciaBarbie:
I think this message should be, don't turn all men down as she didn't address the situation where a girl can be with a guy for so many years without the signs of any marriage proposal coming soon. If such relationship collapsed, that girl would have wasted her youthful life with the destiny waster of a dude lol is it her fault? She wasn't twisting her waist on the bed with different guys, she was a good girl but foolishly relied on just one man. So really, it is never always the faults of these ladies. I know many people with this exact situation which I believe is very common.


Ladies, pray against destiny wasters and do not turn all men down! You are single unless you are married.
Na so cheesy
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Badilstical(m): 9:28pm On Jan 12
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 9:42pm On Jan 12
victorian:




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Don't mind her

She thinks life is all about getting married to any dead beat guy because the ass and boobs is standing firm.

Does she think all men are husband materials ?

Thank God she mentioned men who were cursed in life but babe still sleep with them ,carrying along the guy curses or different men curses .lol

@22, I got engaged to a ritualist , if not for God I would have been history then. I escaped to avoid been killed . it was a traumatic experience and I stayed off men for 5years !
@ 30 years , another guy I wanted to marry , aslo had the sick idea to use me for rituals again!

Possibly they feel because I look successful , their juju go accept me but fortunately for me , it failed and I freed myself through God .

Later one useless op, we will talking about marriage as if most men out there are God sent ? Smhhhhh!

Anyways my own is look well, Pray about any suitor cominf your way before u marry . Be very very careful , not all men u see wearing trousers are meant for marriage .
Not all men smiling are u are angels , some are demons in human form.

Word!

i av a friend here in nairaland who married a ritualist frm agbor 2 @mamaV, but d lady is lyk 60% ryt in her write up, read it wtout sentiment u wl understand
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by gentlechyke(m): 9:49pm On Jan 12
Westaslave2:
Men ar d one making life bitter n frustrating 4 ladies, (am married wt 2)
Men help ur fellowmen so dey can come n reduce d number of unmarried ladies,
1. U wont give dem job n u give it 2 ladies
Ques. Can a lady pay a brideprice ? No
2. U wont give dem contract but u give ladies n even help 2 correct dia wrong quotations
Ques .women wt 8million in account wont remember her swt n broke fiancee.but go 2 d likes of adenuga sons n dantata sons

I was happy dat women ar taking over jobs increasingly ,through men benevolence.unlike b4 but
I saw d adverse effect dat unmarried women has increased so meticulously
Example: my company in onne ,my superior loves women 2 a fault as am talking 2 u all of us in d company ar women even d engineers ,i dey pepper me eh,No man 2 chill out wt during lunch .
In d whole company is only me n yemisi a yoruba lady dat is married.

Unmarried women has increased 2 a greater number by 50%...Am afraid i wl lose my husband 2 a diabolical lady,i av dat feeling



If you see me anywhere around you, order for sharwama and Habib yoghurt...so much wisdom. Happened that somewhere I went for an interview..multinational firm at that, the sisis in male clothing were after the young girls and chose them after stages of assessment..imagine i got that job, a single lady would definitely be off the market in 3years time at most. smiley undecided

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 9:59pm On Jan 12
victorian:









They must have checked my star. Get confirmation , OK she has a bright star. So she can be used. Forgetting that not every person who has a bright star can be used for rituals , especially when God's stamp is on the Lady or male .
Killing such person , u kil for nothing . cos money wont spill out .

Women are really endangered species in Nigeria .

But God gave me the grace and strength to escape .

Do u know how traumatic it is ? Worst experience ever to go through especially when all the lady feel is love and commitment towards her partner .

Worst ever.

Anyways thats in the past but I sometimes remember during reading post like this one, and it comes rushing down my brain like it happened yesterday.
I thank God I can eat well. Sleep well , buy whatever I want without any man breathing down my neck and telling me my life story because of bills .

I thank God for taking care of my needs . God is great!

Baba God I thank you!
blame it on our govt, dey av made life difficult,

Men cant pay bills anymore
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 10:03pm On Jan 12
RighteousI:
THE COWARD WOMAN IS CRYING OVER SPILT MILK!

Shame on you coward woman, the Bible says he shall rule over you.
Now you are crying like a female dog.
instead of cowardly crying over spilt milk, confess your crimes as you have done and accept your sentence which is singleness at 30+

FYI, even though you get 1000 likes on Facebook in your early twenties, 90℅ of those men that flock to you in your early twenties want to pull down your silk or cotton pants and have sex with you; they do not marry you, honour you and love you.

you are a bloody fool to believe that a good man that will love, honour and protect you, will flock to your Facebook page, comment on your youthful breast on the street or smile at you anyhow. men that do that are pervert men like your father.

it takes skill for the woman to identity the very few husband material men out of the multitudes of pervert men that will start chasing her at 16.
most women do not acquire this skill until they reach 40+ years.



Omg...
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 10:23pm On Jan 12
gentlechyke:


If you see me anywhere around you, order for sharwama and Habib yoghurt...so much wisdom. Happened that somewhere I went for an interview..multinational firm at that, the sisis in male clothing were after the young girls and chose them after stages of assessment..imagine i got that job, a single lady would definitely be off the market in 3years time at most. smiley undecided
Yes ,tanks 4 d compliment,
But i see great evil because of d level unmarried ladies, No matrimonial home is safe! Men who ar d one marrying ladies ar jobless or doing menial job after graduation ,ladies wt all dis job(120k - 600k monthly) stil has great depression just because of unmarried life n loneliness.
,My friend ie my school daughter back then in college
Is wt depression upon she is paid well .

Men shud help men do reduce unmarried ladies plight b4 we wl experience "marry me cursed plague"

As am talking 2 u all isnt well in my life,Am battling my fellow lady who wants 2 destroy me diabolically n my home (tanks 4 nairaland wie i come 2 pour out my troubled self )..pray 4 me pls

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by gentlechyke(m): 10:29pm On Jan 12
Westaslave2:
Yes ,tanks 4 d compliment,
But i see great evil because of d level unmarried ladies, No matrimonial home is safe! Men who ar d one marrying ladies ar jobless or doing menial job after graduation ,ladies wt all dis job(120k - 600k monthly) stil has great depression just because of unmarried life n loneliness.
,My friend ie my school daughter back then in college
Is wt depression upon she is paid well .

Men shud help men do reduce unmarried ladies plight b4 we wl experience "marry me cursed plague"

As am talking 2 u all isnt well in my life,Am battling my fellow lady who wants 2 destroy me diabolically n my home (tanks 4 nairaland wie i come 2 pour out my troubled self )..pray 4 me pls
It's a sad situation. But we will keep pushing even if they don't assist their fellow young men.
My prayer goes to you. No plan of your enemy will be victorious over you or yours. Amen!!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Blyzz(m): 10:33pm On Jan 12
BornnAgainChild:
Im so guilty of this embarassed
is alright. I'm still young oh. I hope you're young and cute?
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by CzarChris(m): 10:52pm On Jan 12
Tallesty1:
If having a father and son moment like this is your definition of poor parenting then let it continue pissing you off till you take your last breathe.
In my comment, I never insulted you our wished you misery till your dying day, but I don't blame you it is your lack of basic home training that has your mind stuck in the gutters. Well you are entitled to your opinion no matter how deprived and degraded it is.

But the issue remains that maturity and stability which I believe all comes with experience, but what can I say let kids keep breeding and raising kids. By the way marriage and raising kids isn't all about these beautiful picture perfect moments, it also entails proper direction.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Blyzz(m): 10:54pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.
and you think I would love to marry a girl whose sharp and body has lost alignment. No, I don't do girls stuff. If she's not attractive, I'm out. It not about love or true love.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by koyyes: 11:04pm On Jan 12
Westaslave2:
Yes ,tanks 4 d compliment,
But i see great evil because of d level unmarried ladies, No matrimonial home is safe! Men who ar d one marrying ladies ar jobless or doing menial job after graduation ,ladies wt all dis job(120k - 600k monthly) stil has great depression just because of unmarried life n loneliness.
,My friend ie my school daughter back then in college
Is wt depression upon she is paid well .

Men shud help men do reduce unmarried ladies plight b4 we wl experience "marry me cursed plague"

As am talking 2 u all isnt well in my life,Am battling my fellow lady who wants 2 destroy me diabolically n my home (tanks 4 nairaland wie i come 2 pour out my troubled self )..pray 4 me pls

What are you saying?

If all the women were married, you think that will stop your husband from cheating on you?

You are not happy that most women can work and feed themselves. You want a situation of gender discrimination so we all go back to the stones ages where females either have the option of being a maid or a wh0re?

If fellow women like you can't help your fellow women get jobs, who will?

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Dollabiz: 11:14pm On Jan 12
Tallesty1:
No guy is young at 40.



Marry early so that you can play ball with your kids.

thats why guys married early without plans and.struggle.hard till they fifty raising.kids without achievement thinking.that the kids are investment.

bettee plan.ya life and invest.struggle before marriage so as to enjoy.ya marriage,women.of.nowadays wont.let their.kids play.ball.with you if.you are broke

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by kokomilala(m): 11:15pm On Jan 12
A rolling stone gathers no moss.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Drsavage(m): 11:23pm On Jan 12
1stpikin:
Eye service somborry

No take advice... Be saying shīt, until you clock 35... Then you blame your village people

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 11:31pm On Jan 12
1stpikin:



I know your type; the category of humans that wants to feel among. Biko sit down joor

I know your type; the category of humans that wants to feel among. Biko sit down joor[/quote]

If feeling among is how you see it then so be it
But let me ask you this question, if the lady in this picture was your sister, wife or mother and you see someone saying trash about her what would you do?
You see Mr having a sick mind is a great disease
A lady is there saying saying the truth and all you can say is she trying to do eye service. Even if it eye service do you ever give kudos for sincerity.
Bruh check yourself and your thoughts you need help
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by apureclient(m): 11:51pm On Jan 12
SyberKate:
Someone wants to trend
Hmmmmm
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by carter009(m): 12:18am On Jan 13
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by MONIKERREVEALER: 12:25am On Jan 13
Westaslave2:
Yes ,tanks 4 d compliment,
But i see great evil because of d level unmarried ladies, No matrimonial home is safe! Men who ar d one marrying ladies ar jobless or doing menial job after graduation ,ladies wt all dis job(120k - 600k monthly) stil has great depression just because of unmarried life n loneliness.
,My friend ie my school daughter back then in college
Is wt depression upon she is paid well .

Men shud help men do reduce unmarried ladies plight b4 we wl experience "marry me cursed plague"

As am talking 2 u all isnt well in my life,Am battling my fellow lady who wants 2 destroy me diabolically n my home (tanks 4 nairaland wie i come 2 pour out my troubled self )..pray 4 me pls

nothing go happen to you baby.

I got your back nwa.

the Word of God is the ONLY truth!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 12:30am On Jan 13
koyyes:


What are you saying?

If all the women were married, you think that will stop your husband from cheating on you?

You are not happy that most women can work and feed themselves. You want a situation of gender discrimination so we all go back to the stones ages where females either have the option of being a maid or a wh0re?

If fellow women like you can't help your fellow women get jobs, who will?


My words ar deep nt 4 ur type! I av dumped twitter n facebook because of immature pple there!

Nw i av some1 wt a low IQ in here, WAT!!

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by generationz(f): 12:36am On Jan 13
Westaslave2:
Men ar d one making life bitter n frustrating 4 ladies, (am married wt 2)
Men help ur fellowmen so dey can come n reduce d number of unmarried ladies,
1. U wont give dem job n u give it 2 ladies
Ques. Can a lady pay a brideprice ? No
2. U wont give dem contract but u give ladies n even help 2 correct dia wrong quotations
Ques .women wt 8million in account wont remember her swt n broke fiancee.but go 2 d likes of adenuga sons n dantata sons who has 100 ladies already

I was happy dat women ar taking over jobs increasingly ,through men benevolence.unlike b4 but
I saw d adverse effect dat unmarried women has increased so meticulously
Example: my company in onne ,my superior loves women 2 a fault as am talking 2 u all of us in d company ar women even d engineers ,i dey pepper me eh,No man 2 chill out wt during lunch .
In d whole company is only me n yemisi a yoruba lady dat is married.

Unmarried women has increased 2 a greater number by 50%...Am afraid i wl lose my husband 2 a diabolical lady,i av dat feeling



why are you afraid?
are you not a child of God?
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 12:37am On Jan 13
gentlechyke:

It's a sad situation. But we will keep pushing even if they don't assist their fellow young men.
My prayer goes to you. No plan of your enemy will be victorious over you or yours. Amen!!
Amen ! Amen!! Dis is d highest fight in my lifetime nt 4 my husband only but 2 be alive .
A young lady of 24 for dat matter!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Valerie47(f): 4:13am On Jan 13
We women should realize that men need us more than we need them, forget their pride and ego, after forming, at the end they will still come around, we've barely entered the year, I'm single on purpose but already I've gotten two marriage proposals from my friends.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by gentlechyke(m): 5:32am On Jan 13
Westaslave2:
Amen ! Amen!! Dis is d highest fight in my lifetime nt 4 my husband only but 2 be alive .
A young lady of 24 for dat matter!

It's a pity. Pray and leave the battle to God
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Daeylar(f): 6:06am On Jan 13
koyyes:
In a country where very few people teach their daughters to have higher aspirations, I am not surprised that all a typical Nigerian female sees herself as is a tool for sexual gratification. That is how they measure their worth which is a big, disgusting shame.

Marriage or no marriage, breast will still fall, tummy will still bulge out, fats go full everywhere. But a man that looks beyond the physical will pick his wife of any age and remain faithful to her.

Let the dogs drool after the 20 something and replace them with their children's mates. It is this type of males that fit the creator of this dumb epistle.

If she had sense. She will know that marriage is not about breast and nyash. Neither should a female see herself as a tool for sexual gratification only in marriage. By the time she jam male with low sperm count, her head go correct.

Finger battery d1ck males be like 'she is right'.
Una never start to pay rent and school fees. Na breast and nyash una go use pay. Dumb kids.

Damn truth.
The girl has no sense.
And it's men who have no sense that will applaud this rubbish she is saying.

Imagine feeling that the only reason men are coming to marry you is because of breast and ass so therefore you better "make hay while the sun shines" because once breast and ass are gone, these men are gone too.
And these are the kind of men she wants girls to seriously consider for marriage and make haste to get married to

Men who only come for breast and ass?
And of course the empty breast and ass men came to clap for her.
She and her breast and ass men. Zero sense.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by koyyes: 8:09am On Jan 13
Westaslave2:
My words ar deep nt 4 ur type! I av dumped twitter n facebook because of immature pple there!

Nw i av some1 wt a low IQ in here, WAT!!

Shut that pile hole of yours. Dumb b1tch. No wonder your horse band is sick of you. It's obvious you went into that fake marriage with just breast and nyash like the op is advising all dumb females like your type to do.

Use your brain for once. Are you not seeing men getting jobs? Have you as a female ever helped your fellow female get a job before?

"Men should help men".

You are by far the most wicked, dumbest and selfish negro b1tch in the surface of this earth.

You deserve what you are facing in your fake marriage.

Rest in pieces in advance.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Tallesty1(m): 8:14am On Jan 13
I never even start and you don dey whine already.
CzarChris:
In my comment, I never insulted you
Oh yea. Calling somebody's opinion utter rubbish simply because you don't agree with them is a compliment isn't it?
CzarChris:
or wished you misery till your dying day
I don't wish you misery, I simply stated the obvious, nice things piss you off so I reminded you how long it is going to keep pissing you off if you don't change because we love nice time with kids.
CzarChris:

but I don't blame you it is your lack of basic home training that has your mind stuck in the gutters.

Well you are entitled to your opinion no matter how deprived and degraded it is.

But the issue remains that maturity and stability which I believe all comes with experience, but what can I say let kids keep breeding and raising kids
You've a single core processor bro and that single core still have a very narrow focus.

Who said that maturity and stability deprives one the opportunity of having a nice time with kids?

It is people with your idea or parenting that breed all these emotionally stressed kids that find comfort in strangers and school teachers.

A good parent is first of all a friend, you mustn't be strict at all times. You must ease up sometimes and have kids time with your kids, play with them. It is about creating a balance.

CzarChris:

Be the way marriage and raising kids isn't all about these beautiful picture perfect moments, it also entails proper direction.
Proper direction doesn't stop beautiful moments, if so then what's your point?

Marriage and raising kids isn't all about anything, it is all about many things.


Many African children hardly seek advice from their parents, they communicate their problems with their parents, they prefer strangers, many are not in good terms with their parents, especially their father, why?

Because their was no emotional and psychological closeness while growing up.


It is always go and do this, don't touch that, I don't want to see with that boy again, no, you won't pay with them. Here's your food, lets go to farm etc.


Like life in a military camp.


That's isn't parenting.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 101BDB: 8:21am On Jan 13
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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Tallesty1(m): 8:22am On Jan 13
Dollabiz:


thats why guys married early without plans and.struggle.hard till they fifty raising.kids without achievement thinking.that the kids are investment.

bettee plan.ya life and invest.struggle before marriage so as to enjoy.ya marriage,women.of.nowadays wont.let their.kids play.ball.with you if.you are broke
Nobody said "marry when you don't have your shits together" but I am sure you will agree with me that not having better plan, investment and "paying struggle" at 40 in a country where life expectancy of male is 54years isn't something to be proud of.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Westaslave2(f): 8:25am On Jan 13
koyyes:


Shut that pile hole of yours. Dumb b1tch. No wonder your horse band is sick of you. It's obvious you went into that fake marriage with just breast and nyash like the op is advising all dumb females like your type to do.

Use your brain for once. Are you not seeing men getting jobs? Have you as a female ever helped your fellow female get a job before?

"Men should help men".

You are by far the most wicked, dumbest and selfish negro b1tch in the surface of this earth.

You deserve what you are facing in your fake marriage.

Rest in pieces in advance.
Is obvious u lack reepect
I wont meddle words wt u ,cos u cant say wat u said just nw ,wen u see me live!
But i tell u 2 grow up frm ur infant thinking

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