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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by edunwanna(f): 7:59pm On Jan 20
If u really want to stop seeing him, den dispose and burn off all the clothes and any oda item u shared with him wen he was alive.

What ever is his in ur possession burn it. And he will stop coming to ur dreams, have expérienced dt before. And this solved d problem.

Goodluck

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Maxi3k(m): 8:02pm On Jan 20
This same thing happens to kanayo, op what did you do

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by marvinsync(m): 8:06pm On Jan 20
gensteejay:

Lols. Necromancy. Does OP sound like a necromancer to you? grin grin

Which necromancer fears the dead, when there is nothing to be scared of?



he's not afraid na , he's just asking if its normal
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by gensteejay(m): 8:10pm On Jan 20
marvinsync:




he's not afraid na , he's just asking if its normal
OK. If he was not, he wouldn't have created this thread.

All men have fears but learning to face our fears is what separates courageous men from cowards. It's normal to be afraid. By seeking knowledge, one can conquer one's fears.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Memories12411: 8:13pm On Jan 20
Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:
If you see a dead man in your dreams, it means you are dealing with familiar spirit. You have to pray fervently to reject it.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Lightwizzy10(m): 8:19pm On Jan 20
[quote author=MajorJeffery post=74918625]I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so cl
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by popoolaRofiat(f): 8:21pm On Jan 20
Do offering in his name do it with anything eatable and water.am sure you will not see him again.That is what he want from you.Talking from Experience.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:23pm On Jan 20
Kenneth4u205:
he died before fulfuling his goals and passion. What's happening now is that he want to possese you and use your body to fulfil this pass ions. Passion for se.x, etc. But from your experience of seeing him always, it means he has already possessed you and living out his life through you. That's why your mood suddenly changes and you behave unlike yourself sometimes

Gbam
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by luvmijeje(f): 8:27pm On Jan 20
Major Jeffery, what you are going through is not normal and for you not to be comfortable with it buttress the point.

This is what you will do. It's time for environmental sanitation. I want you to go through every of your belongings and check for things he has given to you as gifts or things you guys have shared together. Please give them out, if it's not worthy please throw it away.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:42pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


Honestly, I don’t understand your comment. However, I know that if you have the discipline and mastery of your subconscious - you can get whatever you want.


Mastery indeed. To play in the realm of the subconscious you need protection and guidance if not you attract all manner of negative spirits including insanity, suicidal thoughts, so many negative things can jump in. It's the same realm hard drugs expose the mind to, be guided.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by NWABUKA007(m): 9:16pm On Jan 20
you need to engage in prayers of separation

you have nothing to do with the dead .the Lord is your strength
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Jewelnutch: 9:19pm On Jan 20
Wow this reminds me of a real life event where i met myself at a party before i went on dreadlocks, it was freaky because i got to realize last year i was at the show admiring myself unknown to me it was me. Nowadays i have too many deja vus, like thrice a day at times.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by 3phase(m): 9:22pm On Jan 20
bloodofthelamb:


Bro, you and who is under death sentence after all that Christ has done on the cross? Don't you that through one man death reigned even so through another man eternal life reigns.

I am not among those who is under death sentence. I'm under life sentence.
some xtian are gullible.some1 z sayn d fact nd u'r here rejectn it.Didnt ur bible attest 2 d death of jesus.F he died wai did u tink u wont die?
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Tosinex(m): 9:36pm On Jan 20
10 years after, yet you are not dead, so when is he going to kill you? When you are 1000years? Well I believe it only shows the bonds you shared while he's alive. Many people that died through road accidents, died through unnatural course, and they were on a journey, when it happens, that brings the reason while their spirit are always restless and showing up. Anyway you can bound him from appearing in your dreams, but ensure you don't have any items that could create a portal for him to come in. He also should have moved to the other realms but I guess the portal has been closed against him, he has taken too much time wandering and lingering on earth, so he finds solace in your abode, you need to expel him.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Usmaniaaa: 9:36pm On Jan 20
Call 08038454102 we need to talk
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by VolvoS60(m): 9:39pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.

^^^
grin

I can safely bet that if I were to dream about my former workplace, I would be heading there with grenades, body armour, high calibre arms and ammunition - and the full expectation of a nail biting hostage situation grin. Some people will have it served hot that day until the SWAT lands grin.

On a more serious note - perhaps you need to relax. This dream may not have any deeper meaning. It may be stress or anxiety that may not even be work related. Take a break if you can, de-stress, rest, exercise, eat properly and then see if things improve.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 9:48pm On Jan 20
Mizwisdom:



Mastery indeed. To play in the realm of the subconscious you need protection and guidance if not you attract all manner of negative spirits including insanity, suicidal thoughts, so many negative things can jump in. It's the same realm hard drugs expose the mind to, be guided.

A comment filled with ignorance. That’s my response to you.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Clementz0(m): 9:50pm On Jan 20
Bro what am gonna advice you is to pray probably add fasting to it tell God to lead you and deliver you God as never fail seek him diligently he will lead u on he can help you handle the situation if you cry to him for help nairaland folks can't help they can only offer advice like am doing..shalom
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 9:51pm On Jan 20
VolvoS60:


^^^
grin

I can safely bet that if I were to dream about my former workplace, I would be heading there with grenades, body armour, high calibre arms and ammunition - and the full expectation of a nail biting hostage situation grin. Some people will have it served hot that day until the SWAT lands grin.

On a more serious note - perhaps you need to relax. This dream may not have any deeper meaning. It may be stress or anxiety that may not even be work related. Take a break if you can, de-stress, rest, exercise, eat properly and then see if things improve.

Then you would not be dreaming of your previous workplace except you are having nightmare. You hate the place. You have dissociated yourself from the place. No connection, no love. Lol it happens though. Your subconscious know how you feel about there, don’t worry

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 9:55pm On Jan 20
3phase:
some xtian are gullible.some1 z sayn d fact nd u'r here rejectn it.Didnt ur bible attest 2 d death of jesus.F he died wai did u tink u wont die?

That’s the fear implanted in them by their leaders or pastors. If only they know that death is a continuum of life, they won’t be scared. I used to be scared of death, but after my research about it. I fear no evil.

Feel pity for those “fall down and die” bandwagon. They are ignorant and that’s why their pastors reck in millions like they won’t leave this world. Where are you taking the money to?? Laughs
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by marktpompido(m): 9:55pm On Jan 20
This is spirit of death in you. So be prayerful
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 9:56pm On Jan 20
Clementz0:
Bro what am gonna advice you is to pray probably add fasting to it tell God to lead you and deliver you God as never fail seek him diligently he will lead u on he can help you handle the situation if you cry to him for help nairaland folks can't help they can only offer advice like am doing..shalom

There is nothing wrong with him Oga - his situation is perfectly okay.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by EzeIgboNwaChukwu: 10:00pm On Jan 20
promise4040:
Maybe you killed him.
hahaha this one weak me
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by DavidEsq(m): 10:04pm On Jan 20
McSterling:
I think it's simply an indication of the bond you both shared while he was alive. You perhaps still think about him and that's understandable. I've been having a similar experience about a school colleague who passed away late last year. I'm not bothered by it though. I'm only sad about his early death. Might be because of my perception of death.

I don't subscribe to dreading the memories of loved ones once they die. I see death as a debt we all must pay. We are all under a death sentence, only some have to die before others. In the end it makes no difference who died first. Memento Mori.
Very true, sir. In fact the bible agrees with u at Ecclesiastics 9:5,6: "For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing at all, nor do they have any more reward, because all memory of them is forgotten. 6 Also, their love and their hate and their jealousy have already perished, and they no longer have any share in what is done under the sun".
Psalm 146:4: "His spirit goes out, he returns to the ground;On that very day his thoughts perish".
Take note that the bible makes it clear that the dead know nothing at all. They return to nothingness. So th concept of passing or receiving message from the dead is Devilish an unscriptural.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Akanoaaa: 10:12pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.

Tell him to give you 5 correct score abeg.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 10:27pm On Jan 20
I'm still going through lots of opinions here and I'm learning already but I want to quickly correct some impressions. I'm not and I repeat I'm not scared of death. With what I've experienced in my line of duty, death means nothing to me. I'm kind and soft hearted, very jovial for people close to me but I'm also very hardened.

Secondly, my friend's death wasn't my fault. A new girlfriend visited him and being young adults, we had to take her to a nearby bar for fear of parents. I left them earlier to bond and went home. He called later that he would drop by before going to his own home and I waited only to receive another call minutes later from the bar man that my friend was knocked down as he was walking home. He had partial night blindness issue but that had never been an issue until his death.

Thirdly, I'm not scared of seeing him because I miss him dearly and honestly, I don't wanna stop seeing him. It's just that I have always wanted to move on and I also wanna be sure I'm not being paranoid. There was a time I was badly shot and nearly died, he came to the dream at the hospital and massaged my wounds with hot water and cloth. So I guess he doesn't want me to join him as some people insinuated here already.

I'm not very religious by Nigerian standards of believing in deliverance and pastors praying for me but I know how and when to communicate with my maker daily. So, I don't think it's a religious issue but a psychological one that's why I had talked about visiting a therapist before. I had survived his death long time and thought I had moved on but maybe I truly haven't from what I'm reading so far.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Rozaytee(f): 10:41pm On Jan 20
Zoharariel:


Oh holy heavenly shiit! An imaginary jewish asshole died for you and you believe it - simply because some Roman drunken charlatans purportedly under the influence of the holy spirit said so in a book filled with so much lies & contradictions, written over a period of 1,500years and that is being systematically edited & updated every decade with newer versions.

Look, I will tear you apart with my tiger claw & carnassials the next time you write something as foolish as this. grin
drunk ode
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by TadM: 10:49pm On Jan 20
Uyi168:
... We can't always control what happens in the dreams
yes you can.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Seandisputed(m): 10:50pm On Jan 20
luvmijeje:
Major Jeffery, what you are going through is not normal and for you not to be comfortable with it buttress the point.

This is what you will do. It's time for environmental sanitation. I want you to go through every of your belongings and check for things he has given to you as gifts or things you guys have shared together. Please give them out, if it's not worthy please throw it away.
If he gives them out, hope it won't affect the recipient?
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by od501: 10:53pm On Jan 20
[quote author=MajorJeffery post=74918625]I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?


Dat nigga wants to talk to you. Seek for som1 who can communicate with the dead to help u out. They are around
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Noel1: 10:58pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
Exactly my intention for creating this thread but the question is how.
Go for deliverance
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Zoharariel(m): 11:06pm On Jan 20
Rozaytee:
drunk ode

Since you're a mad fan of classic rap, I'll give you one of my best. grin

KRS One - MC's Act Like They Don't Know


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnI8JEW7Ty4

Each time I'm driving out from my hood, I just put it on a blast and people be wondering who be this guy? This one no be shaku-shaku oooo grin

I just bone like "Vito Corleone" & zoom off! kiss

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