Be a man or a woman
What are the pros and cons of marrying a divorcee
Especially one with a child or children already

Help a sister with your thought s and experiences thanks

Speaking from the perspective of an unmarried man with no kids, the divorcee is not the problem, but the kids. You'll hardly be a priority before her kids and I don't want to deal with complications of the kid's father. Also, there are times I'll feel like an accessory, as I'm the only non-biological one in the mix.

Not to mention the possible scenario of being guilt-tripped because I'll hardly love the kids like mine, and treat them the way a biological father will. These are irreconcilable knock-out points for me.

What of young girls way day follow married men way don get like two wives b4 and more than 7 children?

I don't see this decision being difficult for females to make. For guys its going to be an uncomforting decision to make.

pansophist:
Speaking from the perspective of a man, divorcee is not the problem, but the kids. You'll hardly be a priority before her kids and I don't want to deal with complications of the kids father. Also, there are times I'll feel like an accessory, as I'm the only non-biological one in the mix.

Not to mention the possibly scenario of being guilt-tripped because I'll hardly love the kids like mine, and treat them the way a biological father will.

These are irreconcilable knock-out points for me.

Ok

divorcee with two kids? marry such a lady and u digging ur own grave.na so d two kids go dey fight u and dey blame u say na u cause am make their papa divorce their mama.

mrsbingbagbo:
Be a man or a woman
What are the pros and cons of marrying a divorcee
Especially one with a child or children already

Help a sister with your thought s and experiences thanks

No oooo waiting make her husband divorce her?

lefulefu:
divorcee with two kids? marry such a lady and u digging ur own grave.na so d two kids go dey fight u and dey blame u say na u cause am make their papa divorce their mama.

loz

It depends. I personally think it’s better for a divorcee to marry a divorcee that way it’s balanced. People with kids should date other people with kids. I think that’s the best thing to do.

Why not?

Is she not a woman?

Can't marry a divorcee

Biglittlelois:
Can't marry a divorcee

Why

There nothing wrong in it I don't see why guys see having a children as a crime ...happiness and understanding is all that matters

Koralords:
There nothing wrong in it I don't see why guys see having a children as a crime ...happiness and understanding is all that matters

as long as it's not your kids it's a crime

cool n ok

Is not all about marrying a divorcée ,the question should be,who in his/her sane mind will agree to marry an after two ?unless there is a price tag.

No!

never

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