millionboi2:
Only God
Humans pretend alot

soberdrunk:
This Op's advice is so 1996 when the Economy was still fairly stable and runs girls were still very coded and their population minimal, when morality was high and men valued family values over "sexiness" and "physical attributes".These days the reality is different, any young lady that wants to get married and is forming "standards and "principles" is in for a "long search" because we are in the era of "all that glitters is gold", the truth is most of the young men that want to get married to "Morally sound" women are handicapped financially and most of the rich eligible bachelors are busy in the DMs of Instagram slay queens/runs girls. People always ask why "bad girls" always get "good guys" these days and the answer is simply, they know how to position themselves and how to treat a man, while most of these "career women/ feminists" are busy looking for "equal rights". These "bad girls" know the "key things" most men what from a woman is -----

1) Submission- more than 90% of men no matter how advanced or intellectual they claim to be crave submission from a woman more than anything, that sense of control will make a man wife a woman faster than any church program or crusade will.

2) Good sex----There is a way you will do Chinese bending on a man that he will borrow money to pay your bride price...(This is the major factor that makes the "bad girls" always get the "good men" before the "good women"

3) Care----- Every man no matter how Macho or Alpha male they seem to be likes to be taken care of, if you take "good" care of a man he will definitely make it "permanent". Care doesn't necessarily mean you have to turn to "housegirl" but a few chores every now and then and showing concern about his general well being will do the magic

............Watch out for PART 2......

kenzysmith:
By wearing mini gown or skirt you will surely find a good husband trust me

soberdrunk:
This Op's advice is so 1996 when the Economy was still fairly stable and runs girls were still very coded and their population minimal, when morality was high and men valued family values over "sexiness" and "physical attributes".These days the reality is different, any young lady that wants to get married and is forming "standards and "principles" is in for a "long search" because we are in the era of "all that glitters is gold", the truth is most of the young men that want to get married to "Morally sound" women are handicapped financially and most of the rich eligible bachelors are busy in the DMs of Instagram slay queens/runs girls. People always ask why "bad girls" always get "good guys" these days and the answer is simply, they know how to position themselves and how to treat a man, while most of these "career women/ feminists" are busy looking for "equal rights". These "bad girls" know the "key things" most men what from a woman is -----

1) Submission- more than 90% of men no matter how advanced or intellectual they claim to be crave submission from a woman more than anything, that sense of control will make a man wife a woman faster than any church program or crusade will.

2) Good sex----There is a way you will do Chinese bending on a man that he will borrow money to pay your bride price...(This is the major factor that makes the "bad girls" always get the "good men" before the "good women"

3) Care----- Every man no matter how Macho or Alpha male they seem to be likes to be taken care of, if you take "good" care of a man he will definitely make it "permanent". Care doesn't necessarily mean you have to turn to "housegirl" but a few chores every now and then and showing concern about his general well being will do the magic

............Watch out for PART 2......

technicallyrich:
The first tip to finding a husband is to know how to suck and fuk a man expecially until he cums in her mouth and rim his anus with her tongue.
Belive me the same way money blinds girls,that is how good fuk blinds a guy.
There is how you will fuk a guy,he wont have any option than to wife the girl to continue the sweet sex.
Sometimes the so called love portion that married women accuse side chick of is hot sex she has given to her husband.
Lastly never underate sex,most people fell in love through hot fuk.
I am a living witnes.

Repentoday:
Iam sorry for your comment. You better put God first in all your under doings.

jeff1607:
most of them always see good guys but they only want or think they can get something better.

alexistaiwo:
Nigerians and putting God first mentality can be so nauseating.

Did Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his ex wife put Satan first?

Simple, logical and pragmatic steps to finding a good partner (male and female)

Be a good wife/husband material yourself.
Don't be pretentious about what you are not.
Know when to be good and when to play "dirty".
Learn to listen to your partner.
And lastly be open minded, your right partner can be anywhere.



QED

alexistaiwo:
Nigerians and putting God first mentality can be so nauseating.

Did Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and his ex wife put Satan first?

Simple, logical and pragmatic steps to finding a good partner (male and female)

Be a good wife/husband material yourself.
Don't be pretentious about what you are not.
Know when to be good and when to play "dirty".
Learn to listen to your partner.
And lastly be open minded, your right partner can be anywhere.
You got it right


QED

Ayoswit:
Abeg just be yourself, there is a man for every woman.

Valerie47:
Husband this, husband that, the pressure on women is much. It still won't make me marry someone I don't love.

futurist369:
it's a societal norm, the pressure my mama dey put on my sister's head no be here sha.... Shey marriage Na by force?

Valerie47:
Lol, nobody can pressurize me into marriage, I'm the definition of stubbornness and I know what I want and go for it at all cost, I jokingly told my aunt last year that I want to marry a rich man and she was like "don't go and accept those suitors coming for you, dey find rich man .

nanizle:
Good write-up, but the "Put God first" part is completely irrelevant and unnecessary. Stop feeding people's delusions.

I don't think there's an exact formula to finding the right partner but there are strategies you can adopt like the other points OP made.

ujampie:
How can a lady who insults and disrespect any man at every given provocation, and you expect her to see Mr Right easily?..... No way....... As a lady, love and respect yourself enough to respect other men...... A man you respected yesterday might end up referring your future spouse to you.

Fisher007:
Hmm there is no formula or solution for finding a good spouse.

As a lady you just need to be humble, loyal and trustworthy. ( beauty is not a factor cause it will fade over time - drop one child and your beautiful curves will say bye bye).

Now the problem is most ladies find it hard to be humble. They are mostly humble when their livelihood depends on their boyfriend.

Once a lady feels independent of any sort (financially, socially,mentally etc). Their feminism or chimamda spirit comes out. They become extremely sauces and arrogant but they can't see it ( in their mind am independent and don't need you.)

They forgot this was the guy or husband that have been with them before ( their university, nysc, unemployed years when they had nothing etc) this independent. Then their hypergamous nature comes in ( I can find a better man).

This same principle apply for loyalty. My husband or boyfriend has nothing to offer anymore after independence comes in. So they start hopping from one dick to another looking for a new man to be up or above their level.

Trust is the hardest, most men can die and spend their last cash on a wife or girlfriend they trust. She is like their pride and jewelry. They will brag about her to their Friends to let them know they can't afford to loose her.

But it is hard for a lady to be trustworthy in this current era. Too much shit test, cunny altitude, manipulation and deceitful moves. All in the name of always looking for a better option. Even if he is cheating on his trustworthy girlfriend, he would never take her matter for granted. The girl go they control am like mumu. Because the trust too much.

Ladies are also impatient nowadays. They feel everything must be sweet no time to grow with their men. They feel that an already perfect well to do man is the best. But the bitter truth is a well made man can see through their acting and submissive mode to attract him. He knows she didn't build with him so to him she is just a pleasure object.

No matter how a lady tries. He will just play along cause when hunger and poverty dey blow am she was not their.

So work on the three (humbe, loyal and trustworthy) I mentioned above. Then you might find a good husband.

jakandeola:
pocohantas funmisticqueen nwanyiawkaetiti hibiscus76 hope u learn

soberdrunk:
This Op's advice is so 1996 when the Economy was still fairly stable and runs girls were still very coded and their population minimal, when morality was high and men valued family values over "sexiness" and "physical attributes".These days the reality is different, any young lady that wants to get married and is forming "standards and "principles" is in for a "long search" because we are in the era of "all that glitters is gold", the truth is most of the young men that want to get married to "Morally sound" women are handicapped financially and most of the rich eligible bachelors are busy in the DMs of Instagram slay queens/runs girls. People always ask why "bad girls" always get "good guys" these days and the answer is simply, they know how to position themselves and how to treat a man, while most of these "career women/ feminists" are busy looking for "equal rights". These "bad girls" know the "key things" most men what from a woman is -----

1) Submission- more than 90% of men no matter how advanced or intellectual they claim to be crave submission from a woman more than anything, that sense of control will make a man wife a woman faster than any church program or crusade will.

2) Good sex----There is a way you will do Chinese bending on a man that he will borrow money to pay your bride price...(This is the major factor that makes the "bad girls" always get the "good men" before the "good women"

3) Care----- Every man no matter how Macho or Alpha male they seem to be likes to be taken care of, if you take "good" care of a man he will definitely make it "permanent". Care doesn't necessarily mean you have to turn to "housegirl" but a few chores every now and then and showing concern about his general well being will do the magic

............Watch out for PART 2......