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I hardly care about people other than my immediate family. Let me just give you a tip;
- My grandma died, I was told over the phone by my Dad. My response : I thought it was something serious.
My very good female friend was pouring her heart out to me, she was in a very toxic relationship with a cultist and have done several abortions for him, her school results where a mess because of the relationships. She was crying and opening up to me, telling me that I was the only guy she could talk to. All those while I was thinking: Why the hell is she bordering me with this stuff?
Probably the reason I have never felt love at my age, I don't care enough to fall in love.
In contrast, I do love my parents and siblings deeply, a bit too deeply if you ask me.

I don't know how to ask for help or depend on people or trust people: People under me have suffered because of it because I don't cooperate with them, I just do everything alone.

I hardly become angry, and most times don't know when to rebuke people.

I don't open up to anyone, I just lock everything up. Alcohol helps too.

Are you about to loose hope because of your jamb score?

I bring you good news, if you scored 160 and above, you can still secure admission into some Nigerian Universities.

If you fall into this category, drop your whatsapp number to be added into my admission group.
You can still drop your numbers if you have a high jamb score.

Do not loose your opportunity this year because of lack of information

Also worthy of note is that some schools have started selling and registering their post utme forms, make haste while the sun shines before its too late.

delectablegyal:
you and this your swimming. shey you will not drown like this?

Some of us have perfected the act of swimming.

I have learnt that 99% of girls are demanding, and I have set up my mind never to spend above a specific amount on a girl before getting her laid it has worked most of the time.

However, there's this convo with a lady I met last year, we weren't even dating yet and she started requesting.
2 weeks into the chyking, she texted me that she needed some money to complete her rent. After seeing the message I tested her that she should forget about me, and that she should forget that I ever tried chyking her, that I probably misread her.
I think that text did something to her because she started calling and sending tests which I ignored till later that day when she called back, and we reconciled, that sped things up and before long I swam in her pool.
I was an active swimmer till like a month into our relationship, I traveled, she told me to get her some clothes, she sent me some pics and a link to an instagram page, I saw the clothes and the outrageous prices on the instagram page, I decided to get it offline and wanted to add a shoe, because it felt odd buying just clothes, I told her and she insisted on the online one. I was still on the process of deciding, she then called me and told me that she needed some money to do something (without even saying what she needed it for) and it was urgent.
I just decided there and then to ghost the girl, it was successful till we met at a party later on the year, I knew I did her bad, I apologized to her, and after some long begging, we became cool. She took it like I wanted back, and I just had to swim again, I love swimming.
We had some conversation and her view towards demanding by girls showed me that she had no plans of footing her bills herself, I dug a bit deeper and got to find out that most of her bills are borne by numerous guys, I ghosted again before the next billing came to me.

0DDA0:
Dude probably finished solo learn and thinks that's all it takes. I laughed too. Jack of all.

He probably doesn't even know a thing about coding, just shouting the names of some languages

ethicallyright:
HTML 5. But the guy hype Sha or he learnt nonsense. How can you learn so much in just 3 months?

You can't even get a good grip on html css and javascript in 100days. I just see that comment laugh.

4ckz:
4-0 in favor of Utd

Just to remind you guys

4-0 in favor of Utd

If Sheffield manage score one goal today, I will sleep naked.

3 months old?

I am so aggravated right now.

Thank God I was not there, because I would have surely did something that I would regret.

JayCynic:
I am a Feminist not a Feminazi.

SIMPle

3 months old?

I feel so much aggravated.

Thank God I was not there, I would have done something I will surely regret.

The issue is a complex one, and the rate of marriage have fallen especially in the West and America during the 2000s. This is not a conjecture, and since we all have internet, you can google it.
The 80's and 90's are a very crucial time in the west. They made laws that made marriage a punishment for men, imagine working all your live and on divorce you loose your house, half of your possessions and on top you pay alimony for so many years. Again I will state another fact, that you can verify, divorces in more than 70% of the time are instigated by the women, because they stand to gain.

the response : men responded my choosing not to go into marriages, reason for the constant drop in rate, and the law knowing how unfair it has been to males responded by introducing prenuptial agreements, but that wasn't enough.
Also women started becoming more useful to themselves over the years and now there is almost as much working class men as there are women in the west.
Again throughout the years many states have come to review their divorce laws mainly because women were now working, and also in a bid to curtail the damage.

Effect on Africa: Africans have started to copy like you rightly said, and but the result is not as found as in the west.
First of all, due to our vastly practiced traditional laws, divorces haven't been as much damning on the men.
Girls : They have learnt to copy feminism, without learning to copy what comes with it. They want to be feminists, drag position and power with men even in marriage, but sadly they haven't learnt to provide for or make themselves useful. They are as dependent on the males as ever yet they want special treatments.
Boys : Most people even males themselves have always come out to bash boys, saying : 'men have not learnt to evolve with women, it's like they are stock on the 20th century, while women are on the 21st'.
This is a blatant lie, that have been lied so good that even some males have begun to believe it. Men have responded to the change just as much as women have, just that the response is not what the women want. Today, it's no longer acceptable as a male to brag with taking care of your woman or spending on her. Much men are leaving their roles, because they think if the women can no longer be as submissive as they used to, there is no point spending on them. More and more men are running from responsibility in the form of relationships or marriages, because the current spate of African feminism have done nothing but birth and age of terribly entitled women who expect to be treated specially because they are women.


In the end, I will leave you with this : Don't let anyone deceive you into thinking that there are no gender roles, you can even observe this from animals, males take much more protective and providing roles, while the ladies take much care of the family.
Since our generation have become too woke to disregard the roles, we might as well learn to live with the consequences, which would most certainly include the birth of a generation of children raised without a proper marriage or family setting.

Forgive me for the long essay.

4ckz:
This match have been played.

Proof, Man Utd won 3 goals to 1. It's a pity all of you have to wait till later to watch it.

P. S watch out for 30+ mins into the game, something interesting happened.

I have to apologize to the entire NL family for this stupidity, seems Latiff has gone back to lacing my weed with LSD, the last time this happened, I wore suit to work.
I am truly sorry for this insanity, I have to change my dealer.

Ronaldo : If I loose 4 consecutive international finals, does it mean that I am Messi?


Pique : Don't leave me

This match have been played.

Proof, Man Utd won 3 goals to 1. It's a pity all of you have to wait till later to watch it.

P. S watch out for 30+ mins into the game, something interesting happened.

Bruno
Pogba. Fred


No....................................................
Bruno
Pogba. McTomney


No....................................................
Bruno
Pogba. Matic





Abeg na, someone should help me out with the best combination

internationalman:
Whatever happens to ANPP and APP.

Those are the party I used to vote for back in the 90s..

Yes I was already 18 as at then.

Sir, your generation failed us. You people are supposed to be the leaders now, but we are still left with grandfathers.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Dbanj is not clean, everyone knows he lived a very rough life with ladies. He is only playing smart, since the lady has no evidence, she should have forgotten about it. She can't rely on an eye witness that will do anything to save himself from trouble.
He boasted back then about one night stand, that he used girls only once. And I even heard of the Association of One night stand standing against a rave of the moment.
His past was VERY rough with women, he can't deny that.

His past was very rough yen yen yen.

He should have forgotten about it yen yen yen.

Where you there?

Since the IG is now properly involved, let the main culprit be dealt with.

stainchris:
Ok.
And now the rain is here, expect more pneumonia patients to join the malaria patients crew to push up the numbers.

Roasted Corn and ube(pear) is out too, dry cough and iba(fever) will be on the rise, and they too will join the crews above.

And lest i forget their aunty - catarrh, which makes it really difficult for you to breathe well.
More ventilators will be needed for this patients.

Nothing scares me anymore, by the time all these above are incorporated into the numbers just expect it to hit a thousand plus.

This is naija, a land where you either swim or you sink and nothing happens.

I know someone that contacted the virus, and is very critical. I hope you don't learn on your death bed.