Ladies -- including me -- would rather cry, fight and struggle over a high value man then seek love and comfort with a faithful loser...

That is why Whizkid, 2Face, Davido and Others could breed so recklessly and without remorse. And Peruzzi can get free Sex, and the lady so elated to have bleeped him while the average Njoku , Bola and Ahmed on Nairaland are forever alone and depressed, bitter and always creating stupid threads against Nigerian Ladies.

ubunja:
I always tell Nice Guys something along these lines. But because they figure I'm hating on women they attack me. Women don't get wet for weak men who become pussies hopping to get pussy. It's nature.

From Eden women have chased Power because they are weaker. But Power is always changing form as civilization progresses. the greatest indicator of power in our world today is Money. So women chase that. In the time before money Violence was the indicator of power. The most violent men were considered the most powerful and all women flocked to them. More or less the law of the jungle

This is so true... Guys who "dominate".....

lalanice:
SMH

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!
the babymama issue has absolutely NOTHING to do with money, and all to do with SOCIETY. we live today in a society where people dont give a damn anymore about marriage, and are comfortable having babies out of wedlock.
yes your pastors would be pissed but the majority of babydaddies/babymamas dont really care.

as for rape, the day Nigerian women decide to press charges against such crimes, instead of hiding it in shame, that would be the day there will be hope for change in this issue.

Martinez39:
Na wa o. Poor people are still human beings. Being nice to poor people doesn't mean that you will marry them or get pregnant for them. It also doesn't mean that you must give money. YOU CAN BE NICE TO POOR PEOPLE AND STILL MARRY YOUR RICH MAN. Calling poor people suckers is mean and doesn't speak well of your personality. I have never treated poor people harshly even though I don't give them money because I believe everyone should go and work and not give birth to children that they can't take care of. Some of your posts and topics reeks of a heartless gold digging personality who, with great efforts, rationalises heartless gold digging. Are you sure you don't kpansh for career and monetarily favours? This is very very bad.

Amakavula:
way are you pain. I am been honest. Besides isn't like what I spoke about isn't prevalent in the society today. "suckers" is just to draw focus to how they are viewed in terms of potential mating partners by Is. I am undermining their struggles. After all men do same.

2buffagain:
Men just need to get on their grind.


Don't go out seeking relationships with women. Don't take women seriously unless SHE proves herself different.
Most won't stick around when serious trials come, so you can't take an attache like that seriously.

The girl I'm dating long-term now earned that spot by refusing to take my money when I offered it to her while she was going through a tough time. She earned my respect by her self-restraint...otherwise she would have been one of the many faceless cunts/mouths I have brutalized, poured in and discarded.

Undertaker001:
You ended up saying nothing.. No point at all

generationz:
na wa ooo babe
see as you just dey write with so much confidence gbaaaaaraaa like that

Yes women are naturally attracted to power even in the animal kingdom the strongest male among the herd gets all the babes because they believe they will get strong and healthy babies in return when they mate with him.

Same way when a woman sees a potential mate searches for security. Security financial, emotional etc. she wants a man who is strong enough ( confident and financially stable to defend her and her ofsprings)

That of cause is nature

The same way men are is naturally gravitate and go crazy for the most beautiful and curvy lady in a group. What they see is someone that is feminine enough to reproduce beautiful ofsrpings for them

along the line though things change. A lot of women are becoming independent (especially In more developed countries ) and just need a man to show them love and support .

same way men are beginning to want more than a trophy wife that they can show off to their friends and looks good in pictures

I know you write to attack those guys who sleep on romance section all day and get their self esteem from bashing women.

However with this your write up you are only reiterating their beliefs.

NA MONEY SURE PASS.

ALL WOMEN ARE HOES AND AFTER THE MONEY.

JUST MAKE MONEY AND ALL WOMEN WILL BE AT YOUR BECK AND CALL.

You are an intelligent lady as I've seen from your posts.

now take a good look at the kind of airheads who flock around the likes of davido , flavour, 2face, and other stars you mentioned. Yes ,I called them airheads. It won't take one more a few seconds to be around these types to know that their self worth and validation comes from their ability to grab a "succesful" man. Even if they are suffering and smiling

Now do you really think you are half of the worlds population ( which o believe are women) any good by comparing them with these few women you just mentioned.

Do you really think you are doing your brilliant self any good by comparing yourself to them.

Yes the ability to be a provider is a paramount issue , but there are many women who look beyond that.

Life isnt black and white my dear. It comes in shades of grey.

A lot of men don't know this but as they hammer on character being important many ladies too consider it.

So as a guy reading this before you say your girl has bad character , check yourself. Find out if you are also husband material. Do some self analysis and know if your kids can look up to you and copy some of your habits.

I hope you would consider the depth of mating, relationship love and marriage and not just scratch the surface based on something you read and your little observations.

peace .

generationz:


I pity the girl she doesn't know the kind of person she wants to end up with

A man that refers to other women in this manner.

I wonder why men think it is OK to test a woman with suffering.



oga tell us the truth, if she was dangotes daughter or bill gate's daughter would you test her with suffering?

Amakavula:
Thanks babe, for the compliment. I take everything you said with keen interest. Appreciate the love, I was just tired of the woman bashing.. " we are sluts , today. Whores tomorrow ".. see if someone calls you a slut everyday and you agree you render him powerless.


I just needed to make them aware why we can't give them a chance. most are just low lives with no ambition.

No woman wants to be trapped, "making it "
with a loser , we want more than just the lazy word of love they throw around.

generationz:


I pity the girl she doesn't know the kind of person she wants to end up with

A man that refers to other women in this manner.

I wonder why men think it is OK to test a woman with suffering.



oga tell us the truth, if she was dangotes daughter or bill gate's daughter would you test her with suffering?

generationz:
na wa ooo babe
see as you just dey write with so much confidence gbaaaaaraaa like that

Yes women are naturally attracted to power even in the animal kingdom the strongest male among the herd gets all the babes because they believe they will get strong and healthy babies in return when they mate with him.

Same way when a woman sees a potential mate searches for security. Security financial, emotional etc. she wants a man who is strong enough ( confident and financially stable to defend her and her ofsprings)

That of cause is nature

The same way men are is naturally gravitate and go crazy for the most beautiful and curvy lady in a group. What they see is someone that is feminine enough to reproduce beautiful ofsrpings for them

along the line though things change. A lot of women are becoming independent (especially In more developed countries ) and just need a man to show them love and support .

same way men are beginning to want more than a trophy wife that they can show off to their friends and looks good in pictures

I know you write to attack those guys who sleep on romance section all day and get their self esteem from bashing women.

However with this your write up you are only reiterating their beliefs.

NA MONEY SURE PASS.

ALL WOMEN ARE HOES AND AFTER THE MONEY.

JUST MAKE MONEY AND ALL WOMEN WILL BE AT YOUR BECK AND CALL.

You are an intelligent lady as I've seen from your posts.

now take a good look at the kind of airheads who flock around the likes of davido , flavour, 2face, and other stars you mentioned. Yes ,I called them airheads. It won't take one more a few seconds to be around these types to know that their self worth and validation comes from their ability to grab a "succesful" man. Even if they are suffering and smiling

Now do you really think you are half of the worlds population ( which o believe are women) any good by comparing them with these few women you just mentioned.

Do you really think you are doing your brilliant self any good by comparing yourself to them.

Yes the ability to be a provider is a paramount issue , but there are many women who look beyond that.

Life isnt black and white my dear. It comes in shades of grey.

A lot of men don't know this but as they hammer on character being important many ladies too consider it.

So as a guy reading this before you say your girl has bad character , check yourself. Find out if you are also husband material. Do some self analysis and know if your kids can look up to you and copy some of your habits.

I hope you would consider the depth of mating, relationship love and marriage and not just scratch the surface based on something you read and your little observations.

peace .

2buffagain:



I wonder why women feel it is okay to shiit-test men.
Obviously it is to determine if the person you are about to give the better parts of yourself to is actually worth it.

So if you do that to men, you'd be a fool to think we are not testing you right back.
Even God will test you.
You want to test and you don't want to be tested. Are you a lecturer?

2buffagain:



I wonder why women feel it is okay to shiit-test men.
Obviously it is to determine if the person you are about to give the better parts of yourself to is actually worth it.

So if you do that to men, you'd be a fool to think men of high value are not testing you right back.
Even God will test you.
You want to test and you don't want to be tested. Are you a lecturer?

ubunja:
the irony.
You bash women but complain when other men bash women. I laugh.

generationz:


I bash women?

haha I laugh in Spanish
there is a difference between romancelanders who call all women hoes ( including their mothers) and me describing a certain percentage according to the way they have projected their image

If I call someone who steals for a living an armed robber , am I bashing him?

if I call someone who makes a living from being a nusinace and terrorizing the neighbourhood a lout , am I bashing him?

If i call those who make promises they know they won't fulfil every four years politicians , am I bashing them? uhn

stop being an hypocrite.

generationz:


oga , I asked you a question which you cleverly avoided my question

So I ask again , if you were marrying dangotes daughter or DJ cuppy , would you carry out such shitty test on her? would you test her with suffering?

once again I pity your babe. ciao

Martinez39:
Actually money is involved. Ladies try to hook rich men with pregnancy for financial reasons.

ubunja:
so you are better because you only attacked the GFs of celebrities??
What a dead way to think.

2buffagain:


Madam, you are being illogical.
What is this "test with suffering" you are talking about?
Explain further how I was "testing her with suffering" and then maybe I will answer your question.

generationz:


I'm not against being careful for gold diggers

I mean , they are everywhere
Even me as a lady won't like fake friends who are only with me for what they can get.

Nothing wrong with observing someone you are about to get married to closely too.

However I don't understand how you offered assistance to someone you claim to care about and were still hoping she would reject it to pass some test.

I mean you said she was I dire need at that time.
If my friend or partner is in dire need of money and I'm capable of helping, the last thing on my mind would be a test of that sort to prove loyalty or something else

Many people would totally fail that test not because they are gold diggers but because they wouldn't expect such test at such situations from a friend or boyfriend.

If she stole your money or was too demanding that's a different case but she was in dire need of assistance

In my short sojourn in life I've met many people who reject presents at first instance to appear modest.

To me it doesn't prove anything and only shows a fake and pretentious nature.

while some others are just too timid.

I see people testing "wife material" by how well she can peel cassava , fry garri and all sorts of hard labour.

Definitely , a wife is first a home keeper before anything else. However the world is changing and a lot of things are so unnesary.

You do not test a gold digger by her refusal of money you gave her. You test her by how she manages the money you spend on her. what she spends it on. How she treats you when she needs money vs when she doesn't.


Many Nigerian babes are now very smart.
shebi na to reject money , sweep house enter main road , wash all the clothes in your box and say yes sir even when he spits on you. Any lady can pretend to have these qualities to get the ring.

you understand ?

Also I find it distasteful when men describe other women they had intimate relationships with in the past as b1tches, cunts etc.

I mean, maybe they treated you bad but you chose to be with them and sometimes like attracts like.