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Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Nobody: 11:51am On Feb 16
Kindly tell me the advantage of marrying a smart woman.
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by eneez(m): 11:54am On Feb 16
Either peace of mind or constant arguements.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Rickyzagy(m): 11:58am On Feb 16
eneez:
Either peace of mind or constant arguements.
you may not be rich but you will be happy.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by pocohantas(f): 12:04pm On Feb 16
You will realize wisdom is not in the genitals.

Every other advantage is same you earn from being with smart individuals.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by coolestofall(m): 12:13pm On Feb 16
In order 2 hv entertaining n healthy convos b4, during n after sex, not d regular 'baby hope u hv not 4gotten what u promised me' convos after sex.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Preshy561(f): 12:16pm On Feb 16
Your children won't be dullard

She will always chip in some investment ideas.
Doesn't allow you make self destructing decisions.

She's the perfect woman.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by JasonScolari: 12:18pm On Feb 16
She will make you better for sure.

When she has a few more IQ points than you,
you're going to be challenged.
Sometimes,
this involves getting called on your bullshit.
That's a good thing because always getting
away with it isn't doing you any favours in
life.

She will keep you on your toes and you'll
have to work to keep up. You have to earn
the right to stay with her, and this makes
you a better man.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by addictiv(m): 12:30pm On Feb 16
smarter kids..... 70% of a child's intelligence comes from the mother according to research

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Businessideas: 12:32pm On Feb 16
Hahaha, very brilliant question.
I am married to one and honestly they're hard to get. In my case, it took years before she agreed to a date because she insisted that her academics in the university comes first and as a born again Christian,she needs to be careful about such distractions, sincerely I was cool with it ,she ended up toping her class at graduation.
When she told me her academics first,it didn't discourage me one bit rather it made me to give her space for awhile but persevere more. Fast forward, today she's my wife and sincerely I am reaping the patience of waiting and persevering until she became mine, the benefit is that unquestionable loyalty to me and her unwavering commitment to excellence in everything and now extended to the academics of our lovely children. Sincerely,to marry them,you need to be smarter than them and even my wife had confessed that she also considered I was smarter before eventually plunging into the relationship and she believes she could learn more from me which appeals to her Intellectual orientation and love language.
I always thank God that I didn't give up on her.
If you have one you really want as your wife, ensure that you are equally smart or better still smarter, you must respect their priorities and ensure that your life and the way you live it shows focus, compassion for others , strong leadership trait and you are good looking but not a player, sometimes, you don't have to be deeply religious and rich wink

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by catwalq(f): 12:33pm On Feb 16
A smart woman makes smart choices which will make life much easier for everyone. But you have to be willing to see things from her perspective.

What's more, your kids will be better for it.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Amakavula(f): 1:01pm On Feb 16
pocohantas:
You will realize wisdom is not in the genitals.

Every other advantage is same you earn from being with smart individuals.
Deserve a home cooked meal and a hug. Anytime you are around Abuja let me know.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Amakavula(f): 1:05pm On Feb 16
Your children are smarter, your home is far more organized and very economic with money. Nothing catches you unaware because she has made plans and forcasted possibilities.

She becomes your advisor, partner and a second you, always watching your back.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by dingbang(m): 1:21pm On Feb 16
But from all these descriptions of a smart woman, why do we still fall for dumb ladies?

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Yigiyaga(m): 1:41pm On Feb 16
DukeofNZ:

Kindly tell me the advantage of marrying a smart woman.
Means you will stress yourself less with a capable deputy. Frankly speaking most can offer only sex.
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Yigiyaga(m): 1:42pm On Feb 16
dingbang:
But from all these descriptions of a smart woman, why do we still fall for dumb ladies?
Simply because most are dumb.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 1:44pm On Feb 16
pocohantas:
You will realize wisdom is not in the genitals.

Every other advantage is same you earn from being with smart individuals.
we marry for the genitals.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by pocohantas(f): 1:46pm On Feb 16
Amakavula:
Deserve a home cooked meal and a hug. Anytime you are around Abuja let me know.

I will sure do that. Hope you are a female though? 'Cos the way these niggas be snitching... grin
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Yigiyaga(m): 1:46pm On Feb 16
Amakavula:
Your children are smarter, your home is far more organized and very economic with money. Nothing catches you unaware because she has made plans and forcasted possibilities.

She becomes your advisor, partner and a second you, always watching your back.
Such women are rare if not extinct.Been searching my whole life .
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 1:46pm On Feb 16
dingbang:
But from all these descriptions of a smart woman, why do we still fall for dumb ladies?
because the dumb ones are always the hot ones.

Ugly chicks focus on studying because no man will marry them. So they make sure they will be independent.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 1:49pm On Feb 16
Amakavula:
Your children are smarter, your home is far more organized and very economic with money. Nothing catches you unaware because she has made plans and forcasted possibilities.

She becomes your advisor, partner and a second you, always watching your back.
our mothers were not "smart" but they did all that and more.
You the smart ones of today can't even pick up a Broom without whinning for Africa.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Newboss(m): 1:50pm On Feb 16
If a cute smart woman falls for you very well, your woman problems are solved angry

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 1:52pm On Feb 16
Newboss:
If a cute smart woman falls for you very well, your woman problems are solved angry
what will her smartness benefit you?
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by LordKO(m): 2:00pm On Feb 16
The major advantage of marrying a smart woman is that you won't be expected, by her or anyone else, to accept an explanation like "I was deceived by so and so person(s)" - sound intellectual judgment will be expected from her permanently, she'll always accept and assume responsibility of her actions and inactions. Come on, a smart person can only be betrayed, not deceived. So, personally I don't see any disadvantage in marrying a smart woman - smartness/high intellect shouldn't be mistaken for disingenuousness/conceitedness, respectively. And, of course, a smart woman isn't automatically a virtuous woman. Smartness is all about intellect.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Newboss(m): 2:00pm On Feb 16
ubunja:
what will her smartness benefit you?

Everything you can imagine, so long as she really fell for you.

She can make smart choices. Life is all about choices.

A dumb woman will make all the dumb choices on earth angry

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by AutoElectNG: 2:04pm On Feb 16
Smart wife = Smart kids
Foolish wife = foolish kids

Why sabotage your heritage?

Inferiority complex makes some men go for women who ordinarily shouldn't even tie their shoe laces so they can play god and be worshipped

A wife is a helper...the smarter the wife, the smarter the help

A wife spends considerably more time with the kids...that influence had better be positive and worthwhile

There are also certain circles a man may circulate in that marrying a dumb wife my limit his upwards movement and make him prone to adultery if he seeks intellectual fulfilment elsewhere

Read some more here: https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/222#74535769

See picture also

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Eberechi24(f): 2:07pm On Feb 16
A smart woman will help you make good decision in life.


Most men shouting they are yet to meet smart woman, pls are you smart? you can't be jumping all over places looking for the smart woman when smartness eludes you. It take smartness to spot a smart woman.

A smart woman has her flaws, when you meet her don't expect her to be perfect.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Yigiyaga(m): 2:08pm On Feb 16
ubunja:
our mothers were not "smart" but they did all that and more.
You the smart ones of today can't even pick up a Broom without whinning for Africa.
Who told you that our mothers were not smart? Respecting their husbands as head and holding down the home front actively with multiple kids with no help is an act of smart choices.

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by synanza1(m): 2:16pm On Feb 16
if you marry a smart girl she will give you smart son like this one
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIjzSt8_lkU
Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by Nobody: 2:22pm On Feb 16
Businessideas:
Hahaha, very brilliant question.
I am married to one and honestly they're hard to get. In my case, it took years before she agreed to a date because she insisted that her academics in the university comes first and as a born again Christian,she needs to be careful about such distractions, sincerely I was cool with it ,she ended up toping her class at graduation.
When she told me her academics first,it didn't discourage me one bit rather it made me to give her space for awhile but persevere more. Fast forward, today she's my wife and sincerely I am reaping the patience of waiting and persevering until she became mine, the benefit is that unquestionable loyalty to me and her unwavering commitment to excellence in everything and now extended to the academics of our lovely children. Sincerely,to marry them,you need to be smarter than them and even my wife had confessed that she also considered I was smarter before eventually plunging into the relationship and she believes she could learn more from me which appeals to her Intellectual orientation and love language.
I always thank God that I didn't give up on her.
If you have one you really want as your wife, ensure that you are equally smart or better still smarter, you must respect their priorities and ensure that your life and the way you live it shows focus, compassion for others , strong leadership trait and you are good looking but not a player, sometimes, you don't have to be deeply religious and rich wink


Exactly a description of my fiancee, she is very smart lady and a first class student (best graduating student in faculty of Basic science). You just wrote what our experiences are...

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 2:38pm On Feb 16
Yigiyaga:
Who told you that our mothers were not smart? Respecting their husbands as head and holding down the home front actively with multiple kids with no help is an act of smart choices.
calm down mama's baby.

If taking care of the home requires "smarts" why do educated career women hire dumb village girls as housemaids??

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by TimiRume: 2:38pm On Feb 16
Summary of all that has been said above me and the conclusion: Smart women are an asset, to you and to your kids.. but most men don't want smart women, they want a beautiful woman who knows her place. grin

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Re: Kindly Tell Me The Advantage Of Marrying A Smart Woman by ubunja(m): 2:42pm On Feb 16
Newboss:


Everything you can imagine, so long as she really fell for you.

She can make smart choices. Life is all about choices.

A dumb woman will make all the dumb choices on earth angry
give 1 example of a smart choice
And 1 example of a dumb choice.

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