His friend no longer stay with us and I am not allowing any other person to come in and stay again.

Ever since we fought about his friend issue,he is coming home early from work,he is bonding with his kids more,he is no longer leaving home as early as 5:30am and coming home by 1am..

Drinking alcohol has reduced....
And everyone is happy...........

opejulie10:



Thank you... about the appearance, I am looking younger than my age, you will never know I'm married not to say having kids, for those saying I don't want him to hang out with his buddy, seems you don't get it,he has lot of friends but the influence this one has on him is bad.... I don't like it and I won't watch him become a drunkard or become a stranger to his kids in his own home because of a friend. I am going to let him be,he is still not talking to me but I will keep my job and kids.... I have told his family about all the recent stuff and he is not listening to any of them, I have tried to talk to him overnight,he is saying my guilty conscience is eating me up ,I should kindly shut up my mouth and take care of the kids.... I will let him be and face my life...na him Sabi..

It is either his friend is leading him on and cheering him to ruin your home or your husband is chaffing under your marriage and wants to be free. (not divorce o! More like live his life)

opejulie10:
His friend no longer stay with us and I am not allowing any other person to come in and stay again.

Ever since we fought about his friend issue,he is coming home early from work,he is bonding with his kids more,he is no longer leaving home as early as 5:30am and coming home by 1am..

Drinking alcohol has reduced....
And everyone is happy...........

How can you allow when he did not consult you before letting his friend in?

The sudden return to status quo is suspicious.

Sure you are telling us the whole story?