Prayer should have be the best thing instead of this strong condition... Even if a guy is ready to bear with her condition anything can still happen...

vllar:
So I met this beautiful lady who wouldn't date any guy if marriage isn't guaranteed within or after 6 months. Her decision was admirable. However, I feel that's a very tough task to place on oneself. I was invited to her church only to hear the pastor saying the same thing. What are your thoughts people?
PS: I am not criticizing the decision I just find it strange!!

Prayer should have be the best thing instead of this strong condition... Even if a guy is ready to bear with her condition anything can still happen...

i have been watching seen reading comments on nairaland i decided to open an account i wish to make new ,fruitful friends here

My opinion, I do not think marriage should be the first thing on a ladies mind for the first meet with a guy. I mean there is a whole lot of stuff to think of than a marriage. Even if I have intentions for marriage, putting a timeline in that way is a turn-off. My opinion tho

Valerie47:
I like her, why waste her time when you won't take her to the alter.

Valerie47:
I like her, why waste her time when you won't take her to the alter.

Even if she has a bad attitude? Marriage � should never be rushed into, ya rush in, ya rush out.

met this lady some months back we became friends and I asked her out. I really like her sha.
she's telling me she knows I love her but age is not on her side and all and that she wants to get married and she doesn't want commitment. she says this to all her toasters. nawa for some mumu girls o.
marriage desperation. Dem go f*ck her pkekus till the thing disappear.

Hasn't she heard of divorce?

ticoticotico:
Fear those ladies, they must for have been with lots of men

honestly

MissRaine69:

A lifetime my friend ...you need a lifetime

A lifetime and 2 worlds. So that when she drives you crazy in one world, you just run to the other world to cool off and wonder how in the world did you end up with a crazy woman

ticoticotico:
Fear those ladies, they must for have been with lots of men

honestly, one needs being careful

cheesmooth:
i have been watching seen reading comments on nairaland i decided to open an account i wish to make new ,fruitful friends here

Welcome aboard....and have fun.

[quote author=unity004 post=75840813] na to dey give her fake promises (like buhari) & to dey f*ck her till that six months duration expired. if u think am wicked what of buhari that is f*cking us now on fake promises for four years and still wants to add another 4 years. be wise & vote #atikulation Do you wish the same for your daughters or sisters. May God have mercy on you. You need mental renewal.

She's giving you conditions before dating her that'll benefit her only, what conditions will she give you when you've married her?

And since she's given you a time-frame, all she has to do is act nice for 6 months then show you her true self after locking you down.

There's a particular lady I fvck wella who tells nice guys all she wants is love, and yet when they're showing it to her she treats them like poo... Don't fall for those antics, if she were genuine she'd be married already.

davillian:
Desperate ladies are the easiest to bang.
Had a friend that gave a lady an engagement ring because she is not ready to drop kpomo without engagement.
He later turned her to lord of the ring.
Since birds have learnt to fly without landing ,hunters have learnt to shoot moving targets.

error4040:
this your own de learn work How about the one that after introduction and getting the Kpekus he went ahead and promise the dad that he wanted to help him renovate their house then after removing the Roofing my Guy Cutout

That one na satan walahi.. wetin the poor man do am na?

ImaIma1:


Things like that could happen. I can just imagine what the heart of a guy like that is like... doing all of that just to have sex. And you think karma is not waiting for him. All our actions have feedbacks sooner or later.

True about the karma part tho. But those type of guys i doubt they believe in that

Them dey force person to marry ni
Which kain 6 month guarantee b that?
Is she a LG television

I had one but she left when I didn't propose and not up to three months after that, I married another Lady who, though older than her, but wasn't desperate.
I told her and she was surprised and asked "what happened".


Don't marry that way! Desperate ladies hide a lot and don't be deceived by "church girl".

vllar:
Early 20’s

And desperate for marriage like this... i thought she is around menopause

Gerrard59:


Unfortunately, relationships don't necessarily lead to marriage.

It all depends on what dating means to you. I am actually talking from a Christian perspective. You can always have a healthy relationship with any member of the opposite sex. But dating is a different case...

vllar:
So I met this beautiful lady who wouldn't date any guy if marriage isn't guaranteed within or after 6 months. Her decision was admirable. However, I feel that's a very tough task to place on oneself. I was invited to her church only to hear the pastor saying the same thing. What are your thoughts people?
PS: I am not criticizing the decision I just find it strange!!

Ask her Pastor to tell you her real age ooo..before you marry your grandma in disguise.

vllar:
So I met this beautiful lady who wouldn't date any guy if marriage isn't guaranteed within or after 6 months. Her decision was admirable. However, I feel that's a very tough task to place on oneself. I was invited to her church only to hear the pastor saying the same thing. What are your thoughts people?
PS: I am not criticizing the decision I just find it strange!!

i like that decision... If girls were to be serious with such condition, they won't be use and dump goods...

dairykidd:


That one na satan walahi.. wetin the poor man do am na?

Bro the thing as they tell me Weak me die the thing Too deep!!!

dochenaj:

How couldn't you see, that is a guy masquerading as a female. No matter how westernized we are, no woman can be bold enough to type that nonsense up there. Think about it.

they are now been dynamic in nature... looking for preys to feast on.. I know bro... thanks

wat of if she"s a monster.wich time person wan take time study her and marry her under six months

MobilityExpress:
Women can be so wicked. They will Bleep around with all the bad guys, have sex with them per second per second, do all kinds of fuckery with them, till t they have been thoroughly used, passed around the whole community dicks and dumped like thrash. Then after the get luck and jam a correct responsible financially bouyant guy, they will start forming holy and bringing all kinds of conditions: no sex till marriage, marriage in 6 months, you must introduce me to all your family and friends etx. SMH, someone that is not even a virgin oh and was giving different fuckboys different sex styles back to back, now she meets a good guy, she's forming angel. Rubbish. Me I'll just walk away, no time for nonsense.

and even if such a girl u described ended up marrying a nice guy she will still cheat on him by having secret laisons with her ex

vllar:
So I met this beautiful lady who wouldn't date any guy if marriage isn't guaranteed within or after 6 months. Her decision was admirable. However, I feel that's a very tough task to place on oneself. I was invited to her church only to hear the pastor saying the same thing. What are your thoughts people?
PS: I am not criticizing the decision I just find it strange!!

lets form a clique of 10guys ans fuuucck her for the next 6 years.

Valerie47:
I like her, why waste her time when you won't take her to the alter.

It means changing and jumping into one relationship or the other.....Not cool

Simplep:
I like her,she knows what she wants
No corner corner

And you think that would make a guy propose faster than expected?

So I met this beautiful lady who wouldn't date any guy if marriage isn't guaranteed within or after 6 months. Her decision was admirable. However, I feel that's a very tough task to place on oneself. I was invited to her church only to hear the pastor saying the same thing. What are your thoughts people?
PS: I am not criticizing the decision I just find it strange!!

Beware bro. Like my mom would say, "put your thinking cap on". She is parroting what her pastor says. She may not be capable of independent thought. She may be carrying a boatload of baggage and she needs someone to hurriedly dump it on. Check if she is willing to divulge the secrets of her past. If she isn't run oh. Run like mad man. Also learn of her ideals and outlook on life. If she has no vision for her future, if she has nothing going for her now, if all she is about is marriage...run oh.

B1ak3:
That one has reached the stage of man na man

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