Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,581 members, 7,958,795 topics. Date: Thursday, 26 September 2024 at 01:14 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same (37670 Views)
She Shot Her Shot (and He Said Yes!) Pictures included / Lady Marries Lawyer Of Her Boyfriend Who Shot Her Sugar Daddy Dead / She Shot Her Shot And It Ended In Marriage (photos) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)
She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Pipswick: 11:04am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Hi Nairaland family, I'm sorry I had to create this account to keep me anonymous. I need any help I can get on this issue please. So this morning this lady that works for a man I do business with woke me with a call at 5:37am today and opened up to me that she's fallen in love with me. I barely know her. We've just met at the boss's place thrice and I was on my business mission. We gisted small the last time I was around in January. And she was telling me about how her ex broke her heart and all, I was adroit, empathized and put myself in her shoes and all. Told her to be more outgoing and more friendly cos she seemed to have shrank into her shell after her break up. After that day the calls increased, checking up on me and normal stuff. I reciprocated cos I felt it was normal for two matured folks. The problem is that I don't really feel the same. Infact it was the least thing I expected this morning. Well I wouldn't bruise her ego, I respect her for her courage and I told her so. She said her problem was that the person might not feel the same and she was right. If I have to have anything with her it wouldn't lead to anything serious. but deep inside her she needs something serious. Well during the course of the call just so I don't shatter her already fragile frame, I mumbled to her "well I like you too and I respect you, especially for your courage". I don't want her to misinterpret my comment. Please I can be her friend but we wouldn't kick anything serious, at least not on my side. It wasn't what I could relate over the phone. I stay in one of the the west African countries and she's in Nigeria. How do I tell her my stand without breaking her again when I'm in Nigeria? Guys help!!! I will be in the comments section. Mods please help me 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Jayslicky: 11:07am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Just sisterzone her, with time her eyes will open. 146 Likes 8 Shares
|
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Newboss(m): 11:09am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Oh, you stay "abroad"? Problem solved 101 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by ouzo1(m): 11:11am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Sister zoning sure pass bros 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Offpoint1: 11:12am On Mar 05, 2019 |
What's so hard about you turning her offer down? why don't just grow some balls and tella you not interested in whatsoever is that she seeks. When a guy let his intentions known to a lady, if she isn't interested she let you know instanta, but when reverse is the case... we got the "I don't wanna hurt her feelings" "How do I turn her offer down without hurting her feelings" and so on... What a bullcrap, so women don't give a fûck about how you guys feels to? Sorry, I'm not interested. let's just maintain the friendship lane.... simple as DVD 225 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by zexy2030(m): 11:14am On Mar 05, 2019 |
put urself in her shoes..assume u r d lady, act d drama with urself.. then u will find answers to ur worries..some guys are just opportunist, they don't know how to say No..but saying No doesn't make u weak..but u r defined as a man who knows where he is going..guy don't play along tell her the truth..if she wouldn't mind..then go ahead...if otherwise.. QUIT. 10 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by victorian(f): 11:15am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Also op, don't always pick her call . And when u are in Nigeria , always claim busy and still don't pick her call .let it keep ringing . Claiming you are busy round the clock , even to pic calls or reply her messages. If she sees u face to face and ask why u aint answering her calls , reply her with a yawn and bored look, that uv been so busy lately and even your gf in your country is even complaining too. She will quickly get the message and gradually withdraw with time . It will hurt but it's better , she knows on time than later . Mehn! thank God I don't shoot shots ! Jeez! I go just die !!!!! 63 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by badadvice(f): 11:16am On Mar 05, 2019 |
I'll advise you reciprocate her love. Push yourself into loving her. You just have to love her and go into a relationship with her. That lady is a nice lady. You must love and cherish her.. if after sometime you still cant love her though, you can then dump her. But first, you must accept her proposal. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by 2dice01: 11:24am On Mar 05, 2019 |
victorian:lmao You See it is not easy to be a man Hope your Greenlight is not multicolored 15 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by victorian(f): 11:39am On Mar 05, 2019 |
2dice01: Lol na so Multicolored ke? Its not o! I don't even known how to show greenlight sef! May God help me 1 Like |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:40am On Mar 05, 2019 |
- why waste her time (or yours)? - why give her hope where there is none? - why lie to this lady (and your own self)? no matter how hard the truth is, tell her exactly how you feel and let her accept that. no time to waste pretending to be who you are not, especially with someone who is somehow related to your money. you certainly aint helping her by NOT being fully honest with her about how you feel about her. you cant pretend to be nice to all the sad babes you PITY 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by youngreezy(m): 11:43am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Jayslicky:madman |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by youngreezy(m): 11:44am On Mar 05, 2019 |
victorian:see your wicked advice,so na wet in u dey do boiz be DAT if I knock ya head eh fish. |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by 2dice01: 1:47pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
victorian:lol Some guys love ladies with no lights like yours We just bring any kinda light we want you to show 1 Like |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by sunbilor(m): 3:36pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
victorian:Hmmm |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Sultty(m): 3:45pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
She a kangaroo, women think they can do what men do but unfortunately for them they outdo themselves. Chai see washing on nl 2 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by loadedvibes: 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
The girl self already has element of a pyscho. You dodged a bullet |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by NotBeenPaid: 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Let her know what's up and stop tryna play the gentleman card so you don't end up giving her high hopes thinking you feel something for her. 4 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Larryslim(m): 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
badadvice:Ahhh, what kind of a bad advice is this? 3 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Don't date a vulnerable girl. When she is back on her feet again, she will run away. Except you wan chop and clean mouth. 6 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
We're in the era of gender equality. Men have been rejected by women since the days of noah. Tell her you're not interested without telling the reason for your decision. 5 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by wisdomkid: 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Honesty.. No matter how hurt she will be, in Years to come, she will respect you for your honesty. 5 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by soberdrunk(m): 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Stone123(m): 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by meobizy(f): 3:48pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Refusing to pick someone's call is a wicked act now? If I am not interested in a female I don't entertain any thought of friendship talk less of a relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Melancho: 3:48pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
'let's just be friends'...the cliché that can never die. I create beautiful websites for N20K. Chat me up let's talk about it. Strictly business website or blog. 07085013051 (Call or WhatsApp= |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by ibolord(m): 3:49pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
I zoom thee, Accra, Ghana 1 Like |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by jaxxy(m): 3:53pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Treat her like a good frnd and tell her Ure not ready for anything serious or Ure seeing sm1 and still watching to see how that goes. 3 Likes |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by JhyMedex: 3:55pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
It's funny how the universe works ....Sth like dis happened to me 2 days ago ...I replied exactly as the op did.. |
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Hduigdujsy: 3:55pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Hdhdtt
|
Re: She Shot Her Shot But I Don't Feel The Same by Nobody: 3:55pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
badadvice:You need serious planking 2 Likes |
Daniel Asaya Comes Out As Gay / Who Says Women Are Not Attracted By What They See? / Help!!! How Do I Save My Fiancée From The Trauma Of Sexual Abuse By Her Uncle?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 50 |