edicied:
Everything with women is about Money, money, money.

Amakavula:
Please don't listen to this idiot that can't keep any relationship. So what happens if your wage increase during dating your wage ? so you should discard the lady abi ? this woman hate women because she failed with relationships. Don't listen to her ooh.

Find compatibility , find character find companion. Don't date wage.

Amakavula:
Please don't listen to this idiot that can't keep any relationship. So what happens if your wage increase during dating your wage ? so you should discard the lady abi ? this woman hate women because she failed with relationships. Don't listen to her ooh.

Find compatibility , find character find companion. Don't date wage.

ivolt:


You are deceiving yourself and others.
Dating outside your wage range is one of the most dangerous relationship gamble.
Because wage range itself already suggest some compatibility in terms of financial behaviour.

Men who date within their wage range will easily avoid gold diggers.
Women also avoid being tagged as proud and disobedient when they date within their wage.

Compatibility does not happen in a vacuum.

princfred:
So those guys who date and help dirt poor girls or the ones far below their income bracket are foolish?

ivolt:

It is generally a foolish decision.

NNAMDIII:
I'm tired of Nigerian girls

princfred:
How old are you? So what happens when wage changes or when a partners income goes south since that's what the love depends on?

ivolt:

Older than you.

What lots of you don't know is that earning power or potential earning power isn't
really about money, it is about character and worldview.
For some people in particular wage bracket, I am completely certain that we have little
in common in terms of life outlook and dreams which will eventually cause distrust and rift.
So why waste time and resources?

Wage is one of the predictors of compatibility in the modern world. Take it serious!

Joromi12:
Coming from a lady who dated and married an ex perm secretarys son while she was a nobody. Toke is mad abeg

princfred:
Yet you reason like one who is 15yrs younger.
I asked you what if a spouse/partner losses his job or wage source or goes into a different wage bracket what becomes of the relationship?

I guess you are a lady because that's how a typical selfish oriented Nigerian lady thinks once they start making money not usually when they are dirt poor or broke. This is why many of them cant be humble to a man and destroy their relationship with selfish greediness induced arrogance after making it leaving the man who suffered for them thin and dry such that he lays a curse on them even without saying it out loud. Tell me which man we not run from these ones knowing fully well that their love is based on the weight of his pay check.
And many cant find a husband after or get wrong ones when "successful" because their eyes are mainly on wage bracket instead of character and personality.
Do you have a clue how many Nigerian ladies are/will become manless like Toke and other female celebrities raised with and following this advice and if men play by that rule? If Character and personality is right and the joy is there, marry (for some assurance) and build the other up if you can that's how many men do and think not knowing that most women is playing by a different book.

Blame greedy parents who teach children nonsense.
Income bracket is too dynamic and emotionally unbinding to be bases of long lasting relationship.

Western ladies found out the hard way that income may not matter so many resort to dirt poor guys even from undeveloped Africa. I wonder who your kind will resort to.

ivolt:

I am a man and would never accept the mentality of a rich man coming to save a dirt poor villager, never.
This is not the 15th century where the only role of women is eating and giving birth.
Your type will never understand until it bites you so hard.

I remember how a governor couldn't have a first lady because the wife is functionally illiterate.
I won't blame you though, many Nigerians can't understand complex concepts, when they encounter
a situation that is not black and white they lose it.

When a bank cleaner loses her job, her wage does not become zero, it is still a cleaner's wage.
And when a bank manager loses her job, her wage is still in the managers' range, she may get a
similar job or go into business but she will never become a bank cleaner.

Wages tells you about intellect, exposure and education(not certificates).
I can't offer more explanation if you still don't understand.