2buffagain:


Yup. Typical female. Not a single logical brain cell.

pansophist:


Take am easy bros, before she say you de mansplain her

Besides, I know not of a single female that argue against the obvious bias in divorce law. They codedly loves it, and act all nice, like a lion awaiting its next victim. I've seen how a friend passed through hell in the hand of his partner, she collides with her lawyer and planned to destroy him. His suffering is evident in his sudden baldness, and emerging facial lines. I still remember when he said to me that "you'll truly never know a woman until you meet her in court". And that statement breaks my heart into this day. All these just because she wants full custody of their child.

If anyone wants to understand how divorce law works in the west, I'll advise you read the book "the predatory female", for a clear explanation. You'll feel bad being a man. Marrying now is a bad deal for men, it's like putting yourself in front of a trigger, and the defence you have is to hope she doesn't shoot you, instead of her not having the gun in the first place.

Prestigewins:



That the secret people fail to understand, any principle that is not founded on Jesus Christ will certainly fail,it becomes a game of luck n chance, a practical Christian will always behave well. Thank God for your marriage and I tape into these testimony.

elonize:
if u have watched this movie disguised, don't ever tell dem u r from Yankee,tell dem u stay in a shabby place,u no get dat much, u go c how e b...if she cm dey snub u nyhow...just video chat her n wen she c wer u dey,...N.a. cry she go dey cry,lol
anoda option, a Christian black or white bae is Der also,....but if u want a last long marriage, d last bus stop NATO put to God to connect u to ur eve... God's network too strong

pansophist:


Take am easy bros, before she say you de mansplain her

Besides, I know not of a single female that argue against the obvious bias in divorce law. They codedly loves it, and act all nice, like a lion awaiting its next victim. I've seen how a friend passed through hell in the hand of his partner, she collides with her lawyer and planned to destroy him. His suffering is evident in his sudden baldness, and emerging facial lines. I still remember when he said to me that "you'll truly never know a woman until you meet her in court". And that statement breaks my heart into this day. All these just because she wants full custody of their child.

If anyone wants to understand how divorce law works in the west, I'll advise you read the book "the predatory female", for a clear explanation. You'll feel bad being a man. Marrying now is a bad deal for men, it's like putting yourself in front of a trigger, and the defence you have is to hope she doesn't shoot you, instead of her not having the gun in the first place.

Naija4lifeYank:
Marry in Yankee. Don't even think of doing the come-home pick wife thing. Or relocate to Nigeria and stay there. IN yankee, your wife starts off as your partner. In 7 years, she is really your boss. You can't do anything without her and you will be totally in her clutches. She will increasingly be independent, call the shots, and if she is Naija and decides to go full commando on your butt, you are totally screwed.

lefulefu:
hm well it might not necessarly be about age cos some younger ladies dey wey dey dominate and control their older husbands though the probability in an older woman controling a younger man is much higher sha. The man na nice but i no think he get low self esteem frm wetin i dey see. Wetin i see be say d guy jus get matured mind and he's willing to let some tinzs slide. But as a sharp woman u suppose to learn some basic stuff cos if u no jus sabi anything den a woman outside could take advantage of dat. Dis one wey dem dey talk say beyouncy admit say she no sabi cook how do we know if rihanna no use her cooking prowess take seduce jayz. Imagine say na so so hamburgers jayzee dey chop all the time dont u think rihanna would have been able to seduce him with one bastard tasty caribbean cuisine.

MarjieJ98354:
Beyonce is married to JayZ, not Rihanna.

Blyzz:
not really moody, I rather not see true love, although I'm not yet married. And I can't focus in doing the right things at home.

Marry a young girl with strong nigerian traditional values that you can groom from nigeria. Submissiveness should be a top priority. You just need to search well and observe her behaviour well.

A second or third generation western born nigerian female is filled with feminist thoughts, they are very unattractive if you want a good and stable marriage

Technically half but mostly all or almost all and they get away with it in America.

tex73:
I'm blessed to marry a very good Christian lady from Kogi(yoruba) and i am Delta(ibo). Came to niaja in search of a lady after being in d US for over 5 years. Did not like d one i had being talking to over d phone for over a year, did not want to trap myself with someone i didnt love or like very much.

I had a week left for my naija stay until a childhood friend asked me to leave my hotel and spend the last week in his house. He forgot he had a sister in law that was at d age for marriage and actually was planning to introduce me to one or two female friends he had, hoping i could like them. He forgot about his wife's younger sister because she was so into her studies at IFE and she hardly came back home during holidays, she was locked down at OAU. God was good to me because it was just as i visited naija that this beautiful lady was having a breather from OAU after she had finished her last set of exams. It was when she called her sister to tell her that she had finished her last exams and was in their parent's home that my friend remembered that he had an in law that may like me. My friend told her about me immediately and told her that we would come visiting d next day.

The next day we visited n i saw her in d living room, all cleaned up of course because she was expecting us. We talked for a while and saw that we had so much in common, especially that we both had Jesus as our Lord and Saviour. I departed for the US shortly. we spoke on the phone everyday for about a year, untill i came back to niaja to propose to her. Thank God she used all that time to do her housemanship in LUTH. See how God blessed me. I came back again for the wedding proper but she didn't go back with me untill my filling (travel documents) for her came through( 6 months) . she came to the US and joined me in my one bedroom apartment. We moved to two when we were expecting baby # one.

We planned that she didnt work but focus on her 3 tough exams in order for her to practice medicine in the US. In all exams she scored a 99% percentile ( she's a brain). Shes one of the best Docs a patient can ask for and is practicing in a top hospital. We have two kids and she's getting even prettier as we age. Married for ten years now. Glory to God.

AntiBrutus:


After their rants, they will logout and call their NIGERIAN GIRLFRIENDS. When she breaks their heart, they will still login to rant about their NIGERIAN GIRLFRIENDS.

Last last, they will marry one NIGERIAN woman. That's all

2buffagain:
If you are in the west and you see a woman, born in Nigeria yet wearing tattoo, that is is a clear sign of a foolish woman to avoid.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Remember our great grandmothers and fathers had tattoos... Google it

2buffagain:


Your great grandmothers and fathers were also pagans.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Saved as in?

2buffagain:


They were pagans.
Worshipping pagan deities.

That is especially not what wifey should be doing.
So any way you spin it, tattoos are a sign of uselessness.

TaminaliaCatapa:
This has been worrisome abeg, I don’t like the idea of bringing any gf from Naija come marry, they mess up real bad.

The Naija girls wey dem born abroad sef, they ain’t any way different from foreigners wey go dey tell you to start sharing house chores 50:50 with dem. There is nothing bad if I do those chores in my own volition, but making it a duty for me is a no-no.

Reason why I cant marry white is obvious, the very immediate point I just made up there, some won’t even let you take your kids back to naija coz it’s shîthole

Please, if you are a
1. Naija married man in a foreign land
2. Didn’t marry here in naija but abroad

How did you get married and what type of woman is she.


Please we wanna learn

aswani:
Please sir, if you have established yourself (i.e good job, house and assets), I beg of you not to come to Naija to find a wife.
You are best of finding someone over there who knows how you have to struggle to achieve what you have.
A high proportion of women that go abroad, as a result of marraige, to an established environment are the worst behaved.
If you are not established, no wahala, take a wife and you can both struggle together to make it. If you are, your best bet is to find a woman without papers over there who will fully appreciate what she has come into having seen the other side of
things.
A word is enough for the wise, don't add yourself to the group of people that regularly tell their stories of regret.

Adebabanla:
I dated a white and she tried to be respectful and do all but their werey is always in them..Asians are the best!! But doesn’t mean you can’t meeg werey Asian too .. just pray for God’s direction bro

TaminaliaCatapa:
This has been worrisome abeg, I don’t like the idea of bringing any gf from Naija come marry, they mess up real bad.

The Naija girls wey dem born abroad sef, they ain’t any way different from foreigners wey go dey tell you to start sharing house chores 50:50 with dem. There is nothing bad if I do those chores in my own volition, but making it a duty for me is a no-no.

Reason why I cant marry white is obvious, the very immediate point I just made up there, some won’t even let you take your kids back to naija coz it’s shîthole

Please, if you are a
1. Naija married man in a foreign land
2. Didn’t marry here in naija but abroad

How did you get married and what type of woman is she.


Please we wanna learn

khiaa:


Alezy is a nice respectful man, it's too bad the rest of you overbearing demons don't have his qualities.