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Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Tezcatlipoca(m): 9:45am On Mar 16, 2019 |
I have been cheating on my gf with my ex. I really want to put a stop to it and also let my gf know about it but I don’t know how to go about it. I love my gf so much, and she gives me whatever I want but I don’t know how I ended up as a cheat. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by victorian(f): 9:47am On Mar 16, 2019 |
irumole1975: dont u get tired? |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by irumole1975: 9:52am On Mar 16, 2019 |
victorian: get tired of loving you? I can't Did you see the #1,500 I sent to your account? Pls manage it and renew your wardrobe |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by victorian(f): 9:55am On Mar 16, 2019 |
irumole1975: Smhhhhhh!!!! |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Solokito(m): 9:57am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Why waisting the push dud,Bleep.08104629677,I'm always available jor |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Mustiboy(m): 10:14am On Mar 16, 2019 |
femi4:both "fully" and "full" are adverbs, and they both could modify "well" in the op's sentence. they can be used interchangeably as they serve the same purpose. but one is widely accepted and considered formal than the other. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Estellie: 10:21am On Mar 16, 2019 |
sanmtiago:I like you already...Oya drop your address I wantu comman spend the night... . |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by sharpwriter(m): 10:23am On Mar 16, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Lol... You're harsh... Wetin you dey try tell am really? You mean he's enjoying the attention? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 16, 2019 |
wizod:That's good. Enjoy 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by DerideGull(m): 11:18am On Mar 16, 2019 |
femi4: "Fully well" is more grammatically correct than "Full well". You cannot use adjective to modify an adverb. However, adverb can be used to modify verbs, adjectives and other adverbs. In "full well", full is primarily an adjective cannot modify an adverb, well. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 16, 2019 |
sanmtiago:if d make such advances next tym,tell dem wat d need to knw.If d cum to ur hus,tell dem dat u want to go out politely 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by PapaAdanna: 11:25am On Mar 16, 2019 |
You may not be a ladies man after all, maybe they see u as loose and wanna take advantage. So don't get it twisted... U can as well drop ur pix let me see what the buzz is about |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 16, 2019 |
JamaicanLove:lol. She was too nice i suspected she was a spirit. Her mum excused us and went away but guy konji no worry me to Bleep total stranger. Although she didnt resist my smooching. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 16, 2019 |
LiveByNight:lol thats not it. Trust me if am a homo i should knw ryt? |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Ozkar: 12:15pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Why do you want to do it politely? If roles were reversed, would ladies turn down your advances politely? Do you know how many guys get insulted and broke-shamed everyday for simply daring to tell a girl they like them, much more trying to get physical? If a girl does not like you, she doesn't care how you take her rejection. Why should you care? Friends come and go. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by OVikkytan49: 1:10pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by franklynn(m): 1:30pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Mehn, dis topic got me on my toes till d end. Op plz here's ur trophy 4 keeping me engaged as I read every single comment on diz thread to d last page n dat is to show u hw interesting d topic is. My advice to Op is simple don't get pushed to d wall. Always remind d galz of ur policy of 'no strings attached' n don't invite gals 2 ur place if u dnt intend to get intimate. Las las d girls go dey alright when dey get d msg |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by extremelygolden: 2:15pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Op, I never knew your type still exists. I used to think all men have gone the wayward way. Kudos! Well, I will advise you make yourself as unavailable as possible. That is, since they have a time frame for such visits, whenever they knock, switch off the light in your room, open the door slightly and tell them you have a visitor. Just make them believe another girl is in the room with you. When you see them the next day apologize for your inability to welcome them properly the previous night. Other times, if they knock, pick up your books immediately and tell them you were on your way out already to read with your guys. That you're running late already and will give them a call as soon as you come back. Which call? But discuss all of these strategies with your girlfriend so she will be in the know. Don't mind those destiny killers. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by PeacenLove2: 2:44pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Just be a genuine person and say it point blank ... " I don't want to have sex with you. It's not my style sorry. " They tend to ask why? Are you gay? Tell them they can ask your girl friend. Now they are amused ... so because of your girlfriend when it hasn't stopped guys with legal wives. Just let them know you respect their life decisions and will appreciate if they respect yours. It's nothing personal. You just don't roll that way. Having said that, I am proud of you. People don't have to eff... just because they can or want to. There is more to life than that. When you eff. ... then it's over, and you have to eff... again and again meaninglessly, aimlessly, what distinguishes you from a four legged beast? |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by GIFTD: 2:50pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
No cutesy in saying NO remember HIV/AIDS is real. It's better to live and be called a Jew man than to die because u want to please people. A word is enough for the wise. Tnx sanmtiago: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by femi4: 3:00pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
DerideGull:Where you copied it, go back and copy everything to the end |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Akolawole(m): 3:05pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Why must they want to bed you? Why? Draw a line. It's not a crime to have female friends but be very careful of ANY lady who throw themselves to you. You are who you are. Do not please ANYONE. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Sholaystar4me(m): 3:40pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Damn, I used to be like this OP, but they finally got me, na breast be my problem now a days but now trying to get back to the disciplined me, bro try and resist all the way nothing good comes off it!!! Recently, I tried something. Girls that randomly get my phone number and chat me up on whatsapp, I just intentionally send out the pic of my gf to them, I make sure they see it by confirming the blue tick on whatsapp, then I delete it and beg their pardon for the mistake. This throws them off a lot. Another thing I do is this, some of the good friends (ladies) I have that were trynna take our friendships to the next level, as soon as they make this known to me, I tell them straight I have a gf, they know she is not here with me but still, they wanna have their ways. So I just reduce immensely the rate at which I see them and talk to them. I give them solid excuses, and after a while they know their places. If I see them like 4 times a month before, I cut it down to once in 6months or 8 sef. I hardly call them anymore but I still receive their calls when they need help with other things or need to talk to me about some other pressing concerns, they ask about my gf and I answer she is fine and that I just got off a video call with her. I am in a long distance relationship with my gf rn, so I am pushing hard to resist all sort of advances from the "Jezebels". Still looking for other methods too. Do share with me if you know more. #victoryisfromGodalone |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by tunwumi: 4:53pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
sanmtiago: It talk about present and future. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by ochibuogwu5: 5:09pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
MAKE A SINCERE MOVE TO SUBMIT COMPLETELY TO JESUS CHRIST AS LORD AND GOD. The HOLY SPIRIT will help you DRAW THIS NECESSARY LINE. it is not about being a student now, you will soon graduate, get a job/business and marry. If you just keep on with girls like this in your office/business/marriage e.t.c; they may lead you into UNCOUNTABLE PROBLEMS. Female/male friends are good BUT CLEAR-LINES MUST BE DRAWN to avoid REGRETS. GREAT GRACE DEAR!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by RealityShot: 9:14pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
sharpwriter:yes o... but it is my turn now... I shawn them so~te them dey ask me "why". mtchewww... Dem neva chii chomchin 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by RealityShot: 9:26pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
castro316:kontinu ... One day you will cry. remember me then O Because "i told you so" hurts like a beach! you soon tell me if it is the immature punany of a lekpacious 12 year old that recently told her aunty that i want her sexually that i am wanting. or the saggy punany of my former neighbour with some man's 3-yr-old boy that i am wanting, because one day she just told everyone that i am trying to toast her...just like that... i weak... The list continues... it was never about punany...most are girls i wanted to marry & never wanted to "test the merchandise"!!! |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by castro316: 9:46pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
RealityShot: Take It or leave it it's not all men that are randy in nature and lastly being principled is the way to go if you want to make it big in this life 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Headlesschicken:Help like what bro?? Abeg enlighten me |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by sanmtiago(m): 1:35am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Estellie:lol |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by sanmtiago(m): 1:36am On Mar 17, 2019 |
johnydon22:because I was trynna be detailed |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by sanmtiago(m): 1:37am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Mysociallife:lol she can’t possibly do that cause she’s madly inlove |
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