OkaNaUbe:
Bf/Gf relationship is risky . Anything can happen.

But the man mumu sha.

PrimadonnaO:
In all of these stories, the full gist is never given. What if the man had real issues...? Yes, he was spending money on her, but what if he was a beater...what if he was a cheat? What if his family had no regard whatsoever for her?

I don't know...there's so much that might have been wrong with the relationship such that getting married would have been a bad idea...

Joshrob:


I have a friend in sch that defile his admission for two years when he was in 200l, just to wait for his girlfriend doing diploma to gain admission to regular program so that they will graduate together.. The funny thing is that they meet in sch..
The girl did not gain admission after 2 attempt, later gain admission in another sch and broke up with my guy.. He later droped out in 400l after his h.o.d advice that it's better for him to restart from 200l again or dropout bcus he was having bad result and hv accumulated more than 17 carryovers..
Some people can do anything for love

PrimadonnaO:
In all of these stories, the full gist is never given. What if the man had real issues...? Yes, he was spending money on her, but what if he was a beater...what if he was a cheat? What if his family had no regard whatsoever for her?

I don't know...there's so much that might have been wrong with the relationship such that getting married would have been a bad idea...

Monaco2:
I know of a girl my guy dated in our uni days, this girl had several abortions for my friend he would beat her on the most smallest things, eventually during our final year they broke up. A year later babe got engaged brought her fiancé to town to meet her family, my nigga was in town so he called her to the hotel he was staying.... long story short they had sex... babe n fiancé was supposed to go back to their base the next day but she told her fiancé to go ahead that she still needs to spend more time with her family. Fiancé left n babe spent a week with my guy in the hotel... eventually my guy relocated to the same state the babe n fiancé was staying... this girl would from mainland struggle to meet my guy on the island just for sex... my guy has to complain to me that he is looking for a new apartment to relocate to b4 this babe distroy his own relationship with his babe or put him in trouble. There are some stories u will hear n u will be disgusted with girls

Joshrob:


I swear.. It happened
The guy is in Kenya hustling now
When his mum came to sch bcus she's seeing the poeple that did matriculation with her son going for services, she fainted when the h.o.d show her the guy carryovers.
His dad have 2 wife's and he's the only son his mum have, she have to beg the father to help the guy with money to start something with his life bcus they man have already disown him after hearing the story.

LordAdam16:


If something was wrong in the relationship, why did she not leave?

Instead, she was double-dating the guy she's about to marry, while using the other guy for scholarship.

She conveniently stayed in the relationship and cheated on the guy while he paid her fees (and I'm sure other financial favors) for 4 years.

Now you want to be a philosopher.

Granted, the guy may have dodged a bullet. She's the kind of lady that'd make a guy raise a baby that isn't his. But please don't make annoying excuses on her behalf.

Treat others like you'd want to be treated.

-Lord

PrimadonnaO:
In all of these stories, the full gist is never given. What if the man had real issues...? Yes, he was spending money on her, but what if he was a beater...what if he was a cheat? What if his family had no regard whatsoever for her?

I don't know...there's so much that might have been wrong with the relationship such that getting married would have been a bad idea...

PrimadonnaO:



Where did you get your own gist from? Where was it stated that she was two-timing?

Intrepid01:


Bros wait, did you also graduate at all? cos this your English na wa wa wa o

Intrepid01:


Bros wait, did you also graduate at all? cos this your English na wa wa wa o

chivera018:
training a girl in higher institution is just like playing lotto, you loss or gain. So put your mind in one of the two.

Doing so means she will be indebted to you but does not guarantee love or faithfulness. If she decides to cut the relationship off in her 3rd or 4th yr, you will start accusing the poor lady of using you bla bla bla.

Marry her first if you want a future together, education or not. Just don't use marriage as a tool for bargaining for education.

LordAdam16:


If something was wrong in the relationship, why did she not leave?

Instead, she was double-dating the guy she's about to marry, while using the other guy for scholarship.

She conveniently stayed in the relationship and cheated on the guy while he paid her fees (and I'm sure other financial favors) for 4 years.

Now you want to be a philosopher.

Granted, the guy may have dodged a bullet. She's the kind of lady that'd make a guy raise a baby that isn't his. But please don't make annoying excuses on her behalf.

Treat others like you'd want to be treated.

-Lord

DanDeeBoss:
I actually don't pity stupid people

MannieA, You dey So??

chivera018:
training a girl in higher institution is just like playing lotto, you loss or gain. So put your mind in one of the two.

Doing so means she will be indebted to you but does not guarantee love or faithfulness. If she decides to cut the relationship off in her 3rd or 4th yr, you will start accusing the poor lady of using you bla bla bla.

Marry her first if you want a future together, education or not. Just don't use marriage as a tool for bargaining for education.

MannieA:



Boss Good morning.
I dey o. I haven't really been active on NL.
I just dey reason the whole matter. I weak
some humans are just too inconsiderate.

I am sure you're living up to your Signature.... Well-done

I haven't seen your comments in a while....I hope it's good ..

donstan18:
Was there any agreement between them that they'll get married after sponsoring her? If NO, the lady did nothing wrong. But if YES, the man fvcked up by not engaging and paying for her bride price when she was schooling.

Marriage is lifetime contract, not a joke.

Under no circumstances whatsoever should you allow yourself to be manipulated by any man or woman for marriage.

Without an agreement, have it in mind that a woman owe you no marriage for sponsoring her in school. Never!

Also have in mind that a man owe you no marriage for doing 35 abortions in a relationship.

Whatever risk you take in a relationship, be ready to bear the consequences.

donstan18:
Was there any agreement between them that they'll get married after sponsoring her? If NO, the lady did nothing wrong. But if YES, the man fvcked up by not engaging and paying for her bride price when she was schooling.

Marriage is lifetime contract, not a joke.

Under no circumstances whatsoever should you allow yourself to be manipulated by any man or woman for marriage.

Without an agreement, have it in mind that a woman owe you no marriage for sponsoring her in school. Never!

Also have in mind that a man owe you no marriage for doing 35 abortions in a relationship.

Whatever risk you take in a relationship, be ready to bear the consequences.

PrimadonnaO:
In all of these stories, the full gist is never given. What if the man had real issues...? Yes, he was spending money on her, but what if he was a beater...what if he was a cheat? What if his family had no regard whatsoever for her?

I don't know...there's so much that might have been wrong with the relationship such that getting married would have been a bad idea...

Joshrob:


I have a friend in sch that defile his admission for two years when he was in 200l, just to wait for his girlfriend doing diploma to gain admission to regular program so that they will graduate together.. The funny thing is that they meet in sch..
The girl did not gain admission after 2 attempt, later gain admission in another sch and broke up with my guy.. He later droped out in 400l after his h.o.d advice that it's better for him to restart from 200l again or dropout bcus he was having bad result and hv accumulated more than 17 carryovers..
Some people can do anything for love

chivera018:
training a girl in higher institution is just like playing lotto, you loss or gain. So put your mind in one of the two.

Doing so means she will be indebted to you but does not guarantee love or faithfulness. If she decides to cut the relationship off in her 3rd or 4th yr, you will start accusing the poor lady of using you bla bla bla.

Marry her first if you want a future together, education or not. Just don't use marriage as a tool for bargaining for education.

Evalove77:
in fact, u re my type of woman

chivera018:
lol

DanDeeBoss:
I am sure you're living up to your Signature.... Well-done

I haven't seen your comments in a while....I hope it's good ..

MannieA:



Lol
I've just been lowkey and kinda antisocial, but I'm good tho...
Happy Sunday. I missed you o

I am going AWOL too soon

I didn't miss you ......Happy Xundai too