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Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tayooluwole: 12:57pm On Mar 17, 2019
As an IJESHA guy, my mum warned me last week not to marry an IJEBU sister, that if i dare do she will never accept her... i was curious about what could have triggered such statement, she went further to say ijebu babe are found of magically placing thier husband under thier sole authority. Thereby alienating me from the reach of family members. Mum said she can not afford to write application before seeing me. I had to laugh it off and enlightened my Mum how damaging hasty generalisation could be. But she insisted.

However, on the second thought, i have to respect my Mum's opinion especially in regards to the issue of marital life contract. I therefore, called my babe and narrated all what my Mum said about our relationship.

Fortunately and unfortunately, my babe confirmed all what my Mum said without even pretending for a second, she even became furious at one time and directed me to place my Mum within limit. That my Mum has nothing to do with our relationship and therefore should not interfere. The screenshot of my conversations with my babe are attached below... pls what should i do because i love my Babe ooooo

Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tayooluwole: 12:58pm On Mar 17, 2019
another

Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 17, 2019
You don't have a girlfriend. Fvck and move on.

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by CosmicPhoenix: 1:03pm On Mar 17, 2019
the both of you do not sound serious

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Officialgarri: 1:07pm On Mar 17, 2019
Reading her chat gives me headache.

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by nigeriancritic1(m): 1:41pm On Mar 17, 2019
Run!!! An Ijebu lady is mlies ahead of you in terms of exposure. It makes it worse if you are not social. She will drag you out to socialise. But to be frank, Ijebu wife can kill you with care, there link with their home town and family is their greatest undoing.
Listen to your mum. I have been there before!!!!!!!!

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by decatalyst(m): 1:46pm On Mar 17, 2019
Officialgarri:
Reading her chat gives me headache.


It got my brain twisted!
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Apus: 1:57pm On Mar 17, 2019
I'm sure Ur Momma must have warned you prayerfully for this lady to expose herself. Trust me, Ijebu or no Ijebu, ladies with very evil intentions can conceal their character perfectly well that you can't see a stint of d devil in them until after marriage. Imagine such statements.


Forget those teachings of not divorcing one's spouse. I will gladly divorce any evil woman who tries to severe every ties with my own mother. Rubbish!!

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Newboss(m): 2:07pm On Mar 17, 2019
BananaTree:
You don't have a girlfriend. Fvck and move on.

I hope you know that pic has racism all over it? >angry
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by CAPSLOCKED: 2:11pm On Mar 17, 2019
Officialgarri:
Reading her chat gives me headache.

THE GIRL IS A CULTIST.
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tee59(f): 2:16pm On Mar 17, 2019
But you said, you love your babe now. With this conversation, your mum was right. But the decision still lies in your hand to make, so don't trouble us please?
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by austyn0(m): 2:23pm On Mar 17, 2019
She is sounding kinda desperate and desperation can lead to lotsa negative thoughts and deeds..

OP...

Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by okikiola2: 2:24pm On Mar 17, 2019
tayooluwole:
another

Omo gbera!!!!! Ha!!! Your mother was right, please let her go.
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by CaptainStephen(m): 2:29pm On Mar 17, 2019
Tribalism won't help you o, I dont think you are ready for marriage if you can gauge the tone of her banter.

And she is your supposed girlfriend abi
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tosyne2much(m): 2:36pm On Mar 17, 2019
You never find wife ooo baba.. See the nonsense the girl even dey spew for mouth instead of telling you to give your mom reasons why she is different from other Ijebu women, and why she needs to stop holding tribalism against her

Ladies like this can do anything to conceal the stink of the devil in them and unleash it after marriage

You end up living a miserable life

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Nobody: 2:38pm On Mar 17, 2019
Newboss:


I hope you know that pic has racism all over it? >angry

You feel insecure about everything.
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tayooluwole: 3:27pm On Mar 17, 2019
tosyne2much:
You never find wife ooo baba.. See the nonsense the girl even dey spew for mouth instead of telling you to give your mom reasons why she is different from other Ijebu women, and why she needs to stop holding tribalism against her

Ladies like this can do anything to conceal the stink of the devil in them and unleash it after marriage

You end up living a miserable life

thanks baba... i appreciate
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Kendumazy(m): 3:36pm On Mar 17, 2019
God dey by your side. Your mama said it theoretically and your girl confirmed it practically. It's your choice now. Weigh the situation and make the right choice. All the very best.
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Nobody: 3:51pm On Mar 17, 2019
Her alienating you from your family aside, the way she talks about your mom in the chat is very disrespectful.

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Gluckudom1(m): 4:02pm On Mar 17, 2019
Ijebu people never clear you... e get one man for my area (Akwa Ibom) were enter police dem leta transfer am go Lagos na him, him go marry Ijebu woman Omo na de de man dey ooo if you want talk to am na war... de wife twist en head like say tomorrow no de, baba change all all him con get six children.This man come house Dec period na,no na de wife side him de buy things go.e forget him mama all all even when de mama die e no come and na him be first born,him con come when dem bury de mama with the wife alone and not the kids as at this time him don de lag for good six years... so my guy reason well.

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by dhebo(m): 4:16pm On Mar 17, 2019
Op behind the scene grin

Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tayooluwole: 4:17pm On Mar 17, 2019
Gluckudom1:
Ijebu people never clear you... e get one man for my area (Akwa Ibom) were enter police dem leta transfer am go Lagos na him, him go marry Ijebu woman Omo na de de man dey ooo if you want talk to am na war... de wife twist en head like say tomorrow no de, baba change all all him con get six children.This man come house Dec period na,no na de wife side him de buy things go.e forget him mama all all even when de mama die e no come and na him be first born,him con come when dem bury de mama with the wife alone and not the kids as at this time him don de lag for good six years... so my guy reason well.

with all these comments coming in, i got to jakpa.. thanks bro
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Nobody: 4:36pm On Mar 17, 2019
dhebo:
Op behind the scene grin

You are a big fool cheesy

Possible sha
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:33pm On Mar 17, 2019
Two of una no well
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by bullabong(m): 9:16pm On Mar 17, 2019
Officialgarri:
Reading her chat gives me headache.
Seems she has him locked already. Confidence in her tone is high
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by raphretle: 10:19pm On Mar 17, 2019
guy run before she go put you inside short maltina bottle wey be say space no go dey for you to shake...
BE YE WARNED
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by jeph19(m): 12:36am On Mar 18, 2019
Imagine your babe saying your mum should not Bleep up... Na wife material be that?

Anyway I think I've learnt a little about ijebu women

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by femi4: 5:35am On Mar 18, 2019
Jirair:
Her alienating you from your family aside, the way she talks about your mom in the chat is very disrespectful.

Exactly, I thought I was the only that noticed that. Ijebu or not Ijebu, that particular lady lack manners

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Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Greatzeus(m): 5:58pm On Mar 18, 2019
So if she was Adenuga's daughter now,your mum will say no
I'm sure your mum is not educated,if she had gone to school and came across students from different tribes or even race,she would have known generalizing about a particular tribe, religion or nation is myopic undecided
Free the girl now,let her know you are no more interested, even though I'm sure you have Nack her tire,but know karma is real. Go and marry and let's see the thing you will eventually marry that will be better than the one you are dropping,not because she is rude or a cheat or can't cook or ugly or dirty or one bad thing but because your mother said. undecided
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by tayooluwole: 6:09pm On Mar 18, 2019
Greatzeus:
So if she was Adenuga's daughter now,your mum will say no
I'm sure your mum is not educated,if she had gone to school and came across students from different tribes or even race,she would have known generalizing about a particular tribe, religion or nation is myopic undecided
Free the girl now,let her know you are no more interested, even though I'm sure you have Nack her tire,but know karma is real. Go and marry and let's see the thing you will eventually marry that will be better than the one you are dropping,not because she is rude or a cheat or can't cook or ugly or dirty or one bad thing but because your mother said. undecided

you yourself check out our conversations and tell me a man that will wave aside such calamity ahead...
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by Greatzeus(m): 6:28pm On Mar 18, 2019
tayooluwole:


you yourself check out our conversations and tell me a man that will wave aside such calamity ahead...
Remember his mum wasn't talking about that lady,she doesn't know the lady,she was talking about the millions of Ijebu girls and ladies and women in Nigeria. How many Ijebu people have she met
Assuming she stated a fault,we will know but she is prejudiced against Ijebu people. She that she is not Ijebu what her she achieved in her life? Her son's that are married that didn't marry Ijebu where are they? How is their marriage,is it anything less than miserable
All you guys up there talking trash,that girl might have a bad attitude,it was just a coincidence,why support the woman. Imagine if the girls isn't rude(like millions of Ijebu girl out there) or she is kind and truly love him. Op will just tell her he can't marry her because his mum doesn't want him to marry Ijebu Is that fair,after using the girl to quench your sex drive for years undecided
Op,just tell the girl already so that she can move on,then go and look for another girl and let's see your your mum will say. And also let's see what will come out of it.
Re: Screenshot: The Worst Dilemma Of My Life... by badadvice(f): 7:13pm On Mar 18, 2019
Greatzeus:

Remember his mum wasn't talking about that lady,she doesn't know the lady,she was talking about the millions of Ijebu girls and ladies and women in Nigeria. How many Ijebu people have she met
Assuming she stated a fault,we will know but she is prejudiced against Ijebu people. She that she is not Ijebu what her she achieved in her life? Her son's that are married that didn't marry Ijebu where are they? How is their marriage,is it anything less than miserable
All you guys up there talking trash,that girl might have a bad attitude,it was just a coincidence,why support the woman. Imagine if the girls isn't rude(like millions of Ijebu girl out there) or she is kind and truly love him. Op will just tell her he can't marry her because his mum doesn't want him to marry Ijebu Is that fair,after using the girl to quench your sex drive for years undecided
Op,just tell the girl already so that she can move on,then go and look for another girl and let's see your your mum will say. And also let's see what will come out of it.

this one is definitely an ijebu goat.
You read the chat, you saw how rude and disrespectful she is.
Not to forget the subtle threat she issued at the mum if she "fvcks up", yet you're arguing "ijebu and generalising".
Op, if you know whats good for you dont bother reading the shiit this guy just wrote and run from that babe.
She's rude, disrespectful, desperate and is probably a cultist or rugged lady.

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