uruba23:
I think if you don't have mutual respect for each other..just forget the relationship...I said " Mutual "

bobowaja:
I know you are not going to follow this advise. But to be candid, you have to cut her off. Sooner or later you will be dealing with emotional stress which might lead to low self esteem or depression.

CXLVII:
Sincerely, I just have to tell you what I will do.

I believe you must have invested in the girl financially and morally and being at the losing end will hurt you.

But based on my "Personal" opinion , if I were you, I will just use such girl for money rituals

emerged01:
If you are not the type that is rude to a lady,then you shouldn't give a lady chance to be rude to you. Pour your heart to her,if she continues,cut her off.

Lekside230:
well I was even planning to get her a business she’s gonna be doing...I’m wondering how it’d have been now if I have done that.

CXLVII:


Hey ya!

Trust me.

Rule 1. Women are not worth it. It's much better to be bitten by a King Cobra than to love a woman.

Nwodosis:
Somebody else is somewhere making her happier!

Lekside230:
but I haven’t caught her with any strange chats before.

Lekside230:
but I haven’t caught her with any strange chats before.

uruba23:
I said mutual respect she went to the market...Agree you weren't feeling fine...is it possible she is stressed out too...except it is a recurrent event I would advise you pardon her then talk some sense into her when you get well....you have to be patient with women o.

Lekside230:
but she’d never accept the fact that she’s wrong...she’d want me to always apologize...but that’s not gonna be possible again this time....

rex444:
ok, from what I can deduce, she is still a young vibrant gal who thinks even if you dump her, there are a lot of other guys out there that would date her.... don't run and leave your shit oooo, sit her down as the man U are ,talk to her deeply ....let her know there are two sides of a coin but sometimes when U toss it over and over you will still continue getting a head..... you can figure that last coin part out yourself

Lordave:
You said you have made up your mind, now follow your mind to the finish and go treat yourself and stop asking redundant questions.

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I just think I have to post this stuff here cuz it’s getting too much....it’s all about my relationship...please don’t mind my English...so yesterday my girlfriend was with me...and I was really sick which she knows herself...so she went to the market to get what we gonna eat...,so when she came back..she then ask me to go fetch water...and I was thinking in my mind..if this girl doesn’t know I’m sick even with my appearance...I sat down looking at her...she then talk in a rude way that I shouldn’t fetch the water then...that I should leave it..that she isn’t gonna cook it...I then struggled to go fetch that water and came in...she then ask If have done that I said yes...all I could hear is...can’t I talk!!!or maybe I’m having a mouth pain...that words hit me...,she was then talking to me in a bad way...that I’m been proud cuz I helped her with her school fees...cuz I helped her with her school fees on Friday..due to some financial problems she has...she then sent back the money to me immediately cuz she haven’t paid it yet,so I just have to go out and drink..cuz I refuse to eat what she cooked,so that same evening her mum texted me and greeted me...so I explained everything that’s going on....she then said she would call her...when i go through their chats..all she could tell her mum is...if I can’t settle it myself that she isn’t gonna settle anything...that it’s not her first time talking to me anyhow...Nairalanders please I need your candid advice...what can I do about this case?cuz it’s getting too much everytime...if she isn’t gonna talk to me rudely....she’d get angry on an unnecessary issue...all I need is just your advice..no insults please...thanks to you all in advance.

Lekside230:
no one ask you to comment..and no one beg you to comment..

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I just think I have to post this stuff here cuz it’s getting too much....it’s all about my relationship...please don’t mind my English...so yesterday my girlfriend was with me...and I was really sick which she knows herself...so she went to the market to get what we gonna eat...,so when she came back..she then ask me to go fetch water...and I was thinking in my mind..if this girl doesn’t know I’m sick even with my appearance...I sat down looking at her...she then talk in a rude way that I shouldn’t fetch the water then...that I should leave it..that she isn’t gonna cook it...I then struggled to go fetch that water and came in...she then ask If have done that I said yes...all I could hear is...can’t I talk!!!or maybe I’m having a mouth pain...that words hit me...,she was then talking to me in a bad way...that I’m been proud cuz I helped her with her school fees...cuz I helped her with her school fees on Friday..due to some financial problems she has...she then sent back the money to me immediately cuz she haven’t paid it yet,so I just have to go out and drink..cuz I refuse to eat what she cooked,so that same evening her mum texted me and greeted me...so I explained everything that’s going on....she then said she would call her...when i go through their chats..all she could tell her mum is...if I can’t settle it myself that she isn’t gonna settle anything...that it’s not her first time talking to me anyhow...Nairalanders please I need your candid advice...what can I do about this case?cuz it’s getting too much everytime...if she isn’t gonna talk to me rudely....she’d get angry on an unnecessary issue...all I need is just your advice..no insults please...thanks to you all in advance.

Offpoint:
My opinion
I think some times it's better we type with our local dialet or pidgin English to convey our message properly.

There are too many "Cuz, cuz" in your write up that ended confuses me on what to say or not to say... right now, as of this moment... I don't understand the write up.