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BDSM PRACTICES 101: Sissification by Myzteriouz: 11:17am On Mar 20, 2019
When many think about bdsm, they think dungeons and chains, sometimes you’re looking for entertainment and fun; it may come in frilly lace and satin panties over an erect pr1ck.
So let's talk about forced feminization or sissification, this is something quite a few people enjoy. So if you've wondered what it is about; here goes:

Forced Feminization Training 101
“I just want to be your little slut,” the man whimpered on the other end of the line. My first reaction was a smile. Why? Sissy sluts are just absolutely favorites.�� Especially when he can take pain well too. So a sissy slut that's also open to masochism tickles me pink.
I get a lot or reqests for this even from the "alpha males" because, truth be told. Men are sluts, they just like to keep in their heads and their actual center of gravity is inside their mancunt.
In my eight years of being into this lifestyle, I have so many sissy sluts that are not really into being in frills but wont mind riding my "sissyd1ck" like a little wh0re���� so Sissification isn't all about getting pegged (bleeped like a slut in your mancunt), it is also about role playing.
How do we do that?
*Dressing him up: If your male partner likes to try on these clothes on his own, it’s just crossdressing. Forced sissification enters the picture when he has to put on something that YOU say. ��� Cos YOU say so. Dressing up one’s sissy is usually the first part of forced feminization, and the costuming also sets the scene, so it’s important that you handle this part of your dynamic seriously. Taking him with you to go shopping for his clothing, or doing it together online, is an excellent prelude.
If you are feeling nice/generous, you can ask him what he is drawn to; if you’re the Bitchy Queen (like me�) in the relationship, don’t allow him any input at all. (If you do take him shopping and you want him to try things on, remember to be extra discreet, it's still Naija we dey��� they are still archaic � in their sexuality.)
Whether you are able to have him try things on and show you, or you just have to select things and hope they fit, try to keep a steady flow of conversation going about them:
Consider these: Why you chose these clothes for him? How they will look on him? What certain colours mean.
For example, pink and lace were for princessy brats�, and red was for slutty seductresses. Pretty standard Western gender stereotypes, as far as these things go, but it’s a good starting place when you’re messing around in your man’s head.

*Service and submission:
What you have your sissy wear will be partly informed by what you want him to do.
Do you want a purely decorative sissy, someone clad in outrageous and not-very-practical latex or lace concoctions? (You might even go the other way, strip them down to vulnerable nakednss except pantyhose.
Perhaps you are looking for domestic submission, e.g. housecleaning or cooking? Are you expecting intense sexual service, either for yourself or for other people of your choosing?
Whatever your goals for your partner’s submission, you will want to constantly assert the role of your sissy, both verbally and through action.This power play can have any number of emotional overlays. You may decide to play it tender and loving - praising your sissy in very specific ways for how they perform the tasks that you set to them. ��� Like I do.
“You did so well pouring the beer this afternoon, muffin. Not a drop spilled!”
Or you can decide to be precise and high-protocol, instructing your sissy to stand or kneel in a certain way. In this case, remember to tell them why you are giving them a position.
“I want to see your ass sticking out, bitch. We both know you like showing that off.”
*Domination and discipline
Forced feminization isn’t really forced unless you’re pushing it somehow. And sissification or sissy training isn’t training unless there are some consequences for lapses in your sissy’s behaviour, and positive reinforcement as well for when they succeed.
You will have talked at the beginning stages of the forced feminization process about a safe word, for when your sissy might feel pushed too far. That is also the moment when you find out what the edges are that they want to dance around.
You could make your sissy do their own makeup and shame them for the shambles they will make of it. You could have your sissy serve tea in higher and higher heels over time.
You could combine forced feminization with forced bisexuality, e.g. learning how to perform MouthAction or take it up the ass (with real dicks or dildos).
Whatever tasks you choose, think about what your responses will be for both successes and failures. Your responses can be very creatively matched to how you are playing with your sub. Rewards could be a new cake pan (for the domestic) or some new clothes, or in the sexual realm, giving them a chance for release (if you’ve added orgasm denial into the mix), for example. Punishments could be corporal or psychological, but make them match your domination style!

As you can see, forced feminization is at its base a head game, which means that you can try it out with a minimal amount of props or costume. Get the girly clothes at thrift stores and the lipstick at the drugstore. If you focus on the mental aspects, you’ll be fine!

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Re: BDSM PRACTICES 101: Sissification by housestark: 12:17am On May 06, 2019
How can one contact you?
Re: BDSM PRACTICES 101: Sissification by Myzteriouz: 5:31am On Mar 10
housestark:
How can one contact you?
been out of here for a while. Send a mail to kinksandroses@gmail.com
Re: BDSM PRACTICES 101: Sissification by Dew04(f): 7:13pm On Aug 01
It's kind of hard to imagine a man being a sub! grin Myzteriouz is dominatrix?
Re: BDSM PRACTICES 101: Sissification by Myzteriouz: 2:23pm On Aug 02
Dew04:
It's kind of hard to imagine a man being a sub! grin
Myzteriouz is dominatrix?
yes I am

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