Hi house, I will like to seek the opinion of matured and responsible nairalanders. A very close friend of mine, broke up with her fiance yesterday. Though, for almost 2 weeks, she's been avoiding the guy's call, but yesterday, she decided to visit him and tell her she is no longer interested. Before you crucify her, lemme tell u the reasons she gave.
First, she attends redeem church while the man was brought up in deeper life, hence they have so many differences in terms of belief. They've been dating for more than six months and already , the parent of the man knows her. The man, due to his religious background gave some rules. He told her that, if they eventually gets married, the lady will no longer be wearing trousers, no mini skirt, no make-up, not even powder, no jewelries. I asked why she accepted the conditions in the first place, but her reason was, she felt , if she can be able to convince the man, based on her behaviour, her care, her faithfulness, her committment and so on, perhaps, the man would overlook those things and allow her do those things moderately. But really, recently, they had a major discussion, and the man assured my friend that, no matter what, those rules are laws, that his wife must adhere to. She thought about this issue for so many days and finally decided to break up with him because she said she can't stop those things, she says she feel comfortable doing those things . My friend is not the flashy type and not the kind of ladies that wear low waist trousers or tiny hand tops, she is a decent girl to the core, I can attest to that.
She broke up with her fiance yesterday and to my greatest surprise, today, on the front page of my facebook profile is the status of my friend's fiance, he changed his relationship status to 'single' from 'in a relationship' and also changed what he is looking for,I said to myself, not so fast!
I just wanna ask house, was my friend wrong to have expressed her feelings to the man rather than pretend to accept those things, and why would the man change his status immediately, in less than 24 hours?

@poster- pls congratulate your friend for me cos she just freed herself from a relationship that would have ended up in a dreadful marriage.

from fore-knowledge, none of them can really relate with and outsider cos they are birds of different feathers.

imagine in this jet age, rules like no short skirt, no earrings, no television, no internet, no jeans, flashy clothing,. . . . . . . . . etc.

as if God is interested in your clothings. He is interested in your heart and worship.

It is beta 2 have a broken r/ship than a broken marriage.Ur has taken d rite decision since she is not ready live dat way after marriage. As for d man,damn it! He was just too fast.

I mean 2 say ur friend has taken d rite decision.

She should thank her God that she did what a sensible person would do (telling the truth )
That man is on the verge of being a control freak. Imagine being told to go and change every day as you are going out because you wore trousers or earrings.

Some men thinks that once they pay the bride price,they can do anything they like 2 their wife

@Topic:

That your friends fiance is a CAPITAL FOOL, whats the meaning of no trousers,no shirt abi NA skirt.
He would have simply added NO PANTS to it so that we would Just know that he means what he's saying,
But sometin in me tells me ure the gurl posters,anyway which ever case, Your friend shouldnt go back to that stark raving son of a bi to the itch
its people like him that makes Nigeria look so backward~


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I commend your frend declining to live a lie just in the name of marriage.i am hapi she knws its not a do or die affair.

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are u hungry ?

A brother got to choose right.

They obviously couldn't get what they needed in each other. May they find whatever they are looking for elsewhere.

lollllllll. laughing out loud, can u imagine, after a month, this guy is now trying to come back .He is begging my friend now and saying he cant remember giving my friend those rues, and that my friend is free to do whatever she likes and wear whatever she likes, men, this is funny o, guys can be really funny at times
laughingggggggggggggggg

afrobaby:

lollllllll. laughing out loud, can u imagine, after a month, this guy is now trying to come back .He is begging my friend now and saying he cant remember giving my friend those rues, and that my friend is free to do whatever she likes and wear whatever she likes, men, this is funny o, guys can be really funny at times
laughingggggggggggggggg

How are we sure it was ur friend who went 2 apologise n ready 2 stick by the rules after their wedding.

yorke:

How are we sure it was your friend who went 2 apologise n ready 2 stick by the rules after their wedding.

because I knew when he called my friend and he has also been calling me since friday to help beg my friend ,saying he is sorry!!!!!!

afrobaby:

because I knew when he called my friend and he has also been calling me since friday to help beg my friend ,saying he is sorry!!!!!!

I hope is not already too 4 d dude coz i guess ur friend must have gotten another dude 4 herself already.

^^Too late i meant