xoxocandy:
Yea no one wants to help, even to loan

AdorableJosh:



Can I just skip to the time it gets better? Glad you got a turn around.

ThothHermes:
Thank you. This helped me.


I wan mad here

merahki:

Hello What part of Nigeria are you in? You and Holywizard

Holywizard:
I'm highly depressed and saddened.
A graduate without a meaningful job to eat.
Sometimes I just feel like to end things.
Social media is not helping things seeing my mates living larger.
God plz help me

Fisher007:


Hmm. Now let me give you a little advice.
Please I say do not hate the messenger, instead listen and gain a deeper understanding of the message.

I have been through depression and healing gradually. I can talk on this subject matter well from experience.

You are not enjoying the process to your happiness.
You are just looking for the end result. You see you need to learn certain things in depression stage. Trust me I know it sound weird but you will realise this when it is over.

Firstly I will tell you to thank God you are experiencing this at a young age. Because you can plan and work for better future. It is a message for you to get prepared and plan your future well. I can bodily tell you 80 percent of people experience it at old age. Why? Cause they got a job immediately after school and got married but they never really understand the true nature or essence of life.

Second, You need to read books not on depression. But on wealth creation not rich creation. There are a lot of books on get rich scheme or advice but avoid them. This wealth creation. books will give you deep knowledge on how to survive financially all through your life.

Thirdly, social media is fake. You should know that by now. A lot people are on fickle fate. The fact you see a turkey flying doesn't mean a turkey can fly. You need to have an inner reflection on what works for you and makes you happy on the low. Not following or stocking people's profile to reflect on yourself.

And generally to curb all you need God for divine wisdom, knowledge and understanding. You need him to take you on turbulent water where people (family, friends, relatives, enemy, lovers etc) leave you.

That is where you will you will grow from being a boy to a man. The transition into your end result. Young friend enjoy it and learn.

Safe.

PrecisionFx:


Hello.

But u aren't contemplating suicide right?

Holywizard:
0724948932 Access bank.
Name - Ndukwe Wisdom

omoteacher:




Sent, please manage the little token. Tis well, I pray immediate help locate you soonest.

Holywizard:
Thank you and God bless

nanakgh:
DONT do it. Almost swallowed a cocktail of pills one time in 2016 before my lil bro entered the house from school. I was ill, lonely and single not by choice, broke, disrespected and jobless and I hated it and wanted all the pain and shame to end.
I was a jobless graduate who had friends making it and it felt like it would never end and I was always going to be late.
I almost did it before my bro entered the house and suddenly called out my name before I answered with a shaky voice and hid the pills which I later threw away. One of the few occasions in my life I still consider divine intervention. Fast forward to 2019, I have a perfect fiancé (not perfect but u know what I mean) , a good job which pays well (today I get to complain about long hours and small pay ) and there are so many plans we have and the future looks so bright and I've been working not even 2 years now.

My life isnt even close to perfect but things are so much better than just three years ago when i was at my lowest. I'm actually doing the things I always planned to do now. Its crazy. I dunno what u believe but no matter what it is, life generally has a way of sorting things out. Write those applications, learn the trade..just do something and you'll be fine. I'm proof. Hold on. Don't do it.

alabi484:


So, I am in your 2016 at the moment just that my mum has lot 2 children already, loosing me will kill her straight up, so I secretly hope I'll get lost in an accident some day, I don't know why I feel so disconnected, helpless and empty and there's no one to talk to..I'm scared, I just cried reading your comment and hopefully I'll be in your 2019 some time soon

alabi484:


So, I am in your 2016 at the moment just that my mum has lot 2 children already, loosing me will kill her straight up, so I secretly hope I'll get lost in an accident some day, I don't know why I feel so disconnected, helpless and empty and there's no one to talk to..I'm scared, I just cried reading your comment and hopefully I'll be in your 2019 some time soon

nanakgh:



Alabi. You'll be so surprised when u look back at this moment a few years from now. You'll shudder at the thought of what u almost did, and what u would av lost. In the near future, when u look at the face of the woman u love, look at the kids u have, look at the things you have gained, you'll realize how fleeting circumstances are, and you'll truly understand that no situation is permanent. I know it feels bleak and hopeless, like absolutely nothing will work out, but believe me, its a process. Your time is coming I swear av seen it happen for so many others. Give it just about a year, keep at it, work hard and you wont know what happened all the tears will turn to joy. Life will never be perfect but bro it gets so much better. Just watch, bro. Just watch. Your best is coming. Stay alive for mama, and make it for her. Don't do it. You're going to shock even your own self

UnFunmi:


The most interesting thing about bad times is they can't outlast us. It's difficult, I get. But they are temporary. Don't lose yourself. Please hold on. For the sake of your mom and everyone who love you. There's light at the end of your tunnel.

Albinoflash:
am still searching for someone close to my kind of depression.its rear and am surprised i have survived dis long.i droped out of school on my final year without any reason,i lost all my childhood friends and lost contact with my school friends.the worst is dat most people tot i had graduated even my school mates cos i took the final exams.now my parents are frustrated and dat is making me more frustrated.i wake up everyday just wishing it will be my last to end dis misery.my parents try to introduce me to God but i have long lost hope in christ.have neva been to any church gathering since 2years.even though i still tink i love God,but everything makes me think their is nothing he can do 4 me.when i say am d worst human on earth i am damn seriox cos i am

Debramaye:
Sometimes it's not some peoples fault, this world is hard, those people you see joking with this stuff in the comment section are still children, still eating mama thank you, still receiving pocket money while in school, you guys have not endured unemployment, lost your job, or lost someone who truly meant the world to you.. When it happens you'll see this world from another perspective especially when NO ONE IS THERE TO HELP, I don't wish depression or suicidal thoughts on anyone

MiaB:
it is too late

Debramaye:
Sometimes it's not some peoples fault, this world is hard, those people you see joking with this stuff in the comment section are still children, still eating mama thank you, still receiving pocket money while in school, you guys have not endured unemployment, lost your job, or lost someone who truly meant the world to you.. When it happens you'll see this world from another perspective especially when NO ONE IS THERE TO HELP, I don't wish depression or suicidal thoughts on anyone

Divay22:

Even you

vingeophysicist:

My dear Nigeria is really frustrating . I encountered so many trials during my university days.My finance was nothing to write about combined with the hurdles I faced due to the lackadaisical attitude from school authority.I can't say much but babe I saw hell.I thank God I graduated among the best.

OtunbaBlack:
Can we create a WhatsApp group where we can help and motivate each other?