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Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by macho44(m): 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2019
This Nneka saga has shown that Igbo guys have really suffered in the hands of Igbo girls and they've been dying in silence for ages. I've read so many stories and I'm like wtf? Wow.

As an Igbo girl, ask yourself why only few Igbo guys tried to defend Igbo girls throughout this saga?

Even me wey be crazy Igbotic person, I couldn't even defend our Igbo girls.

You think we hate you people? Hell no!

It only means there's a problem somewhere.

I don't know if it's our culture or it's just selfishness on the part of the ladies, but I think the whole entitlement mentality by most Igbo ladies needs to be reduced.

It's not helping anybody, neither is it breeding healthy relationships.

The whole "oriaku" mantra is bullshit to me, after all we didn't spend so much money training my sister in school so that she will be oriaku one day. God forbid.

This whole hunger to marry rich men instead of the men who love them is not the best. Our parents play a role in this too, I must admit.

I believe relationships (or marriages) should be based on love and friendship, and not basically on money and what it can buy.

Now I'm not saying money is bad, after all relationship is built on communication and to enhance communication, you need money for airtime, lunch dates, cinema dates, vacation, etc.

But it's not about having millions. For Christ's sakes, your boyfriend is not renting you, are you for rent?

Personally, I can't date a girl who can't make her hair without asking me for money. Not that I can't provide but because I feel that there are some things an adult should be able to do for themselves. I hate people depending on me cos I'm a very independent person and I like independent people. That I love you doesn't mean I'm now in charge of your life. No, live your life while I live mine, but we still share our times together.

When you ask a girl why her boyfriend should give her money, she will say "it cost me money to maintain this body for him, other men will pay more for it"

Wow. See eh, I'm not a saint so I can tell you that I know how the olosho business works. If you want to make money with your sweet and expensive body, join the business, instead of blackmailing someone's son with sex, sex that even you enjoy too.

But wait a second, as a woman, do you feel proud knowing that sex is the only think you can contribute to a man's life? Think about it. Just think about it. Are you satisfied just being a man's intimacy gadget, all in the name of girlfriend-ship?

I'm not saying a man mustn't provide for his woman, but the woman shouldn't be entitled to it. It should be out of love. And ideally, love is not in a haste to receive, but to give. Imagine being in a relationship where the two of you are in a haste and eager to give to each other? Just imagine it.

He buys you a pair of shoes today, tomorrow you order a box of pizza to his office.

He buys you a new phone today, tomorrow you send pocket money to his kid sister in school.

He rents a shop for you, one day you come back from work and get him a brand new PS4.

I mean imagine it nah. Just imagine it.

The problem is that most girls think that the amount a man spends on them translates to how much he loves them. But they forget that a billionaire who gave you 1 million didn't lose anything compared to a struggling guy who gave you 100k.

The billionaire can give you 1 million and still not value you, in fact he will even treat you anyhow. But the struggling guy who gave you 100k is like the biblical widow whom Jesus said gave the best gift because she gave her.

I enjoin Igbo girls and girls in general to get busy with something productive. I think thats the only way to reduce this entitlement mentality.

When you start working hard to fend for yourself and you see how hard it is to make money, you'll appreciate any farthing you get from a man.

And most especially, you won't be a cash-and-carry or highest-bidder-takes-it-all commodity. Instead of being a pawn in the hands of men, you get to choose who you want to be with because, after all, you're not begging for money. You're not a hungry wench looking for a rich man to come and sweep her away

But anyways, you can ignore all these bullshit I've been rambling (who Chidey epp?) and expect a man to give you all of his property cos he loves you.

I know you know that Mr Eazi's song nah. I know.

But funnily enough and quite ironical, Mr Eazi's girlfriend is the daughter of the billionaire oil magnate, Otedola, so who is now giving each other property?

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:08pm On Apr 14, 2019
This guy finish work. If you say you love me, you already owe me money. Smh. They didn't enjoy healthy nurturing a swear

Come and see o ubunja and missjoy29

Cc mariangeles

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:12pm On Apr 14, 2019
Excellent writing prowess, blood of moses. Dude's a genius. Nice piece brov. Preach
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:13pm On Apr 14, 2019
Your article is nice... but the "Igbo girl" stuff you potrayed will make it die a natural death.

Thanks for being tribalistic...

I hope you enjoyed your own post.

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by Nobody: 10:13pm On Apr 14, 2019
Op cry me a river

Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:15pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:
Your article is nice... but the "Igbo girl" stuff you potrayed will make it die a natural death.

Thanks for being tribalistic...

I hope you enjoyed your own post.

Cry me a river, we read stories of your own sad past love lives here. You've made a few coins turned the table around doesn't twist reality. The truth doesn't bend facts, in fact shielding hometown for protectionist reasons even make you look like a wasted educated adult. We know the koko so quit the b. S

The piece doesn't reduce the Ops Tribal leaning now boosts your Tribal loyalty. I wonder when you people will begin to have sense and speak irrespective of whom it hits but with the intent that the truth purifies and edifies.sante

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:20pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:


Cry me a river, we read stories of your own sad past love lives here. You've made a few coins turned the table around doesn't twist reality. The truth doesn't bend facts, in fact shielding hometown for protectionist reasons even make you look like a wasted educated adult. We know the koko so quit the b. S

The piece doesn't reduce the Ops Tribal leaning now boosts your Tribal loyalty. I wonder when you people will begin to have sense and speak irrespective of whom it hits but with the intent that the truth purifies and edifies.sante

Shut up!

I can bet that you used your alternate to create the stupid thread - which you intend promoting.

Like I said, you and the shitty thread will never get to FP. You know why?

Because just like the thread, you are also shitty!

So shut the fvck up and Bleep off with your shitty pile of post!

Kunle (we all know where the name originates from).

I have good Yoruba girls as friends, so I won't use because of a dumb head and insult them.

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by frankkydee(m): 10:23pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:
Your article is nice... but the "Igbo girl" stuff you potrayed will make it die a natural death.

Thanks for being tribalistic...

I hope you enjoyed your own post.





He spoke the truth bro, this isn't about being tribalistic, he is talking from what is realistic
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:25pm On Apr 14, 2019
frankkydee:






He spoke the truth bro, this isn't about being tribalistic, he is talking from what is realistic


Leave the fvcked up flaccid dick to be obscuring facts like his mum's life depends on it
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:29pm On Apr 14, 2019
Jesus. Who delivered BiafranBushBoy from my hand. I would have beat his ancestors blue black this nite.


I Don burst this guy mouth for this thread. Which mod do this to me Omg. So unfair.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by Fidelismaria: 10:36pm On Apr 14, 2019
Make una leave matter for Mathias

Check my signature
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:39pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:
Jesus. Who delivered BiafranBushBoy from my hand. I would have beat his ancestors blue black this nite.

Loud mouthed like your brothers here in Lagos!

good night
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:39pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


Loud mouthed like your brothers here in Lagos!

good night


E be like say you Don forget say everybody get your picture sha. You dey use your face play ni?


With 20k them go bring two of your dentition for me sante.

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:40pm On Apr 14, 2019
Luminiouz how your dick
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:40pm On Apr 14, 2019
frankkydee:






He spoke the truth bro, this isn't about being tribalistic, he is talking from what is realistic

Same thing I said to him, I will say to you!

Go hang yourself with your opinion.

Does anyone give a shit about it?

If you don't have money to take care of a girl, go become a gay or something else.

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:42pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



Envy


Cobeteous


Learn not to hate scrimp

From your posts, it is clear that you are a broke struggling guy looking for cheap pussies to fvck!

Sorry buddy... if you can't take care of a girl, go find a hen, goat, or something worthwhile with your life.

Those who spend don't complain...

Go get busy... oya!
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:42pm On Apr 14, 2019
[quote author=BiafranBushBoy post=77546361][/quote]


E book help you small you no go gree people hear word
Low life. No be your mate dey oil and gas. 5million dey shark you abi.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:44pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



E be like say you Don forget say everybody get your picture sha. You dey use your face play ni?


With 20k them go bring two of your dentition for me sante.

I have always used my pic here on Nairaland...

Nairaland isn't a faceless forum to me. Here is my business house!

So let me make it clear to you... I am in Lagos and I will intimidate you in your own house!

Broke dude crying over little bills
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 14, 2019
macho44:
This Nneka saga has shown that Igbo guys have really suffered in the hands of Igbo girls and they've been dying in silence for ages. I've read so many stories and I'm like wtf? Wow.

As an Igbo girl, ask yourself why only few Igbo guys tried to defend Igbo girls throughout this saga?

Even me wey be crazy Igbotic person, I couldn't even defend our Igbo girls.

You think we hate you people? Hell no!

It only means there's a problem somewhere.

I don't know if it's our culture or it's just selfishness on the part of the ladies, but I think the whole entitlement mentality by most Igbo ladies needs to be reduced.

It's not helping anybody, neither is it breeding healthy relationships.

The whole "oriaku" mantra is bullshit to me, after all we didn't spend so much money training my sister in school so that she will be oriaku one day. God forbid.

This whole hunger to marry rich men instead of the men who love them is not the best. Our parents play a role in this too, I must admit.

I believe relationships (or marriages) should be based on love and friendship, and not basically on money and what it can buy.

Now I'm not saying money is bad, after all relationship is built on communication and to enhance communication, you need money for airtime, lunch dates, cinema dates, vacation, etc.

But it's not about having millions. For Christ's sakes, your boyfriend is not renting you, are you for rent?

Personally, I can't date a girl who can't make her hair without asking me for money. Not that I can't provide but because I feel that there are some things an adult should be able to do for themselves. I hate people depending on me cos I'm a very independent person and I like independent people. That I love you doesn't mean I'm now in charge of your life. No, live your life while I live mine, but we still share our times together.

When you ask a girl why her boyfriend should give her money, she will say "it cost me money to maintain this body for him, other men will pay more for it"

Wow. See eh, I'm not a saint so I can tell you that I know how the olosho business works. If you want to make money with your sweet and expensive body, join the business, instead of blackmailing someone's son with sex, sex that even you enjoy too.

But wait a second, as a woman, do you feel proud knowing that sex is the only think you can contribute to a man's life? Think about it. Just think about it. Are you satisfied just being a man's intimacy gadget, all in the name of girlfriend-ship?

I'm not saying a man mustn't provide for his woman, but the woman shouldn't be entitled to it. It should be out of love. And ideally, love is not in a haste to receive, but to give. Imagine being in a relationship where the two of you are in a haste and eager to give to each other? Just imagine it.

He buys you a pair of shoes today, tomorrow you order a box of pizza to his office.

He buys you a new phone today, tomorrow you send pocket money to his kid sister in school.

He rents a shop for you, one day you come back from work and get him a brand new PS4.

I mean imagine it nah. Just imagine it.

The problem is that most girls think that the amount a man spends on them translates to how much he loves them. But they forget that a billionaire who gave you 1 million didn't lose anything compared to a struggling guy who gave you 100k.

The billionaire can give you 1 million and still not value you, in fact he will even treat you anyhow. But the struggling guy who gave you 100k is like the biblical widow whom Jesus said gave the best gift because she gave her.

I enjoin Igbo girls and girls in general to get busy with something productive. I think thats the only way to reduce this entitlement mentality.

When you start working hard to fend for yourself and you see how hard it is to make money, you'll appreciate any farthing you get from a man.

And most especially, you won't be a cash-and-carry or highest-bidder-takes-it-all commodity. Instead of being a pawn in the hands of men, you get to choose who you want to be with because, after all, you're not begging for money. You're not a hungry wench looking for a rich man to come and sweep her away

But anyways, you can ignore all these bullshit I've been rambling (who Chidey epp?) and expect a man to give you all of his property cos he loves you.

I know you know that Mr Eazi's song nah. I know.

But funnily enough and quite ironical, Mr Eazi's girlfriend is the daughter of the billionaire oil magnate, Otedola, so who is now giving each other property?
We have the Oriaku, Okpataku, Odoziaku. So you should be careful the kinda one you want in your life before coming to complaining. Many get roped with Oriaku and will come here complaining.
You tried with the writeup Sha but the hasty generalization is distasteful.

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:46pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



E book help you small you no go gree people hear word
Low life. No be your mate dey oil and gas. 5million dey shark you abi.

None of your family members get 5 million Cash for account. Prove me wrong!

I don't wanna talk about finances now... I dey busy!

But next time, let those that spend money on women be the ones complaining.

Not jobless people looking for free pussies to fvck!
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by dkronicle(m): 10:47pm On Apr 14, 2019
Bro change that topic and make it most girls. I have dated some ibos and yorubas with that usekess mentality. Gr8 article

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:47pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


I have always used my pic here on Nairaland...

Nairaland isn't a faceless forum to me. Here is my business house!

So let me make it clear to you... I am in Lagos and I will intimidate you in your own house!

Broke dude crying over little bills


You wan die be that. You fit? No let your mama cry, go sleep. You don't know whom this person behind this moniker is and what he can do. So I'll pass over this comment.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:48pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


None of your family members get 5 million Cash for account. Prove me wrong!

I don't wanna talk about finances now... I dey busy!

But next time, let those that spend money on women be the ones complaining.

Not jobless people looking for free pussies to fvck!

5m money.na true you talk none. I'll respond to that later though. Its a must.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:48pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



You wan die be that. You fit? No let your mama cry, go sleep. You don't know whom this person behind this moniker is and what he can do. So I'll pass over this comment.

SHUT UP!

Loud mouthed AS*****le
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by frankkydee(m): 10:49pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


Same thing I said to him, I will say to you!

Go hang yourself with your opinion.

Does anyone give a shit about it?

If you don't have money to take care of a girl, go become a gay or something else.





cheesy grin cheesy grin
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:49pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:


5m money.na true you talk none. I'll respond to that later though. Its a must.

When you add up all the cash at hand your family members have and it gets to 3million, give me a mention.

I will add 2million to complete it for you.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


SHUT UP!

Loud mouthed AS*****le


Small boy. Kindle Don give you small bragging right. With that your shiny round skull and that your short girls you dey carry up and down like gala for head.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by seniorgozman(m): 10:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
Nice one but men also contribute to ladies' entitlement mentality. You can still educate men to stop yielding to women's demand. For example, if she doesn't get you any gift on your birthday, do the same on her own

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by kunleweb: 10:50pm On Apr 14, 2019
BiafranBushBoy:


When you add up all the cash at hand your family members have and it gets to 3million, give me a mention.

I will add 2million to complete it for you.


Indeed. Open a thread call for beneficiaries and give 10k.if you do am I go follow my own up. Oode forming poosh. Before you started ebook writing could you date a girl. No need mentioning me again. You're not worth my time waste of sperm

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Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:51pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



Small boy. Kindle Don give you small bragging right. With that your shiny round skull and that your short girls you dey carry up and down like gala for head.
Re: Why Do IGBO LADIES Have This ENTITLEMENT Mentality When It Comes 2 RELATIONSHIPS by BiafranBushBoy: 10:52pm On Apr 14, 2019
kunleweb:



Indeed. Open a thread call for beneficiaries and give 10k.if you do am I go follow my own up. Oode forming poosh.

So that people like you will use alternates and start begging?

Nice try dude.

Remain broke.

If you meet an independent girl,

What will you have to offer as a broke guy?

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