Your telling people not to marry children whose parents are divorced is laughable simply because you believe they won't understand the value of marriage.


Do you know that most of those divorced couples are from stable homes? Brought up by bothered father and mother? What do you have to say about that? Do you also know people divorce for various reasons some of which are very necessary?

It is because of people like you that women currently going through misery in their marriages like former gospel singer osinachi in her husband's houses will rather choose to die there. After all, considering your myopic reasoning, their children should be motherless and get married in the future rather than for the mothers to escape domestic violence and live a beautiful life and still be present in their children's life. Because they know if they leave you and your kind will stigmatise their children in the future for no offence of theirs?


Do you think those who divorced planned it? What if someone you love or from your family gets divorced tomorrow you will say nobody should marry their children.

Most people are unfortunate to find themselves in bad marriages. This includes men and women. Some are married to women who did paternity fraud, some are married to men who batter them and cheat etc. So they should stay there because someone on nairaland will find their kids unsuitable for marriage?

Come down from your high horse and Just take it easy abeg.

I am an advocate for divorce if your marriage threatens your mental health, safety, peace of mind, and your physical health. Considering that most people in marriages these days are just there to save face it is even said that divorce is better for the mental health of the children at least it saves them from the toxic environment they might get exposed to when both parents are together while suffering and smiling in their miserable marriages.

Due to this reason, there is an even higher probability that the lady you choose to get married to from a so-called stable home her character might be worse( than the lady from the unstable home who is now free from the toxic environment thanks to the parent's divorce)because the stable home you envisioned from the outside may all be smoke and mirrors and might not be so stable after all. Her parents might just be saving face and patching it up inside fighting every day meanwhile their union does not epitomise what a beautiful marriage should be.