iTearHerToto:
Op is indirectly begging for money help. Nairalanders let's contribute and help a frustrated soul

Mrkumareze:
Leave them alone oh. First son and mothers seems to have spiritual oath .. there's nothing you can do to separate the two... ask others if you doubt the inseparable relationship existing btw mom n their 1st son

Aplaudez:
I'll be as brief as possible, please pardon my errors!

It happened that my brother get married after impregnating this girl, and six months after the wedding the two parent of the girl died, so it's been my mum taking care of everything and we're fatherless too, the wife is a teacher in secondary school, but my bro Is managing In one hotel.

Each time he get paid he'll always lie to mum that they've not pay them, he always appear pitiful, always telling you about the weakness of his family, I'm just in my mid twenties with my National diploma awaiting to further my education by June, it's affecting the house, mum don't have time for we other siblings again, any money gotten is given to my brother and his wife, yet he'll come back and appear pitiful again!

Dear friends, please what can I do, it's affecting my mum, she doesn't ware better cloth yet she's a federal worker!

please help a friend!

lilianofentse:
after snubbing my mentions today you finally responded. Or maybe i don't spell your moniker right. Why the wrong use of emoji

Phred1717:
You're angry he's the one sucking your mom rather than you the younger one. The two of need to grow up n stop being pesticide on your poor mother.....Jobless n wortheless fools

Orpe7:


Not in my case o
Me n my malee no see eye to eye
Cus she no dey like hear truth n me dey dish am wella

Phred1717:
You're angry he's the one sucking your mom rather than you the younger one. The two of need to grow up n stop being pesticide on your poor mother.....Jobless n wortheless fools

iTearHerToto:
Op is indirectly begging for money help. Nairalanders let's contribute and help a frustrated soul

Rexology:
Schools should start teaching students how to use 'social' media. Your family and relationship should never be a social media content. Especially your FAMILY.

lilianofentse:
i missed you. But truly are you SmellySperm

Eze2000:


OP I have gone through this trend and seen all the answers to you. I'm a frist son too, though i lost my parents too early in life i have other relatives and trust me, the position of a first son carries weight you cannot begin to understand.l

Don't confront your elder brother, as some tell you as that could lead to big trouble if he sees it as disrespect (I don't tolerate that shit and I have 4 fully grown brothers one of whom is a top official in a big organization in Lagos and another is finishing his Ph.D. in London). Take this adive I have quoted above.

Cutting off your bother is not an opinion though. No mother will sit back and watch her first son suffer. Among many things, traditonally, he is her protector in her husband's home not the other sons. He should find a job and be a man

SmellySperm:

pls and pls and pls I'm a different person,do i go to the court to announce it so u get it right?

lilianofentse:
you guys type alike hence the suspicion. Sorry

kroy:
Please allow your mum to take care of his child. It's the responsibility of every parent to ensure their children have a good life.

Mrkumareze:
Leave them alone oh. First son and mothers seems to have spiritual oath .. there's nothing you can do to separate the two... ask others if you doubt the inseparable relationship existing btw mom n their 1st son

LyfeJennings:


!!!!!
ku Oro omo.
Guy, no vex
Your mum is a Superwoman. May she never rfind a reason to cry.
God go lift your pocket self and that of your family members
U can't blame your mum neither can U blame ur brother. It's no one's wish to beg, U know. It takes a lot of courage for a man, a married one at that to beg from his immediate family. Try and sit your brother down. Discuss where and how U can help him if U can. I know U irritated but joooor, ma binu. Na beg I beg U. May U never be in such terrible situation. Aye le o. Life is fuvvvvcking hard. May God be with U

Mizwisdom:



What you're saying doesn't really make sense. I'm a lady, and I can't show any preference to any first son. If I get pregnant, it's still the same 9 months I will carry all my kids so why so much first son, first son emphasis? I think this is more pronounced among Igbos because of inheritance but in my tribe all children inherit properties so why will I pay special attraction to first son, or if I have a senior daughter, I will still look for first son to love more? please it's not all mothers/fathers that show preference, it's very wrong, stop this first son talk especially as you're elderly, your other kids will know and might likely abandon you for your first son.

lilianofentse:
after snubbing my mentions today you finally responded. Or maybe i don't spell your moniker right. Why the wrong use of emoji

MiaB:
By the way your headline states he's jobless but your post states otherwise

iTearHerToto:
When Spelling my moniker do it with gusto. Make sure you start with a capital letter "I" and the "ToTo" is just the way I typed or that would be a different person you be mentioning.

Plus I'm not SmellySperm. He only wish to be my neighbor. Unfortunately he stays at Agege

KingSatan:



FUNNY CAPTION!


SOME PEOPLE ACTUALLY CAME IN HERE THINKING ITS A CASE OF INCEST. LIKE HIS ELDER BROTHER IS HAVING SEX WITH THEIR MUM.

DON'T LIE.