After the bank retrenchment, i lost my job.
Suddenly, my lover started misbehaving.
Now she said i should never say "i love you" over the phone when i call her.
now she has stopped calling me.
She has started doing things without my consent.
Pls watch out for urs and neva fall inlove like i did.

you could never have predicted that this rat gal would have turned on you (some would get Oscars for their acting performances). just accept that you had some great time while it lasted and learn from it.

be happy that it happened before you did the unthinkable: MARRY HER!

Take heart bloke and move on,also be strong.

take heart bro, it is well you will get another job in fact a better job. This shows she wasn't meant for you. I have a banker friend who got retrenched as well his case was worse than yours cos he married the girl last year a month later he got retrenched 3 months after that the girl went back to her sisters house with the car he had bought for her, her clothes and told him she wanted a divorce. This is not fiction, now my guy has another job. Girls believe(not all)that it is only in marriage for better for worse covers. But i say whatever you cannot stand during a relationship, do not deceive yourself that ''when i am married i can stand it''