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Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by spiceadole: 6:19pm On May 05, 2019 |
Rule number 1: NEVER EVER GO BACK TO AN EX LOVER. ONCE THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER ,MOVE ON.IT IS OVER. An Ex can NEVER and Shouldn't be a friend. Either you never knew him(if the relationship ended on mutual grounds amicably) OR he is an enemy(If he broke your heart). Men easily get back with their exes, just for the sex..you know sex is a trophy for them.something to use and boast..bragging rights. In your case,I think it should be easy for you to move on.He hasn't slept with you.so what's your loss? To me,he is a good guy..just told you the truth straight up. Forget about him. You will not die.It may seem so hard at first but you will definitely be alright. 1 Like |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 05, 2019 |
The other girl - the one he said broke his heart - fücked him way better than you ever could. That's the simple truth. He loves you alright, but she makes him feel alive. 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by AreaFada2: 6:24pm On May 05, 2019 |
Well the guy is a gentleman. It happens to every fairly decent guy. Only he goats who will sleep with anything never experience such. A girl can be super gorgeous, intelligent, hardworking, decent and everything. But no sexual attraction. No spark between two of you. She might be great to hang around with but you have no romantic feelings towards her. Best is to remain dear friends and move on. 4 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by hrhugbamgbam1(m): 6:35pm On May 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: You are SMART, Your submission was DOPE! 2 Likes
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Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Mypeople2(m): 6:36pm On May 05, 2019 |
Starpro87:No need,she is not from there |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Daeylar(f): 6:38pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5: What do you think it means? What's that saying again? "If you have to ask, you already know?" You already know the answer to your question, no need to hope that we'll tell you something different I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him. I'm guessing you want to vent by this post. It's all right, you'll be fine. He's told you that he doesn't feel a connection, let him go. You'll find better. 1 Like |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Mideriks04(f): 6:44pm On May 05, 2019 |
Babe, I so much understand you, I mean after sacrificing everything and yet nothing but come to think of it, don't you think it's time to let go? instead of wasting your time, don't you think it's time to start working on yourself?. Go to places that excites you, hang out with friends, focus on you. Don't hold on to relationships too tight, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't but which ever way it is, d only way to approach it is "love". And also, just because you have a past with someone doesn't mean you will have a future with them. selah! 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by joyousever(f): 6:45pm On May 05, 2019 |
What does it mean to be sexually appealing to someone? nairalee: |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by jaxxy(m): 6:50pm On May 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Connection is a rush bt not necessarily struggles with hiding erections. Smtmes ur mind is more pre occupied about knowing her much more than knowing what’s under her skirt. @adaego5 the Perfect connection is when u are both attracted(physical qualities, looks, mannerism) and value(what u bring to the table) the person at same time. He only values u bt not attracted to u. Sm may be attracted to u bt may not value u in certain cases. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 05, 2019 |
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Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5:Lool. Novice. You were happy all along even saying he did take advantage of you not knowing that it's a problem most time when guys don't make advances. He sees you like a sister, maybe. I'm not sure. Just pray or leave this relationship it might be heading to the gallows |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 7:07pm On May 05, 2019 |
jaxxy: No need for all this world play, the guy is not SEXUALLY ATTRACTED (CONNECTED) to her. Period. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by jaxxy(m): 7:20pm On May 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Well Most likely bt U realize u can be sexually attracted to sm1 bt still not connect with them rite? 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by eeewise(m): 7:41pm On May 05, 2019 |
Just move on He never loved you Stop trying to know what's happened Better days ahead Take time to heal at your own pace We all/ some of us are still and have been there one time or the other and finally came out fine. You will be fine, I am sure toughs of depression even suicidal toughs will be coming but be strong Let it out by talking to those u trust about this Same happened to me, she said she fell out of love with me (second break up) after building my world around her I just had to pick up the pieces of my life, cut off from her asper social media and daily moved on So once again u will be fine Don't allow negative comments here from kids get to u The heart wants what it wants If he says no emotional connection respect that even thou its painful and he has no right dating someone he isnt sure yet of but thats life for you U can pm me so we talk |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Goldenheart(m): 7:43pm On May 05, 2019 |
Dear OP, Your boyfriend is gay Yours Truly... |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 8:05pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5: Sexual connection. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Ifeanyi147(m): 8:07pm On May 05, 2019 |
RELAN2446: Beggers will play polo |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by femi4: 8:08pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5:He's not sexually attracted, more reason he's not disturbing you for sex |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 8:12pm On May 05, 2019 |
AreaFada2: Exactly what happened between me and the first guy I loved. Despite my good qualities, I did everything I could to get him to like me. Several years later, I found out he simply wasn't attracted to me. We're still friends though. 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by AreaFada2: 8:18pm On May 05, 2019 |
Chi59: Great that you were able to remain his friend. The girl I didn't have any feelings for didn't want to speak to me again. She was too heartbroken. We were work colleagues. We have had no more contact since. Even though I wanted us to remain friends. I guess I was too honest to her. But I didn't want to string her along. 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by aytuns(m): 8:21pm On May 05, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: so much sense... |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 8:29pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5: The reason why he did not feel any connection between him and you is because you ceased to exist in order to please him. You played the role of the perfect girlfriend instead of showing your real self to him. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 8:30pm On May 05, 2019 |
AreaFada2: That's sad. Did you let her down softly? Mine didn't o. I went through mixed emotions, because of him for many years. One day, I just decided to move on. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by nopretense: 8:32pm On May 05, 2019 |
Richy4: Loool.... King of wit... |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Dinho20(m): 8:32pm On May 05, 2019 |
DOES VIRGINS EXIST? COS AM LOOKING FOR ONE TO MARRY 1 Like
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Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Dreadful: 8:33pm On May 05, 2019 |
Acidosis:You have nailed it my man!! The guy is not sexually attracted to her, simple!!! 1 Like |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 05, 2019 |
Acidosis: Very wrong bro! Locking his Picture in a fanta bottle in Edo state would surely change his mind. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by janejive(f): 9:05pm On May 05, 2019 |
Jobminister: Same point it didn't work before, he gave same reasons as now. He just wants to sleep with her, he knew this the second time around. He keeps her hope up and dashes it. He is a time waster. The relationship is a revolving circle. Besides being a time waster is my opinion. I never talked about marriage. He is definitely looking for something else not the OP. |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by AreaFada2: 9:08pm On May 05, 2019 |
Chi59: Well, she began insinuating that I didn't know when a lady loves me. It became too much "in your face". A kind of slightly obsessive behaviour on her part. Such a lady can start an unpalatable rumour in our workplace. Like saying one is gay for example. Because lots of women cannot imagine being turned down by a guy. They believe guys never reject a girl. Especially a fine girl that many guys at work were hitting on. So I sat her down and told her how pretty and wonderful she is. That under different circumstances (I actually I meant if I felt something for her, though I didn't tell her that clearly) we might actually be lovers. I guess she felt rejected, unappreciated, maybe even cheap. We began on a less friendly note at work. We hardly even greeted each other then. She also liked doing "eye service", sucking up to powerful people at work so shamelessly. She was snobbish and was dating one fuckboy that was sharking her then. A fuckboy is easy to know. I knew the very first day I saw him drop her off at work. That guy later dumped her. Although I didn't know that she had been dumped, she overhead me chatting with another girl. I was telling this other girl the mistakes girls make when choosing a guy to date. How they let vanity becloud their better judgement. Also the warning signs of a fuckboy girls choose to ignore. Only to say all men are bad when dumped later. Moments later she came smiling at me and became friendly. Maybe my earlier observation of her put me off romantically. 2 Likes |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by 1000angstroms(m): 9:45pm On May 05, 2019 |
Adaego5: Onye afia!!! |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by generationz(f): 9:46pm On May 05, 2019 |
iLegendd: Type Joor I want to hear your opinion on the issue |
Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by generationz(f): 9:46pm On May 05, 2019 |
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