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True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by Martinez39(m): 2:36pm On May 24, 2019
One thing society has done is making us believe the following:
1) All mothers care for their child(ren).
2) Mothers care more for their children than their fathers. Ever had that "there's nothing like a mother's love"? grin

These assumptions are used in the court of law to automatically grant women custody of their children in the court of law during a divorce, all things being equal.

Are these true or false? If you can, make an argument for your answer.

NB: please be reasonable, this is not an attack on any gender. I will not tolerate stupidity.
Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by CAPSLOCKED: 2:53pm On May 24, 2019
LET'S TALK ABOUT MOTHERS THAT PUSH THEIR DAUGHTERS TO PROSTITUTION, AND MOTHERS THAT DISSOCIATE FROM THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY MARRIED WHO THEY DIDN'T APPROVE.
LET'S TALK ABOUT MOTHERS THAT DISOWN THEIR CHILDREN BECAUSE EITHER THEY'RE WITCHES, ATHEISTS, OR REFUSE TO PLAY BY ALL THEIR RULES.

SHALL WE?

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Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by panco: 2:54pm On May 24, 2019
Yes
Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by Karleb(m): 2:59pm On May 24, 2019
In a perfect world, mothers care more.

In reality, mothers have more acceptance and endurance compared to fathers.

They also have a mammary gland that strengthen the mother-child relationship, love and bond. But all we've got is nipples without milk.

Mothers also have a way of overemphasizing their roles in their children life, all mothers are guilty of this and it's a form of blackmail. So the child ends up believing that until s/he becomes a parent, s/he also passes the believe to her/his children until a circle/believe system is created.

Fathers on the other hand do not have time for this bull.shit!
Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by erifeoluwasimi(f): 3:23pm On May 24, 2019
Mothers have soft spot for their children especially when it's their natural born ones. don't really know about adopted.
They tend to also think like and understand the children better
We have seen cases where mothers who left their children at home to go to the market will just say "I should be on my way home my child is crying already"
That explains the connection
Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by pansophist(m): 3:32pm On May 24, 2019
All things equal, mother care for and love their children far more than the father. She is the one that gets pregnant, and consequently breastfeed and nurse her child unto maturity. The man may ''check out'' (abandon the child, deny paternity etc), but women usually do not have or undergo that option. The female naturally is wired to cater and sacrifice for her offspring. Women are more interested in people, more of the reason why you will find most jobs that require human interactions dominated by females (e.g teachers, nurses, customer services, hospitality).

Yes, there are isolated cases of a father expressing affection than the mum, but in the overwhelming case, it is the woman who not only sacrifices herself to be pregnant as her body undergo radical changes but also, contributed the most (e.g breastfeeding) to the maturity of her child.

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Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by Nobody: 9:27pm On May 25, 2019
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Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by babyfaceafrica: 9:58pm On May 25, 2019
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Re: True Of False: Do Mothers Naturally Care More For The Child? by ubunja(m): 10:03pm On May 25, 2019
fathers care more than mothers. a mother's love is a fantasy of feminism. even in our African culture children were given to the man in case of divorce. and the man found a new wife while the woman was free to find another man without the baggage of children from a past relationship.

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