Tajbol4splend:




Apart from being a Nigerian, how about being a woman?

khiaa:


Well, the op is calling for the opinions and life experiences of the Nigerian woman, he's not interested in women outside of Nigeria.

Winnairaking100:
Sex.do u think it easy to open our legs

pansophist:


Every gold diggers said this

AmazonTopaz:
He will benefit motivation from me.
Many of my friends testify that I am a motivator and advicer(I am good with words) .
I would motivate the guy to do many incredible things.

P.S I did not mention money(not a benefit) and it goes vice versa

AmazonTopaz:
He will benefit motivation from me.
Many of my friends testify that I am a motivator and advicer(I am good with words) .
I would motivate the guy to do many incredible things.

P.S I did not mention money(not a benefit) and it goes vice versa

intoodeep:
you cant give what you don't have ......... Nigerian girls have nothing to offer ..... they are just like balloons, full outside but empty on the inside..... bunch of misfits

EmekaBlue:
please teach our women what they can offer

chinchonglee:
Dey will japaaa...
My boss adviced me abt relationships wit naija girls, ever since i stopped all relationship matter my account is always smiling. Am abt to start egg retail business nxt month thanks to my young boss( he is also a nairalander).

He told me 4 tins but lemme quote jst one of dem. "You stand to gain nothing in relationship aside sex nd d sex is more beneficial to d ladies. Y not save dat moni nd patronize street girls or brothels wen u re Hot nd spend less moni. Save nd invest with ur savings"


He is going to be 28 dis november nd u need to see wat he has acheived. I swear i dey envy d guy.


"Leave relationship alone as a struggling guy, be financially responsible nd we will meet at the top", dis were his last words to me abt a yr ago.

zed7:

No hard feelings. Premarital sex is mutual by the way. Women should stop seeing it as some form of favour or something spectacular. Men put in all the work. If the world was sane, females should pay us for providing endless pleasure. Our own pleasure is very brief...

QueenSekxy:
Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

funmisticqueen:
Nothing but the pleasure of my company

ebonyggurl:
Only a foolish man is unable to see the value of a good woman.
Birds of the same feathers flock together afterall. When you're empty, you attract empty people to yourself.

kennygee:


I've got all of that and I've only given all of myself like that to one man but it didn't lead me anywhere so.

I'm only reserving it for the another person who shows he's worth it.

My personal attribute will rub off on the guy tho. Cause he'll have to step up.

sparog:



Jesus, this your own qualification is deep

I've never met all this kinda girls you guys complain about though

abiolamitodun:

and when I've made ur account green Ull still go for a relationship whom u won't even know if she loves u for the money in ur account...ur still going in same circle

MariaLavina:


I tell you, not even sex self

Obodo999:


There is nothing pleasurable in the company of a broke and stingy girl.

kennygee:
Money management. I can manage money for Africa.

I once helped an ex save 40k he spent on beer ever month, he doesn't drink anymore now self, last I heard.

Packaging: I might not be rich but there is no environment I find myself that I won't flow. I can be down to earth to the unschooled and still rub minds with professors.

Communication: there is no topic I am totally ignorant on. I know about sports, politics, local and international, tourism, agriculture, science, literature, entertainment, etc.

Better prayer life: we have to be praying partners. If we can't pray together, why are we in a relationship?

Support system: I might not have the solution to your problems but I can make you feel better after encouraging you and there are times, together, we can brainstorm for possible solutions.

Not all of us are your definition of slay queens.

khiaa:


Well, we all know in order to have a healthy relationship that thrives there has to be love, honesty, loyalty, respect, and trust, but empathy, compassion, humility, understanding, nurturing, [b]affection and support are also a must. These are the qualities a woman should offer to a deserving man in a relationship.

1. It is important to have empathy and compassion in your relationship because there will be times when your man will go through many ups and downs and the need for emotional support is essential.

2. A woman who loves her man will have the humility to put her own needs aside, sometimes, in order to put his first.

3. Love without understanding[/b]is doomed. The willing to understand is important. It isn't easy at times but a loving relationship is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Ladies, this is where our empathy and compassion comes in.

4. Women have a natural tendency for taking care of others and this is an amazing quality to offer in a relationship. Some examples of those [b]nurturing qualities in the relationship are, (taking care of him when he is sick, making sure her man is fed, clothes are washed, and making him feel special and needed.)

5. Support is very important in a relationship. A man needs someone who has his back (Alezy, baby I have your back ). A woman will give her man the extra push that he needs to take care of business(that push could be helping him financially)and when he succeeds she will celebrate his triumph with him.

6. Affection is a must ladies. Give your man lots of hugs and kisses, don't over do it though, be sincere with them.

When it comes to a relationship I think a man wants a woman that he can feel safe with, someone that he can open up to emotionally. When he (keyword here is relationship) wants to be in a relationship it's not just about sex, he wants to be close to his woman emotionally as well.

That's my two cents.

khiaa:


Well, we all know in order to have a healthy relationship that thrives there has to be love, honesty, loyalty, respect, and trust, but empathy, compassion, humility, understanding, nurturing, [b]affection and support are also a must. These are the qualities a woman should offer to a deserving man in a relationship.

1. It is important to have empathy and compassion in your relationship because there will be times when your man will go through many ups and downs and the need for emotional support is essential.

2. A woman who loves her man will have the humility to put her own needs aside, sometimes, in order to put his first.

3. Love without understanding[/b]is doomed. The willing to understand is important. It isn't easy at times but a loving relationship is strengthened by the willingness to understand. Ladies, this is where our empathy and compassion comes in.

4. Women have a natural tendency for taking care of others and this is an amazing quality to offer in a relationship. Some examples of those [b]nurturing qualities in the relationship are, (taking care of him when he is sick, making sure her man is fed, clothes are washed, and making him feel special and needed.)

5. Support is very important in a relationship. A man needs someone who has his back (Alezy, baby I have your back ). A woman will give her man the extra push that he needs to take care of business(that push could be helping him financially)and when he succeeds she will celebrate his triumph with him.

6. Affection is a must ladies. Give your man lots of hugs and kisses, don't over do it though, be sincere with them.

When it comes to a relationship I think a man wants a woman that he can feel safe with, someone that he can open up to emotionally. When he (keyword here is relationship) wants to be in a relationship it's not just about sex, he wants to be close to his woman emotionally as well.

That's my two cents.

zed7:

No hard feelings. Premarital sex is mutual by the way. Women should stop seeing it as some form of favour or something spectacular. Men put in all the work. If the world was sane, females should pay us for providing endless pleasure. Our own pleasure is very brief...

funmisticqueen:
are you that desperate? i will not be shocked if you are a single mother in a few years time. That is if you aren't already.


Anyway i still need women who think like you to do my dirty work.

funmisticqueen:
Nothing but the pleasure of my company

Mariangeles:
Why are men trying so hard to convince themselves of this and change the narrative?

You guys succeeded in convincing yourselves that it's a must that women should perform the duties of both a man and a woman and women accepted that, now this...IT AIN'T NEVER GONNA HAPPEN !
GOD HAS ALREADY GIVEN WOMEN THAT POWER AND IT CANNOT BE TAKEN AWAY !
YOU ALL WILL ALWAYS BE AT THE MERCY OF WOMEN WHEN YOU WANT TO....

Guess what guys ? YOU CAN'T CHANGE WHAT IS !
IT IS WHAT IT IS AND THAT IS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE !

Mariangeles:
Why are men trying so hard to convince themselves of this and change the narrative?

You guys succeeded in convincing yourselves that it's a must that women should perform the duties of both a man and a woman and women accepted that, now this...IT AIN'T NEVER GONNA HAPPEN !
GOD HAS ALREADY GIVEN WOMEN THAT POWER AND IT CANNOT BE TAKEN AWAY !
YOU ALL WILL ALWAYS BE AT THE MERCY OF WOMEN WHEN YOU WANT TO....

Guess what guys ? YOU CAN'T CHANGE WHAT IS !
IT IS WHAT IT IS AND THAT IS THE WAY IT SHOULD BE !

funmisticqueen:
the point of asking that question is so that it isn't answered. it seems like you have time for small boys because they are the only ones stupid enough to ask this question since they dont know what they want in a woman.

abiolamitodun:

and when u've made ur account green Ull still go for a relationship whom u won't even know if she loves u for the money in ur account...ur still going in same circle

chinchonglee:
nope.

U look 4 a rich girl or someone wit purpose on life. U ll see dem plenty in d corperate world