manulove:

Of course,
If she's interessted in you
Seriously, your parents don't like the idea and so what? u're old enough to make your own decisions rigth?
And listen man, this is YOUR life we're talking about!! They don't like the idea because shes only a house help now. But once you marry her she wont be anymore ,

As long as u both get along well and she knows how to behave in "your world" . They shouldnt be any prob! Only u know what u really feel for her and if that feeling can take the both of through the test of marriage,
because marriage is a big test and u wouldnt want to be ashamed of your wife all your life,

so consider those and take your decision. the fact that is pleases your mum or not is not really the question here. it is your marriage and not hers,


excellent post.

Seun:

You said she is brainy. If she is brainy, then she is far from an average househelp.
She is hardworking. She is gentle. She is pure in heart. She is even beautiful. I think your friend has found a gem.

Being a house help is just a business that happens to be in demand. There's no shame in honest labour!

sisimose:

is house help not a job?

nothiong wrong in it at all, plus they are people too, there is someone for everyone like they say

cgift:

Anothr true talk! The bottleneck is just how to get the buy-in of his parents. They are hell bent on frustrating the relationship because of 'class'. They think such will mak them a laughing stock among their friends.

The bottleneck is just how to get the buy-in of his parents.

angelchi:

househelp no be person?