safarigirl:
so, it is only men that lack commitment?

Sex before marriage is wrong, there is no justification for it. Just do your thing in silence

bluefilm:


In other words, every relationship must end in marriage as long as it involves fücking?

Nnaa lovelyn na wa for you o.

Never knew you were trading pussy just to get commitment from him all this while...

Lovelyn451:
it is justified when they get married, but becomes fornication and sin when they part ways and go on having sexual intercourse with diff. partners. I still wont advise any girl to do it though

Lovelyn451:
don't you ever use such language for me, besides you would know when you see a r/ship that is headed to marriage but I'm sure you don't understand

Humility017:


Babe...I never knew you were this moral...
keep it up
how Is law school na?
where you around for your convocation?

safarigirl:
it is not even that I'm moral or anything, I just hate it when people can't own up to their own shiiit and prefer to spray flowery perfume over something that obviously stinks.

Law school is okay, I didn't make it for my convocation, I was in Yola.

safarigirl:
this is a joke.

How do you know a relationship heading for marriage? I fear to think the number of people you may have slept with, believing it will lead to marriage. Stop giving yourself away, thinking someone will marry you. If a man loves, respects and cherishes you, he will marry you without sleeping with you.

Duggedised12:
Trans women,gay men,lesbians,I think that is what he is referring to. Imagine finding out your husband is a closet gay ,I know someone like this ,his wife still doesnt know ,but we know he likes guys.

Adaibeku:


.Diversion !
See hw u divert d issue on ground ,for d fact dat u ar only of asshole ,dick-in-asshole
I wont deny am a lessy but not wt u" Tada sowey
Btw FYI I'm a born again christian i dont lie ,

Elder0001:



Gay is for both genders not men .

Homosexuals and lesbians are under GAY.

safarigirl:
this is a joke.

How do you know a relationship heading for marriage? I fear to think the number of people you may have slept with, believing it will lead to marriage. Stop giving yourself away, thinking someone will marry you. If a man loves, respects and cherishes you, he will marry you without sleeping with you.

topedoski:


Lol see as u bold dey talk rubbish, gay is for men lesbianism is for women both are under homosexuality

Sunexy:
The amount of lesbians now is on a rise. Most of them just keep boyfriends for culture sake but behind closed doors, they and their so called "besties" fvck and suck each other ..there are some skills in the bedroom they perfect for themselves only

Elder0001:


You’re simply a redundant bastard.

chiommy123:
So how do you know someone's sexuality without having sex with him/her

Lovelyn451:
if not for lack of commitment in men, there's nothing really wrong in sex before marriage so long as u two will still end up getting married

greggng:



Because you no dey go hotel...them full for Gowon estate here....I no wan mention hotel names...they even kiss in open bar...quite disgusting act. One go look like man the other look like woman

safarigirl:
there is no justification for pre-marital sex, whatsoever, whether they eventually get married or not. You cannor justify sin, because you eventually covered it up.

Else, adultery is also okay, murder is okay, theft is okay, as long as you eventually do the right thing. If someone steals, will doing good with the fruits of such an act, suddenly make stealing good?

The sad thing is that, it is the most dedicated church-goers that want to find a way around the sin of lust.

Sex before marriage is wrong, leave it at that.

Lovelyn451:
I wont take this personal. moral and matured persons define what they want in r/ship...

iRyan:

Why is sex before marriage wrong if both adult consent to the act?

safarigirl:


There is no morality in pre-marital sex either. Define your relationship, stop trying to force it into what it is not, you can have pretty-marital sex as much as you want, but own up to it and don't glamourize or justify the wrong.

Nobody will kill you for shagging out of wedlock, so, no need for the sugar

Lovelyn451:
don't you ever use such language for me, besides you would know when you see a r/ship that is headed to marriage but I'm sure you don't understand

topedoski:


Lol see as u bold dey talk rubbish, gay is for men lesbianism is for women both are under homosexuality

bluefilm:


You know the relationship is headed for marriage because you're God abi na wetin?

Keep deceiving yourself.

Get me right. I don't have any problem with you saying that sex in a relationship is okay but I have problem with you inferring that sex in a relationship is condition for getting commitment from the man.

safarigirl:
Sex before marriage is not a determinant of sexuality.

There are hundreds of married gay people, having sex with people of the opposite sex. Sexuality can be determined mostly by mannerisms and reactions to certain scenarios, not by having sex with the person