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Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by RemiTinubu(f): 1:00pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
[s] Mizwisdom:[/s] you ended up saying trash |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Biggie2206: 1:00pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
]I was reading frontpage and I saw a primary school student badly raped by a not too erderly man, I went to instablog and saw the news there too. I went through the comments and didn't see this stuupidd social media feeding pests AKA Nigeria celebrities saying anything. I even read the parent of the student didn't have enough money to report to a police station. My point is, nobody really likes you or is ready to fight for you in Nigeria, they're only there for social media recognition. Stupid fake assss hypocrites. |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by RemiTinubu(f): 1:00pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
PrecisionFx:Nope I'm a proud catholic now and forever |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by buharitill2023: 1:01pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Benekruku:you that know the meaning of rape, so rape is when you are rape multiple times without reporting any of the incident for 15yrs and you think you are talking to kids. Mrs dakolo enjoyed it then, and she even became a choirister in a rapist pastor church for 5yrs. Pls let us apply common sense 2 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Femeto: 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu:You are dumb to compare this with Neymars case. 3 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
When in doubt make sure she signs the consent form boys; sex has become weaponized, I personally have never had sex with a Nigerian girl who said 'yes eff me' the first time; Nigerian girls will say no, I don't like it while at the same time taking your kini in their hand...thank God I'm not a public figure, imagine how easy it will be for a girl to accuse someone like me of rape if I refuse to pay up. The clue is, if she asks for a repeat performance, it's probably not rape...who know sef, nowadays, rape can be anything the woman feels like. |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by AgreatMan: 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu: Multiple allegations alone were enough to send Bill Cosby to Prison. Shall we then allow Biodun for Fu*k the whole universe because their is no DNA evidence? He has not denied knowing the girl or her family. So yes, until he comes out to tell his own version of the story which he will never do anyways, Timi's wife deserve all the comfort she can get. 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by IghravweIG(m): 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
ritzyvic1:Aptly spoken. 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by dyydxx: 1:03pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
lonelydora: let him sue her for defamation if he is truly innocent. He must make an example of Busola. we are still waiting for Efe's robust response. Contless babes with different stories...when will you quit defending a shameless serial sexual predator who preys on young vulnerable church ladies. A man with no boundaries who feels he can violate any ladies space anyhow.... 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by SaintLucia: 1:03pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
famzynet:Hope you are aware of Bill Cosby rape case. He was sentenced to jail in 2019 for a rape case he committed in the 60s and 2004. 3 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Mizwisdom(f): 1:03pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu: I don't know who brought this incredibly stupid thread to FP, this is someone's opinion and the person isn't demonstrating emotional stability as seen here, *RT why are you being this rude? try to be polite |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Benekruku(m): 1:04pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
buharitill2023: I repeat, You know nothing about rape. Keep quite! 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by NkayStory(f): 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Cyberleets: There are countless males who have never had rape issues thrown at them..but if you rape or sexually-molest children and ladies like millions of you do in Nigeria with the assurance you will go scott-free.. You will meet your wayter-loo soon..One certain @kenifeanyi on Twitter is on the run after boasting to his victim that nothing will happen to him...Now he was exposed as soon as Biodun/Busola saga broke out Its a matter of time 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Sluacoast(m): 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
delpee:How can a pastor rape two members. And still have the bravado in believed that he'd never be exposed. Its might be true. But y'all shouldn't go around parading, believing he'd have done such gruesome act without any concrete evidence to show for it. Rape case is very bad. But as it stands now. The case hasn't be justify. |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by cypressG: 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
One thing is certain; Timi Dakolo's marriage will never remain the same again. If after all these years the wife couldn't heal and move on from an alleged rape that happened years ago, she's never going to heal. 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Mizwisdom(f): 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu: Did you pay for this post to be pushed to FP? why should your opinion even be considered FP worthy? |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by RemiTinubu(f): 1:05pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
[s] Mizwisdom:[/s] ain't rude hun I'm just impacting some senses into some dumb maraforkers |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by RemiTinubu(f): 1:07pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
[s] Mizwisdom:[/s] sorry hun everyone must not join the band wagon that's why we have intelligence departments CIDs FBI etc those guys don't act on sentiments and emotions the act and reason logically and out of the box that's the reason court don't do sentiments but facts |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by modik(m): 1:08pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
mrvitalis: Nothing is new. Like the Great Teacher, how many people accused Jesus of Nazareth back then? First, he was befriending Mary Magdalen, Then, he was preaching heressy. I know you would have supported his crucifixion if you were here then. Nothing is new. Man judges your past, while God pardons your repented past. |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
COZA and TLC are tantamount to Night Club.. their way of dressing is enough to get them Raped. Its unfortunate that they're called PASTOR. |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
AgreatMan:at some point as a society, we have to start demanding concrete evidence for every allegation; the mob mentality has moved online and a man's reputation and livelihood can easily be destroyed by any spurious unfounded allegation. The rationale for due process is that it is best for 99 accused persons to go Scott's free than for one innocent person to be punished wrongfully. Today it is COZA, tomorrow it could be your Son, Nephew, Cousin, Uncle, Father etc. Resist mob justice, it is a form of collective psychosis. 2 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Sluacoast(m): 1:10pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
BlueRayDick:Nigerians are gullible. We are so vulnerable to be manipulated. When any one heard of the word "rape" . We are so quick to judge. They'd just believed immediately that the convict did it. Have you watched the movie "when they see us". It's a true life story. It tells how some kids were coerce and force to agree on a rape case they know nothing of. 3 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Mizwisdom(f): 1:11pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu: You that's comparing Neymer's case with COZA pastor, are you more intelligent than them? why didn't you mention Bill Clinton's case which is much more similar as he's currently paying for a crime he committed decades ago? 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by kumbalo(m): 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Most people arguing for and against don't know that Church at all. That church is the meeting point of those who want to die and the person who wants to kill them 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by babytoun: 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
When someone asks you to be fair in your judgement but still wants to use an isolated neymar's case as anchor ..it shows you have an agenda that is not pure ....use neymar.. also use Cosby ...that is what we call balance |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Echo50(m): 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Some persons were insulting Elisha after the anointing received of his bar head, taking a good they were correct but then, being a man of God, he uttered a word and something happed to the 3/4 persons. Be careful of what u say or do in cases like these |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
safarigirl: You could be right or wrong ..that is why its important to go to court so the world will know the truth n justice is serve. its obvious timi & his wife have no evidence they are hoping social media trial will auto fetch someone that might have evidence. she was raped by her pastor n years after she was still attending the same man church,joined choir got married & raise kids in the church of a rapist. she is not saying it all 2 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by kumbalo(m): 1:13pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
COZA: WAS THERE ACTUALLY A RAPE? Predictably, ever since Busola Dakolo "confessed" to having been raped by Pastor Biodun of COZA, the narrative has unabashedly flowed in her favour. Truth is, I can't hold an opinion just because it's popular. When a story is told, I simply put on my thinking cap, play it in my mind and take a personal stand based on the logicality or otherwise of the story . That's why we have individual brains which can neither be borrowed nor shared. So, the mob can't blackmail me into suspending my intellect. That's the truth. Please, let me remind us that the accusation against the Pastor is rape not adultery.Anyone that reads Busola's version or watches her video without bias will definitely ask questions, especially if he or she is an adult like myself. You may not agree with me but Busola's account seems choreographed. It's very likely a script written to achieve a predetermined purpose. It was important she disclosed that she was just 16 when it happened. This means she was molested as a minor. If absence of consent doesn't fly, minority would definitely nail the alleged predator. But who's going to argue on the veracity of this claim on age? Certainly not Pastor Biodun who has denied Busola's allegation. You see, it's not as straight forward as you think. There's no doubt about the attempt to play the victim to elicit public sympathy. Of course, it's normal and natural for humans to tell contentious stories from their perspective with the intent to look good, or at least appear better than the other person. That's where unbiased investigation comes handy. Rape is a serious crime. Biodun cannot be prosecuted and convicted solely on the basis of Busola's own account. He must defend himself and Busola's testimony must be subjected to serious scrutiny. On what basis do you accept her version as an absolute truth and Pastor Biodun's as false? This article is by no means intended to either justify rape, immorality or defend Pastor Biodun. It's objective is to plead for a little fairness, broad mindedness and objectivity. Most of us have at different times been blackmailed or misrepresented. Surprisingly, victims are always too willing to become culprits in the infamous Department of Gossip. I will never understand how a man enjoys sexual intercourse which is devoid of mutuality. That's how despicable rapists are. Consent is fundamental to sex. I hold both rapists and gays with the same amount of contempt. I'm aware that celebrities, especially men of God are susceptible to blackmail. Some of the allegations may be true, no doubt. Some are definitely fabricated. The problem is that it's difficult for people in this class to defend themselves. Again, Busola said she was raped. I sincerely have my doubt. Rape is rape basically owing to the absence of consent. Consensual sex can't be termed rape. Look at the story again. Your mother traveled and left you with one of your sisters in the house- a duplex. The Pastor sneaked in surprisingly early in the morning and it turned out that his target was the one who opened the door for him. He must be very "lucky" to enjoy such precision of fate. As you opened the door for him, he pushed you to one of the chairs, removed his belt and had carnal knowledge of your virgin "womanhood". Satisfied, he made for his car and brought you krest to drink, ostensibly as a contraceptive and you obliged. Wow! What a storyline!!. This movie is only good for the oft intellectually non stimulating and predictable Nollywood. I doubt if this heart rending story can pass the test of either legal or logical scrutiny in the face of an allegation of rape. It can ground consensual sex(adultery) or child abuse if the minority status of the victim at the time of the incidence is ascertained. Definitely not rape. If you read or listen well, you will agree that if sex occurred at all, it was consensual. Only an insane man would go to a strange environment and take such a risky action without a detailed ascertainment and assurance of safety anchored on absolute privacy. Who assured the Pastor that the environment was safe enough for him to "eat" uninhibited? I'm sure without such assurance, even lesser mortals won't venture, let alone a celebrity Pastor. It's noteworthy that most genuine victims of rape suffer in the hands of trusted people who share apartment or proximity with them. For the other cases, there's always an ignored or accepted red flag. No man in the Pastor's position would just wake up and attempt a rape without first testing the waters. Generally, he must be reasonably sure of the victim's cooperation based on past and present interactions. Busola's account wants us to believe that within split seconds, the man ascended and descended from the mountain unrestricted, went outside to his car, brought a drink, hands same to his prey, she gladly or grudgingly received and gulped as expected. Is it that easy and straight forward? What could have given him such audacity and reassurance in someone else's house? Unbelievable! After such experience, the very next Sunday, the prey was in Church, albeit in low spirits. The fellowship continued into the future. The second episode sounds even more weird. He drove you into an isolated part of the town, dragged you out of the passengers' side to the bonnet and successfully "ate the food" to satisfaction. No shout, no struggles! The length of time it took for this story to be told publicly is in itself a source of suspicion. As a Lawyer, I know crimes can't be statute barred. But it's curious that a molestation she suffered in her teens was successfully managed through school until she married and became a mother of three before letting the monstrous cat out of the bag. Sister Busola has already presented herself as having been a serious Christian from youth, in fact before she was allegedly defiled. I think there's something unchristian about her confession after many years had elapsed. Time should have healed her. If time couldn't, she could have sought counsel aimed at healing and forgiveness. Thankfully, the molestation didn't prevent her from loving her husband and giving him three beautiful kids. If forgiveness was impossible (as unchristian as it is), she should have sought the prosecution of her assailant. I can't fathom what the resort to media trial is intended to achieve. Is it healing, forgiveness or vengeance? Friends, let's stop unnecessary pontification. There's definitely something about this scandal hiding very safely from us. If you are a Christian, pray for Pastor Biodun, Sister Busola, her husband and children. It's as serious as that. Omen Bassey© 3 Likes |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by laudate: 1:13pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
OfficialAPCNig:The same man also has access to the same social media, that the lady used to make her accusations. He has NOT yet denied knowing her, or having anything intimate to do with her. Let him offer proof, to clear his name like Neymar did, in his own case. Has he said it was consensual? If it was, why isn't he saying it, and providing evidence to show that it was consensual? 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by Mizwisdom(f): 1:14pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
GogobiriLalas: I know this wasn't specifically directed at me but if t's my relative, I will be the first to castigate him if he's guilty. I saw my cousin sexually assault a lady and I testified against him so what do you mean if it's your bro, cousin, father etc? you think we'll defend them for stupid acts because we're related? |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by bitingcool: 1:15pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
oluwasegun007: God forbids it happens..but in such a case, I will immediately take that child to the hospital, to determine if the allegation is true...was she disvirgined? An observation of a broken hymen will be evident, was she raped, perhaps evidence of sexual encounter will still be in her vagina. From there, security will be dispatched to get the guy and his own story.....the world we live in now is a world of information and evidence...if you don't have that.... nothing can be brought against you I wasn't there, you weren't there, so how can we believe any of them. a few weeks ago , someone said one of her kids was not by Timi dakolo that it was d pastor that sired the child. 3 weeks after she is sending rape accusations. He may have raped her or not, I repeat, I wasn't there but this lady is not as innocent as she claims. I'm convinced to believe they have both been having sex for a long time and she has an axe to grind... Time will tell. The only person that will really suffer will be her husband because the accuser and accusee have something we the spectators don't know about...in some weeks now , we will move to another scandal. Let them still conduct paternity tests on the kids first cos that allegation sparked something in the woman. 1 Like |
Re: COZA Pastor's Rape Accusation: Before You Join The Band Wagon, Neymar Case Study by corpershun: 1:18pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
RemiTinubu: I asked a simple question which your dumb self didn’t answer but went on yapping like an Oshodi market woman that you are at least in terms of reasoning. [b]Do you know that consensual sex with a minor is Rape and it’s a crime? Think about that before vomiting rubbish from your sour stomach. StupidWoman, you can’t even construct a sentence sensibly. A toddler writes better than you. I stand with no one but will never castigate a victim of rape whether male or female. |
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