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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 3:24am On Jul 06, 2019 |
I can clearly see a BETTER john thomas in the picture! ...man up and do the needful! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Teaveapoet(f): 3:44am On Jul 06, 2019 |
you seems like a rich dude..... i don't encourage adultery tho but let her know body no be firewood. buy her books talks about women denying their husband their rights and get audio cassette that talks more about sexuality. God bless |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by GodSaklek(m): 3:47am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Bro, this is a dangerous situation,I don't want u to believe that your wife is having an affairs with someone yet,but I want u to investigate this issue yourself,there is a possibility that she's meeting someone else,although u know your wife than anyone but generally,don't think u have known everything, women can behave this way if they are having an extra marital affairs,but for her to denied u sex despite that u always show up weekly is too bad,never trust anyone, a woman can keep a secret for a very long time,don't ask her anything anymore and don't let her feel suspicious at all, start your investigation from her phone secretly, and don't let her know anything untill you finish your investigation,at least 2 weeks is okay for you to do the investigation,do the investigation yourself,even if u will not go to work for that 2 weeks,pretend as if u are working normally, don't stay home because of that, but if u must ask someone else to help u, be vigilant of the person u are going to ask and it must be a person your wife has no connection with and u must trust that person, it's better to let that person be a female.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by cococandy(f): 3:49am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Plain justification for infidelity and whorism DMerciful: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 3:50am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Do you bathe, spray good perfume and wear good clothes. Dirt is a turn off to women. Do you buy her gifts when coming back? Do you flirt with her and compliment her during the day time? Do you take interest in her affairs or you busy yourself with TV, phone or newspaper and only look her way at bed time? She may be feeling used. Buy her fruits like bananas and apples. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bigcasava1(m): 3:54am On Jul 06, 2019 |
uruba23:are you saying that he should pay her for Bleep! Is better he seek it outside |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Primenet(m): 3:57am On Jul 06, 2019 |
ok noted but don't cheat on her. if do you will have succeeded in opening the door to the devil. please and settle the matter. Let her know the consequence of her continued denial can cause to the family. 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by bjbjbj: 3:58am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Maybe another bobo dey help her out. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by DateMynd44(m): 3:59am On Jul 06, 2019 |
daddytime:are u insane? the guy said he's God fearing that's why he has avoided girls and you're here dishing a jonadab advise 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by jenkini(m): 4:00am On Jul 06, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by DateMynd44(m): 4:02am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Gaggi:na wah oh. people dey for this site oh 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Lush100(m): 4:07am On Jul 06, 2019 |
See a counselor and a doctor. A counselor to speak to her from the religious or spiritual angle that denying ur husband sex is bad. And a doctor to give her prescription to boost her sex drive and address other issue of concern she might raise.(e.g pregnancy) Whatever it is, your wife's approach is wrong. She may be expecting something from u and using that as a tool. Do as advised above. Best of luck sir 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by jenkini(m): 4:15am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Tough one bro. i for say ignore her and try to catch her attention because that is what i would do but we are different. I want you to know its a common thing in marriages these days and you are not alone. Its a major cause of infidelity amongst a group of men. Infidelity however is not the solution in your case cos you have the opportunity to but not utilizing it. Talk to her about it, i presume you have already, try to be romantic again as some folks have said. I wish you all the best but please dont entertain thoughts like shes cheating on you. quote author=kennydotkom post=79928621]My wife has always denied me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this has become frequent with her. Note that I work in another state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I live alone. I can decide not to come home on a weekend just to attend to other girls but I didn't. Many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girlfriend with all the freedom I have. Sometimes she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex. With just 2 or 3rounds am OK till next weekend oo. HOW TRUE IS This? as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work. She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up. Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear. I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by OALandAgents: 4:28am On Jul 06, 2019 |
I guess you noticed where op stated that she initiates sex when she is extremely happy. This is the key to the solving the problem. Perhaps wife usually unhappy and if he can make happy then he would be getting all the sex he wants. Try increasing her allowance for running the home. davillian: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 4:28am On Jul 06, 2019 |
bukatyne: Why op no marry person like you? Why women dey fuk up? Some of them feel sex is limited to child bearing. That's bullcrap. Advice your fellow women. Make dem borrow sense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 4:33am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Then let her relief you. Is she selfish? What fuckery is she trying to put up? Now I understand why men marry housewives and make her dependent on him. That way she has to fulfill her duties or no monthly allowance. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 4:36am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: You guys are not sexually compatible. What were you discussing during courtship then when you know you love sex? Why didn't you tell her then? Abi you were forming? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Itulah(m): 4:36am On Jul 06, 2019 |
You already know what to do before coming here |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by daddytime(m): 4:39am On Jul 06, 2019 |
DateMynd44: You are a dimwit. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by daddytime(m): 4:40am On Jul 06, 2019 |
GeniusWannabe: I puke on you... |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 4:41am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: You mean female genital mutilation? Women are not circumcized. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by deltateam: 4:44am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Was she raped earlier in life? It could cause frigidity.There are female aphrodisiac products by zee world. They advertise on sun newspapers. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by mekuxiani(m): 4:45am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom:You need to go closer to your wife distance can be damaging at times |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by anonymuz(m): 4:55am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davash222:you just said the bitter truth |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by Nobody: 4:57am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Check well, she might be into masturbation, or...a human being just don't want to make love to the husband for no reason, except she married you out of convenience... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by jamesatoy(m): 5:00am On Jul 06, 2019 |
I almost fell into that trap too...I had to quit the relationship after i even engaged her and yet she didnt change, I think her feelings is diverted towards something/someone else. You have a serious work and investigations to do.All the best. |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by senchibi: 5:25am On Jul 06, 2019 |
There is No law against marital rape in Nigeria. So if you put a ring on it , then jump into the ocean as it pleases you. I am just quoting the Nigerian law shaa . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by needful: 5:26am On Jul 06, 2019 |
cococandy: I thought I was the only that saw the trend of infidelity advices. This is to tell you that for every 100% of marriage in naija, 99.90% indulges in extra marital relationship. Nawaooooo 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ityP(m): 5:27am On Jul 06, 2019 |
kennydotkom: Did u know of her circumcision before marrying her? If u do, then u are responsible for ur own misfortune. Manage her like that or be getting the juice outside |
Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by ityP(m): 5:33am On Jul 06, 2019 |
Davidasi: Wow. This makes so much sense. 1 Like |
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