Most women lack social skills.

Not their fault.
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They are used to being chased.

 

And they make one of these 3 common mistakes:

 

1) They are as boring as a weather forecast on Christmas Day bore her (and even annoy her) by sending dry and monosyllabic replies.

No social skills

They can't hold a conversation that does not revolve round ice cream or how boring their day was.

It doesn't seem like a problem until you find the man that constantly keeps butterflies fluttering in your belly

 

 

 

Here is a true but unfortunate fact:

 

It is a fast paced world since the advent of technology and it has reflected in society and our lives. When it comes to interacting with the opposite sex,  especially one that you don't have all the time in the world to make an impression.
 

We want a connection, especially with people we are attracted to and communication will stoke the attraction. Now, you have your chance but you are ruining it with every second that goes by.

 

 

This is where the majority of females mess up.

They are afraid of showing their hand so they come off as aloof, expecting the man to pursue.

Playing hard to get might have been a 90s rave but you have to learn some social skills or you might end up in misery.

Not today, darling.

Sometimes, you would have to be engaging if you are going to score this fine dream man-specimen.

 

You might think that it is the man's prerogative to always initiate conversation but the times have changed.  Sometimes, you have to throw your hat in the ring.

Don't get me wrong. I am not asking you to be hot on a man's heels and chase every easy on the eye six footer aggressively. Just learn to sustain interest through interaction.

 
Many women desperately want to think if its meant to be, it will...

Well, here is a shocker.

 
A woman with great social skills is not waiting to be chosen. She is also taking her pick. She is not fiddling with her phone and waiting for a guy to send "Hello" on Whatsapp.

 
It's pretty simple.
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Go easy on the abbreviations.

And limit the pleasantries...

Learn to ask questions. Genuine curiosity is

Keep it going. No epistles and no one word replies. They can be annoying as heck.

Use emijos sparingly. They represent familiarity.
 

 Your messages should reveal a lot about your personality.  They should be specifically designed to lead towards a connection. If that is your goal.

Just be interesting enough to be worth thinking the world of.

Don't be a chat buddy till the day he puts up a photo of him proposing to someone else.

P. S. - Have you ever spent months texting a guy only to realize you were just her "text buddy" and he has no romantic interest in you at all?

 

That can really hurt or pain.

I have crafted a specific sequence of texts that will serve as direction in communication with someone you fancy. You can use them in your advantage but it is important that you are natural.

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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