iCauseTrouble:
U bought iPhone X for her and gave her old phone to your mum - Omo ale ni e

hope1292:
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong.

we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense.

she talks back at me in any slight argument like i playfully hit her and the next thing i get the heaviest slap of my life, I get challenged in every argument like she stands face to face with me like she can beat me

Last week my mom came to visit though we just had an argument before the visit but i expected her to keep it cool with my mom, but opposite was the case, she was not even listening to what my mom was saying instead she focused on zeeworld Then i was still trying to calm myself.

Mom complained about the AC she was feeling cold, i expected her to switch off the AC but she was still all glued to the TV. i got angry and asked if she didn't hear what my MOM said.

instead she got up and try to challenge me nd i got so angry and gave her a slap and the next thing she gave me close to 3 slaps nd i guess i had no other choice than to give her the beating of her life.

Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too

Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too.

Please nairalanders i need advice I'm tired, i have talked to her, my mom have talked to her, it's just her way and I'm not sure she can control it, i hate to hit or beat girls but she wants to turn me to one, she even stored my name with woman beater since then

This same girl i bought her an iPhone X nd gave her old phone to my MOM Without telling her nd i got the insult of my life

Please i need advice

kurupt1:
I'm beginning to suspect that some people are cooking up Males Lamentations threads for reasons best known to them

iCauseTrouble:
U bought iPhone X for her and gave her old phone to your mum - Omo ale ni e jati jati

hope1292:

Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too

Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too .

hope1292:
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong.

we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense.

she talks back at me in any slight argument, like i playfully hit her and the next thing i get the heaviest slap of my life, I get challenged in every argument like she stands face to face with me like she can beat me

Last week my mom came to visit though we just had an argument before the visit but i expected her to keep it cool with my mom, but opposite was the case, she was not even listening to what my mom was saying instead she focused on zeeworld Then i was still trying to calm myself.

Mom complained about the AC she was feeling cold, i expected her to switch off the AC but she was still all glued to the TV. i got angry and asked if she didn't hear what my MOM said.

instead she got up and try to challenge me nd i got so angry and gave her a slap and the next thing she gave me close to 3 slaps nd i guess i had no other choice than to give her the beating of her life.

Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too

Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too.

Please nairalanders i need advice I'm tired, i have talked to her, my mom have talked to her, it's just her way and I'm not sure she can control it, i hate to hit or beat girls but she wants to turn me to one, she even stored my name with woman beater since then

This same girl i bought her an iPhone X nd gave her old phone to my MOM Without telling her nd i got the insult of my life

Please i need advice

hope1292:
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong.

we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense.

she talks back at me in any slight argument, like i playfully hit her and the next thing i get the heaviest slap of my life, I get challenged in every argument like she stands face to face with me like she can beat me

Last week my mom came to visit though we just had an argument before the visit but i expected her to keep it cool with my mom, but opposite was the case, she was not even listening to what my mom was saying instead she focused on zeeworld Then i was still trying to calm myself.

Mom complained about the AC she was feeling cold, i expected her to switch off the AC but she was still all glued to the TV. i got angry and asked if she didn't hear what my MOM said.

instead she got up and try to challenge me nd i got so angry and gave her a slap and the next thing she gave me close to 3 slaps nd i guess i had no other choice than to give her the beating of her life.

Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too

Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too.

Please nairalanders i need advice I'm tired, i have talked to her, my mom have talked to her, it's just her way and I'm not sure she can control it, i hate to hit or beat girls but she wants to turn me to one, she even stored my name with woman beater since then

This same girl i bought her an iPhone X nd gave her old phone to my MOM Without telling her nd i got the insult of my life

Please i need advice

hope1292:
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong.

we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense.

hope1292:
Hi nairalanders I'm new here though but i just have to share my story with you guys, i have this girl i met 6 years ago and since then we have been dating, but i noticed she is this kind of person that finds it so hard to say sorry even when she is wrong.

we live together and sometimes we fight for days and i still end up begging for her offense.

she talks back at me in any slight argument, like i playfully hit her and the next thing i get the heaviest slap of my life, I get challenged in every argument like she stands face to face with me like she can beat me

Last week my mom came to visit though we just had an argument before the visit but i expected her to keep it cool with my mom, but opposite was the case, she was not even listening to what my mom was saying instead she focused on zeeworld Then i was still trying to calm myself.

Mom complained about the AC she was feeling cold, i expected her to switch off the AC but she was still all glued to the TV. i got angry and asked if she didn't hear what my MOM said.

instead she got up and try to challenge me nd i got so angry and gave her a slap and the next thing she gave me close to 3 slaps nd i guess i had no other choice than to give her the beating of her life.

Sometimes i beg for sex and i try to force her she insult me nd hit me too

Now to the point, I'm tired of this girl i feel like 6 years in a relationship wasted because i don't see my future in her, I beg for sex, i get insulted, she tends to embarrass me anywhere even in front of her friends, though i love her and she loves me too.

Please nairalanders i need advice I'm tired, i have talked to her, my mom have talked to her, it's just her way and I'm not sure she can control it, i hate to hit or beat girls but she wants to turn me to one, she even stored my name with woman beater since then

This same girl i bought her an iPhone X nd gave her old phone to my MOM Without telling her nd i got the insult of my life

Please i need advice

pansophist:
No one can make you a slave without your consent. She started this bit by bit, and your reaction showed her that you have no self-respect and will tolerate even her most despicable behaviour. And stop saying she loves you, because from what you described up there, she cant possibly love you. From the look of things, its high likely that she is with you for your provider status, since despite her bad behaviours you rewarded her with iPhone x and the main breadwinner of her sustenance

You've positioned yourself to be a lucrative idiot with no sense of worth, and she has you by the balls. Now ask yourself this question, what benefit does she contributes to your life? If she insults you, freely award you dose of slaps, disrespect you and your mum, withhold sex, doesn't contributes financially to your relationship, then please tell me how exactly she is beneficial to you? You're the prize here, but so foolish that you have to bring this to nairaland for strangers to solve, where are your balls? Tufiakwa.

No one will treat you better than you treat yourself, respect is deserved not freely given. You should leave her, because she will never respect you regardless if you toughen up. The numerous slaps your face has been blessed with can not be undone, and she sill resent you deeply because you cant even stand up for yourself, talk more of standing up for your family to the outside world.

She may not articulate this, but she will hate the fact that a weak man like you is what she could settle with. Chances are, she is on the lookout for a better option, and once he shows up, your sorry ass will be dumped as you'll have outlived your usefulness. Have an abundance mindset and move on, there are millions of girls out there. You are suffering from 'oneitis', and you need to put yourself out there, and see that truly, you've been suffering all these while.

Mraphel:
You should have seen the signs bf u married her ..i will advice you not to slap or beat her again, go get a divorce instead. Beating or slapping her will make you d bad guy or a beast.