CanadaOrBust:


Be easy on her, mod, she was pissed off and excited and justifiably so. She was even tame - if it were me you’d be seeing words like shithole, scammers, 419...

justwise:


You don't need to be rude and insulting, people have every right to air their views, yes some might have gone too far but this is what you get in public forum.

You have every right to be angry with the op for not declaring his love for you here and was more concern about his own gain but you can't blame people who gave their opinions based on or without experiences.

Beautyaddy:



hehehehehe!...you're a mess

AngelicBeing:
Man =woe to the man =woe >> man = till the ground, fend and provide for the household = more pressures = frustrations = suicidal thoughts for lots of men = death or suicide for those who cannot hang-on till the end

Beautyaddy:


Are you're believing her?

I don't.

CanadaOrBust:


U r welcome and if u r going to be dumping that guy let me know

Beautyaddy:


Why am I not believing her though?

CanadaOrBust:


Some people sef. So why has the OP suddenly disappeared? Can’t u sense her passion. How can an uninvolved person manufacture that and why? That’s why people still say the World is flat and US never went to the moon

Beautyaddy:


Why am I not believing her though?

justwise:


You don't need to be rude and insulting, people have every right to air their views, yes some might have gone too far but this is what you get in public forum.

You have every right to be angry with the op for not declaring his love for you here and was more concern about his own gain but you can't blame people who gave their opinions based on or without experiences.

Onyinyechiakata:
IM ONLY INSULTING WHO INSULTED ME SO TAKE YOUR PICK ! DID YOU INSULT ME ! THERE YOU HAVE IT . I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO STAND UP FOR MYSELF THANK YOU

CanadaOrBust:


Some people sef. So why has the OP suddenly disappeared? Can’t u sense her passion. How can an uninvolved person manufacture that and why? That’s why people still say the World is flat and US never went to the moon

Beautyaddy:


People need to learn how to take what they read on a faceless forum "with a grain of salt"

So yes, I have every reason to question the post from Onyinyechiakata.

CanadaOrBust:


Beyond a certain level u have to stop splitting hairs and accept that something is probably true, otherwise how can u prove anything - example, u have NO WAY of proving the entire universe does not exist only in your head.

Beautyaddy:


People need to learn how to take what they read on a faceless forum "with a grain of salt"

So yes, I have every reason to question the post from Onyinyechiakata.

CanadaOrBust:


Ok, so how come same doesn’t apply in Naija and China??

Onyinyechiakata:
My life , your entertainment, there is your grain of salt !

AkataWoman:


So, is that really your Akata woman who showed up in this thread?

Beautyaddy:


People need to learn how to take what they read on a faceless forum "with a grain of salt"

So yes, I have every reason to question the post from Onyinyechiakata.

Backfornow:


I started out on the thread mad, then surprised when the lady showed up, and then entertained immenselyI. do quite enjoy his memes, he's pretty funny with them

AngelicBeing:
The Op of the thread has vammoosed to planet Mars

Ugosample:


I was hoping for a rebuttal from blastedhooligan.

apparently he has ran to take cover

AngelicBeing:

AkataWoman:


Have you heard from him?

I have & we talked

WOW LOOK AT WHAT WE HAVE HERE !
THIS IS YOUR ONYINYECHI SWEET "AKATA " you speak of I am across the world and have stumbled upon
A whole forum bashing and judging me about making a better living for MYSELF IN MY country!
How could you tell me to MAKE DECISIONS for myself when I shared with you about my people accusing you of being a user and scam! Because you are from Nigeria! I didn't listen I followed my heart I made a decision to use my VERY OWN JUDGEMENT , I listened to what you said and respected your wishes all for you to turn around behind my back and do the very same as me except its from COMPLETE ICOMPENTENT and IGNORANT TROLLS , you value these opinions !?? YOU ARE ASKING ABOUT Finance , money and opportunity not once saying you love me .. the username Byron asked if you did IN FACT LOVE ME and YOU couldn't even answer! That is what marriage is about LOVE ! I fell in love because I thought you were so different ... not looking to use me but I see I was so wrong ! YOU ALL HAVE NO IDEA what its like to be an AMERICAN so really all your opinions do not matter. I have not committed a crime ! I simply did what was best for my future. If you all had the chance you would ! How do you think you can afford school here , YOU WOULD HAVE NOTHING MOVING HERE.I was willing to go after OUR DREAMS we talked about together! I DIGRESS I am appalled in this community. My family and friends were right after all I wont say this about all of NIGERIA but I FELL IN LOVE WITH A SCAM !
I could be so DIRTY and EXPOSE WHO YOU REALLY ARE! EXPOSE SECRETS AND FLAWS YOU WANTED ME TO ACCEPT AND I DID BECAUSE I LOVE YOU and still care.! AND YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT ME TAKING MONEY FROM YOU! PATHETIC! AS FOR ALL YOU STUPID JUDMENTAL PEOPLE I PRAY YOU GET A LIFE AND EDUCATE BEFORE JUDGING !

YOU KNOW WHO THIS IS!

Ugosample:


I was hoping for a rebuttal from blastedhooligan.

apparently he has ran to take cover

Blastedholligan:
lol. We settled already bro. Thanks for your advice anyway.

Blastedholligan:
lol. We settled already bro. Thanks for your advice anyway.

Blastedholligan:
There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.

Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.

Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.

My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.

Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.

Pardon my scattered words.