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Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 12:01pm On Jul 24, 2019
Good day fellows , I have this cousin( guy) who has been seriously crushing on my girlfriend, before I knew it they are already sleeping together as in like every week. My cousin has a gf who does not stay close by, I asked him what about the gf and he said he is still with her.
My cousin said that he actually has feelings for my friend but is still with his gf. My gf on the other hand is single and wants a relationship with my cousin, she is really in love.
So my question is this why do people ( guys especially ) cheat even when they have girlfriend.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Nobody: 12:09pm On Jul 24, 2019
It takes genuine emotions and self control to stick to one person.

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Re: Why Do People Cheat by Davash222(m): 12:35pm On Jul 24, 2019
Girls cheat more than guys.

Your cousin was sincere to accept he gat a girlfriend while your girlfriend is a bloody liar!!!

Guys hardly tell lies that’s why most people think we cheat a lot. A girl will have over 6 boyfriends and still claim she’s single.

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Re: Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 1:13pm On Jul 24, 2019
Davash222:
Girls cheat more than guys.

Your cousin was sincere to accept he gat a girlfriend while your girlfriend is a bloody liar!!!

Guys hardly tell lies that’s why most people thinks we cheat a lot. A girl will have over 6 boyfriends and still claim she’s single.
I have known my gf for a long time to know she isn't lying. She just got out of a relationship
Re: Why Do People Cheat by emelda86(f): 1:42pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

I have known my gf for a long time to know she isn't lying. She just got out of a relationship


Why are u explaining yourself to him, its left for him to believe or keep wallowing in doubt

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Re: Why Do People Cheat by emelda86(f): 1:44pm On Jul 24, 2019
I don't know what people gain in cheating

If u have someone that's happy been around you why would u cheat anyway different strokes for different folks.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 1:53pm On Jul 24, 2019
emelda86:
I don't know what people gain in cheating

If u have someone that's happy been around you why would u cheat anyway different strokes for different folks.
Yes I guess he isn't totally happy with his relationship
Re: Why Do People Cheat by emelda86(f): 1:57pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

Yes I guess he isn't totally happy with his relationship

He should quit and face your friend na

I wish he will see how your friend loves him embarassed
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jul 24, 2019
People cheat because they can't afford to put all their eggs in one basket.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 2:54pm On Jul 24, 2019
emelda86:


He should quit and face your friend na

I wish he will see how your friend loves him embarassed
Most guys don't know what they really want.

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Re: Why Do People Cheat by Sexxkillz: 3:04pm On Jul 24, 2019

Excuse you?

You can only cheat on someone you are married to. That hasnt happened here. By the way I can as well ask many questions.

Why do people start sleeping with someone they just met and not really know? Why did your friend start sleeping with your cousin without telling you or asking about him from you since you are her friend and he is your cousin? Who told you she loves him? Why are you taking her side? Why do people only open up when _shit hits the fan?

Re: Why Do People Cheat by carter009(m): 3:16pm On Jul 24, 2019
Your right some how.
AwkaetitiBabe:
It takes genuine emotions and self control to stick to one person.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 3:27pm On Jul 24, 2019
Sexxkillz:

Excuse you?

You can only cheat on someone you are married to. That hasnt happened here. By the way I can as well ask many questions.

Why do people start sleeping with someone they just met and not really know? Why did your friend start sleeping with your cousin without telling you or asking about him from you since you are her friend and he is your cousin? Who told you she loves him? Why are you taking her side? Why do people only open up when _shit hits the fan?

Am not really taking her side on the matter, my cousin told her that he has a gf but they are not really stable of which I don't know if it's true.
Yes I know my friend loves him cos she always tells me about him most times.
They have known since the beginning of this year.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by frankkydee(m): 3:34pm On Jul 24, 2019
emelda86:
I don't know what people gain in cheating

If u have someone that's happy been around you why would u cheat anyway different strokes for different folks.












With this your reaponse, it means you can cheat if you have someone that is not happy being around you
Re: Why Do People Cheat by frankkydee(m): 3:35pm On Jul 24, 2019
Pattypatt:
People cheat because they can't afford to put all their eggs in one basket.










And at the end what happens, after all the eggs breaks off?

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Re: Why Do People Cheat by Sexxkillz: 3:37pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

Am not really taking her side on the matter, my cousin told her that he has a gf but they are not really stable of which I don't know if it's true.
Yes I know my friend loves him cos she always tells me about him most times.
They have known since the beginning of this year.
It's not love. It's just sex. Your friend should tell herself the truth.

He tells her he has a girlfriend but she still went ahead to sleep with him completely and falls in love with him? Did she think about his girlfriend? Why didn't she say no? Abeg they are in the same boat. I don't even know why you are stressing about your friend. What was she expecting after allowing him easy and unfettered access to her ifukudum? What value does she think he'll place in her? Easy come easy go.

She doesn't value herself so no one will value her.
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Re: Why Do People Cheat by Sexxkillz: 3:40pm On Jul 24, 2019
emelda86:


He should quit and face your friend na

I wish he will see how your friend loves him embarassed

Lmao.

Girls will always be girls. Just normal sex has sharply turn to love to the extent that he should quit a relationship over a fling. Na wa o
Re: Why Do People Cheat by doris4u(f): 3:45pm On Jul 24, 2019
Sexxkillz:

Lmao.

Girls will always be girls. Just normal sex has sharply turn to love to the extent that he should quit a relationship over a fling. Na wa o
Lolzz , fling that is lasting up to 6 months.
I guess she thought the guy loves her
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jul 24, 2019
It is natural to cheat.

That same guy will drink sniper if his gf cheats but loves to cheat for the thrill with other girls.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Sexxkillz: 3:50pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:

Lolzz , fling that is lasting up to 6 months.
I guess she thought the guy loves her

Umm

What else should we call it? Hmm let me see....

6 months of only sex
6 months of no commitment
6 months and he's still dating his original girlfriend

Should I go on?
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Avast(m): 3:57pm On Jul 24, 2019
Sexxkillz:

Lmao.

Girls will always be girls. Just normal sex has sharply turn to love to the extent that he should quit a relationship over a fling. Na wa o
Is there anything like just normal sex, I don't get.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Sexxkillz: 4:12pm On Jul 24, 2019
Avast:

Is there anything like just normal sex, I don't get.
Sex without commitment to the person you're having sex with?
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Re: Why Do People Cheat by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 24, 2019
I prefer my gf to cheat on me than people cheat me on my cash.

Sex and cheating is nothing doesnt add onekobo to my account.

Money build dreams, money builds society,money solve lot of problems that sex and orgasm cant solve.

The smell of money is the beginning of ideas.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Michelle55(f): 4:21pm On Jul 24, 2019
Cheating is a choice though! But why would your gf make herself a second fiddle when she already knows that he has a gf? She's hurting herself. BTW, it's just sex no matter how you want to paint the issue! Either she value herself and let go or continue being a side chick(second fiddle)

Re: Why Do People Cheat by 2dice01: 4:23pm On Jul 24, 2019
Pattypatt:
People cheat because they can't afford to put all their eggs in one basket.
these days almostt everyone are with 2 or more basket incase grin
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Avast(m): 4:37pm On Jul 24, 2019
Sexxkillz:
Sex without commitment to the person you're having sex with?
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I know but it happens between os. The girl will be at the receiving end.
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Avast(m): 4:40pm On Jul 24, 2019
doris4u:
Good day fellows , I have this cousin( guy) who has been seriously crushing on my girlfriend, before I knew it they are already sleeping together as in like every week. My cousin has a gf who does not stay close by, I asked him what about the gf and he said he is still with her.
My cousin said that he actually has feelings for my friend but is still with his gf. My gf on the other hand is single and wants a relationship with my cousin, she is really in love.
So my question is this why do people ( guys especially ) cheat even when they have girlfriend.
If your gf is not aware that your cousin has another gf, please help your gf by telling her if you really love her. Unless she is the type......
Re: Why Do People Cheat by carter009(m): 4:41pm On Jul 24, 2019
Don't mind her, I know she's one of them.
frankkydee:











And at the end what happens, after all the eggs breaks off?
Re: Why Do People Cheat by carter009(m): 4:42pm On Jul 24, 2019
How many guys are you dating?
Michelle55:
Cheating is a choice though! But why would your gf make herself a second fiddle when she already knows that he has a gf? She's hurting herself. BTW, it's just sex no matter how you want to paint the issue! Either she value herself and let go or continue being a side chick(second fiddle)
Re: Why Do People Cheat by Apination(m): 5:07pm On Jul 24, 2019
Everyone has their own reasons for doing whatever they choose to do undecided
Re: Why Do People Cheat by emelda86(f): 5:28pm On Jul 24, 2019
frankkydee:


Why are u stretching my response

Plz dnt make matters worse












With this your reaponse, it means you can cheat if you have someone that is not happy being around you
Re: Why Do People Cheat by emelda86(f): 5:30pm On Jul 24, 2019
Sexxkillz:

Lmao.

Girls will always be girls. Just normal sex has sharply turn to love to the extent that he should quit a relationship over a fling. Na wa o

He said he's not contented anymore with his girlfriend na...hian

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