There is something about being committed to black girls that really turns me off. Since i got into the country almost a year ago i have not been able to date a nigerian girl. No offense to the girls. Most of you are so so pretty and mouth watering sexy. I had long tight relationships with white girls easily and almost married 1, but here its too hard for me to even open up to the ones i find myself attracted to. I presently have a couple of female nigerian friends and we get along good. Sometimes we find ourselves holding hands or spending so much time talking on the phone and even sometimes our heads come close to kissing but always at these moments i snap out of it cos of the scare of what would come after it. I dont even know what is it 'would come after' that really gives me this scare. In a nutshell i have a fear for commitments with nigerian girls. Please how do i get rid of this gyno-melanophobia

Bros I gat a friend of mine who is a psychiatrist and believe me you will thank me later. .

Who says u must marry a nigerian girl?since u prefer whites go ahead and marry as many as u can cos believe me an sure the nigerian girls dont even know u exist and i guess u are nigerian.NONESENSE.

^^^ my sister help me tell him oo

Another nut rejected by BLACK SISTERS,

Bros, can you bear the heat from the ladies in here?

lol. . . . weird pples

Jealous ladies

so you have a phobia of dating a naija woman why announce it here? oooooooooooooh you just want us to know you have dated a white chick is that it? well the irony of this story is that you are stuck in naija and look around you nothing but naija women

omega25red:

so you have a phobia of dating a naija woman why announce it here? oooooooooooooh you just want us to know you have dated a white chick is that it? well the irony of this story is that you are stuck in naija and look around you nothing but naija women

I don die

omega25red:

so you have a phobia of dating a naija woman why announce it here? oooooooooooooh you just want us to know you have dated a white chick is that it? well the irony of this story is that you are stuck in naija and look around you nothing but naija women

See wickedness

cito us:

Bros I gat a friend of mine who is a psychiatrist and believe me you will thank me later. .

thanks a million, hope it is not too much to ask for a phone number

freecocoa:

Who says u must marry a nigerian girl?since u prefer whites go ahead and marry as many as u can cos believe me an sure the nigerian girls dont even know u exist and i guess u are nigerian.NONESENSE.

i never said i prefer whites, i only said blacks scare me and from the looks of things it has nothing to do with skin colour nor stature; believe me sister half the girls at koko lounge and virtually all female doctors in LUTH know me. Hope you aren't around to start an investigation; yes i am Nigerian.

queeneve:

Another nut rejected by BLACK SISTERS,

Have you ever stopped to think that you black sisters might be the cause of this? And absorb this deep down 'black sister', if not for the cultural differences and suppressions between us and the whites not many nigerian men would marry blacks after threading both waters. My problem has nothing to do with the black skin. Thanks for your outspokeness though. The same goes to you too tsdkii, -whatever

Brownteeth:

Jealous ladies

indeed

omega25red:

so you have a phobia of dating a naija woman why announce it here? oooooooooooooh you just want us to know you have dated a white chick is that it? well the irony of this story is that you are stuck in naija and look around you nothing but naija women

precisely, i see them everyday. And they give me double hardons. bro seriously the thought of me being committed to d sisters gives me the fright.

heroes1983:

thanks a million, hope it is not too much to ask for a phone numberi never said i prefer whites, i only said blacks scare me whites not many nigerian men would marry blacks after threading both waters.

I thank God you admitted to the genesis of your problem,"Fright" for sisters. Is there a particular incident that so traumatised you that you r taste went south? As for the topic of marrying white after threading both waters bro talk for your self. I have been in USA for close to 10 years and I know a whole bunch of friends who have been here even longer, we don't share your view, period. If you said African American women, thats a lil bit understandable but on this Naija Ladies case, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN!!!

Wow @ OP. U seem confused. U can't stand blacks, thus u "went" white, Then u couldn't stand the whites either. Is it that the problem is not the black Nigerian, and the problem just might be u!

@Op u are still saying the same thing as far as am concerned,how would u interpret blacks scare me and i have dated some whites but can"t date black?you dont have a case abeg so go seat down.

The beginning of a solution to a problem is admitting that you have one. I am mature enough to admit i have one and i detest it. I only asked to find out a way to go around it. But most of you just cant admit that the nigerian society might just have a problem. If it makes you all any better i dated a zimbabwean once and she turned out to be a close friend for 3 years even after we broke up. When my mum was the age of present marriagable girls she didn't have the present ideology as girls of today

@poster
i fully understand you!
i would be scared, or shall i say "careful", to date in 9ja too especially when you read their views on relationship/marriage, how driven by money/materials some are, and the definition of happiness of most. . . . . . .
but i think you should still dive head in and hope to find that "different " person from the masses (just keep your guard half-way up).

U mus'nt marry a nigeria. U only got one life to live, stop wastin it woNdering if u hav 2 marry a nigerian or nOT. DAMN SOME OF U ACT AS IF U WILL LIVE 4EVER.

jaygetta:

Wow @ OP. U seem confused. U can't stand blacks, thus u "went" white, Then u couldn't stand the whites either. Is it that the problem is not the black Nigerian, and the problem just might be u!

exactly@poster,if u think nigerian girls and the white sisters arent good enough for u,then marry ur money(if u arent just another broke azz parading himself on NL)

sleekch1c:

exactly@poster,if u think nigerian girls and the white sisters arent good enough for u,then marry your money(if u arent just another broke azz parading himself on NL)

i never expected this thread to turn into a tongue lashing room. I have seen your profile pic and you are pretty (if that is actually you) so i would try as much as possible to be a gentleman.
* i like girls black or white
* i would prefer to spend my life with a girl with identical cultural and traditional background as mine, as this would prevent alot of problems in the family
* nigerian girls to be specific are too materialistic and are even proud of it while girls from most nationalities aren't.

hope you are as much as smart as you are pretty to make the right deductions. By the way your last statement 'then marry your money' drives home and proves my point. Why should money have been the first thing to have come to your mind. Please lady i hope you aren't what you want me to believe you are cos your beauty would have been a waste.

heroes1983:

i never expected this thread to turn into a tongue lashing room. I have seen your profile pic and you are pretty (if that is actually you) so i would try as much as possible to be a gentleman.
* i like girls black or white
* i would prefer to spend my life with a girl with identical cultural and traditional background as mine, as this would prevent alot of problems in the family
* nigerian girls to be specific are too materialistic and are even proud of it while girls from most nationalities aren't.

hope you are as much as smart as you are pretty to make the right deductions. By the way your last statement 'then marry your money' drives home and proves my point. Why should money have been the first thing to have come to your mind. Please lady i hope you aren't what you want me to believe you are cos your beauty would have been a waste.

well said!!!!!
just another confused gal on NL solely thinking about the $$$$$$, lol!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QWSRnWVNTAE

Don't I just like Omo-to-dun! 

MOBO44, you now have followers. Impressive!

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
i fully understand you!
i would be scared, or shall i say "careful", to date in 9ja too especially when you read their views on relationship/marriage, how driven by money/materials some are, and the definition of happiness of most. . . . . . .

It's okay for us to be scared of Naija men too, because of how ''driven they are'', by sex. No?

omo_to_dun:

@ OP
Oh my God, when will Thou rid us of this black women basher? How the hell is this our problem? You have already solved your own problem: go and hook up with a white chick. I might be alone in this, but nothing agitates me more than reading a faceless nincompoop's post online contrasting our black sisters with white women. Your very first statement is especially an insult to our sisters and you have the temerity to ask for our help while implicitly stating that there is something wrong with our women.

Some might commiserate with you but I see through your lies since I have had the misfortune of dealing with the likes of moronic, low self-esteemed, and white-tail chasers like you in the past.

OLOSHI.

Missy ★ B:

Don't I just like Omo-to-dun!

MOBO44, you now have followers. Impressive!
It's okay for us to be scared of Naija men too, because of how ''driven they are'', by sex. No?

Salute!

heroes1983:

i never expected this thread to turn into a tongue lashing room. I have seen your profile pic and you are pretty (if that is actually you) so i would try as much as possible to be a gentleman.
* i like girls black or white
* i would prefer to spend my life with a girl with identical cultural and traditional background as mine, as this would prevent alot of problems in the family
* nigerian girls to be specific are too materialistic and are even proud of it while girls from most nationalities aren't.

hope you are as much as smart as you are pretty to make the right deductions. By the way your last statement 'then marry your money' drives home and proves my point. Why should money have been the first thing to have come to your mind. Please lady i hope you aren't what you want me to believe you are cos your beauty would have been a waste.

Damn dude the girl on her profile picture is far from been pretty. Wow that sound and seems to be your choice huh?

Missy ★ B:

It's okay for us to be scared of Naija men too, because of how ''driven they are'', by sex. No?

lol, i think you should be scared of much more than just their se-x drive!

There's no need to get help. Simply move on. . . . nothing lost nothing gained.

I understand one of your fears you have read too much mobo and mr cork but seriously you are caught in between maybe you need to stay where you are most comfortable just stay with the white chicks any cultural barrier can be overcome.

All of you have serious mental problems. You can't even read correctly. Wetin una parents dey spend their money for? Sponsoring total fools at the uni. They come out with a chicken degree without any useless knowledge to back it up.

The guy loves Nigerian girls, he is simply afraid to commit to them. He must have had a nasty experience or see these ladies as too tough for him.

Ask him why, instead of blowing hot air. Odes and Olodos.

michelin89:

All of you have serious mental problems. You can't even read correctly. Wetin una parents dey spend their money for? Sponsoring total fools at the uni. They come out with a chicken degree without any useless knowledge to back it up.

The guy loves Nigerian girls, he is simply afraid to commit to them. He must have had a nasty experience or see these ladies as too tough for him.

Ask him why, instead of blowing hot air. Odes and Olodos.

heheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheh very funny
but i dont tink it's nice of you to call anybody names
dont u have manners?

annawhite:

heheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheh very funny
but i dont tink it's nice of you to call anybody names
dont u have manners?

How does your existence improve my life?