Idowuogbo:


^oga good evening your clients were disturbing me today oo , but i can see u have picked up d notes i left on your table

u surely deliver , my Oga

Thanks my dear, you are a good secretary/deputy, hope they didn't bother you much. I can see we made the front page . How was your day? Hope it was filled with much sunshine & beautiful thoughts and not as hectic as mine was.

Aproko:

Love doctor,

can you please explain why men leave the relationship and then want to come back? should their come-back attempt be encouraged?

thx

chines4:

And where the h--l is this Doc. Well I can Understand no motivation(Pay). If you will[b] pay for consultation then Love doctor will come[/b] back now.

Idowuogbo:

^thanks wen i talk now , dem go sey she na me dey service doctor , common he can b salvation army 4 life mehn
pay d bros pips

No mind them. But public service is a thankless service(you are not paying for the use of this forum, are you?)

Phate07:


Thanks my dear, you are a good secretary/deputy, hope they didn't bother you much. I can see we made the front page . How was your day? Hope it was filled with much sunshine & beautiful thoughts and not as hectic as mine was.

Idowuogbo:

Oga mi i dey jare , omo workload don boku for this your office o , well sha wiv God al tins are possicants , but we need a panic alarm some clients are strting to behave like bulldogs ,so wen dey wanna bite i can press buzzer 4 d aboki to do a str8 withdrawal

Markenny:

@poster i wanna kwn if love have some thing to
do with trust
do u trust your girl??

Phate07:


It is a very simple irritant in everyday life called SHYNESS/INFERIORITY COMPLEX(aka low self-confidence). Though there are variations in the levels of shyness, every human being on earth can fall victim to this ill(depending on the time, place or person). Now, some people do find it difficult to address a room full of people(resulting in a stammer and even sweat), while some might find it difficult talking to a beautiful lady.

My advice to you is to give the person time to pour out his emotions and feelings through the medium he is most comfortable(in this case, sms texts). [b]And also do try to find out the cause of the shyness(cos there's always a reason) and help him/her to overcome that feeling of low self-confidence. Do it in a way that the person will not feel slighted/insulted.

To the guys that feel shy/uncomfortable approaching a girl and telling her what's on your mind, i have this tidbit for you: THE FEAR IS NOT WORTH IT! TALK TO HER, SHE WONT KILL YOU! THE ONLY THING THAT WILL HAPPEN IS THAT SHE WILL SAY NO. And that is not the end of the world, there will always be other girls. And also try to keep the company of guys 'that are in the know' with girls. And to the ladies, pls, do not always difficult. Do give the guy a chance to say what's on his mind(ie if he looks responsible).
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bodsibobo:

Dear Doctor,

A colleague of mine is married for 10 years. Two lovely kids and he has suddenly fallen in love with an Ivorian girl. Is this explainable?

Specialist900:

Chief love consultant.

I just remembered i have a question, it goes thus:
Prologue: There is this lady i have been wooing for some time now but she is proving adamant.
Question: what do you think doc. should be my next line of action.


Waiting for your response.

If am chief love consultant, what will be then? Chief love specialist?

For you question, i believe that the lady is playing hard to get. Is she a real stunner, one that can turn heads? Maybe you should change your tactics, try things like flowers and taking her out to the movies for a date and then pour out your heart. If she still continues to play hard to get, then leave her, there are still many girls out there. Its your call mate, but always remember you the man in the relationship and must act as such(ie always be decisive, dont leave the major decisions to her). Play safe bro.

pinky lady:


thot about that  

ny ways tx doc  

Thanks, my dear pinky lady. . How was your night? Hope you wont give the guy a hard time, with time he'll perservere.  

Ujujoan:

Hmmn na wa for this love doctor oh, I can see you are giving us some fake diagnosis!

What did i do wrong my dear? I gave you the honest truth and now you are pissed off. Why?

Phate07:


If am chief love consultant, what will be then? Chief love specialist?

For you question, i believe that the lady is playing hard to get. Is she a real stunner, one that can turn heads? Maybe you should change your tactics, try things like flowers and taking her out to the movies for a date and then pour out your heart. If she still continues to play hard to get, then leave her, there are still many girls out there. Its your call mate, but always remember you the man in the relationship and must act as such(ie always be decisive, dont leave the major decisions to her). Play safe bro.

Specialist900:

thanks man, but flowers in nigeria?
The lady in question is not agreeing to chat, how then can we make it to the movies?

Waiting for your reply.

Phate07:


Does that mean she is a girl you met online, a Nl girl perhaps? Hope she is for real. Try and get her email or phone number and then work from there.

Phate07:


Thanks, my dear pinky lady. . How was your night? Hope you wont give the guy a hard time, with time he'll perservere.  

Tink_sh:

190, you say you and omolola dont share your private life here Since when??, maybe this thread will be a 190/omolola drama free zone, Thank God!!!!!

It seems they are no longer together, maybe 190 refused to send Omolola money through western union. . I mean no harm o.

Phate07:

phate07 why would a girl go flirt around (not necessarily have intimacy but do poo) and when she is found out will still be claiming she loves you?

what is the best response if after a year she is still coming back with all the emotional" i still haven't been able to get you off my mind" crap?

She could just be playing around to try and make you jealous and care more. If after a year she comes back and you are still single, take her back. But watch her closely, for she might have another plan.

she wasn't playing around cos of my attention, we were in different cities! she eve had the guts to lie to my face that the guy at her work was disturbing her not like i ever asked,only for me to find out (text) when she came visiting that she goes to see him at home (thats how the bubble burst).
But sha that's history, what plan may she be having if she comes back?

Aproko:

love doctor,

thanx for answering my question. but i have another one,

is it possible for a guy to claim to love a girl and not call her? maybe he calls once in 2 weeks, especially if they are in a distance rel. mind you, he doesnt send money neither does he chat online often,