Martinez39:
You are very very stupid.

... My brother, follow me dey observe reasoning o.

Guys, let's face it.

The guy no get the cash to spend. Forget all this noise.

You asked a girl out on a date, u expect her to drink water because she is modest? And worse off, u are planning to leave her there?

Abeg, grow up joor. Stop thinking like a poor man.

DonEd:
Guys, let's face it.

The guy no get the cash to spend. Forget all this noise.

You asked a girl out on a date, u expect her to drink water because she is modest? And worse off, u are planning to leave her there?

Abeg, grow up joor. Stop thinking like a poor man.

I had 20k on me but I refused to be a Maga is that a problem

mmadu5:
OK so i met this girl 3 days ago today we went out for a date we got to the place she started saying she's feeling hungry and want to order food I told her to hold on a bit I'm thinking of leaving her here and leave I hate this kind of rubbish . why can't these girls respect their self for once . must you girls order food every time you go out with a guy I need advice on what to do now cos I can't spend 1800 for Food on this girl just like that

Very hungry �

Truth is she's poor, broke and hungry. Probably hasn't eaten for days. If can spare the bill for a plate pls do, there's poverty in the land. If you can't, no big deal

Tell her you want the 50/50 rule... It’s popular here.

Relationships in Naija should be based on this model fgs

mmadu5:



your a lady that explains why your supporting your cohorts

Should I go against my fellow women?

When I know food is not even a problem.

lol girls are like that. most times they like showing of a new guy to their friends, in most cases their girlfriends would want to fellow them on a date soo, they can eat free meals, it's a thing of pride to them that the new guy is capable of footing of their bills to some extent. if ur planning on a moderate date make sure you have aleast 5 to 10k budget. incase l can not go and fall my hand. Lol

mmadu5:



I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

Ubuja your attention is needed here.

jimyjames:


Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

Follow ubuja thread to open your eyes.

Inviting a girl for a date really doesn't involve meeting to eat up. A date involves meeting to get familiar. Even if food will be involved, it should be the guy that invite the girl that should ask the other if she will take something not the girl.

She will only end up seeing you like a mugu.

Mcslize:


Follow ubuja thread to open your eyes.

Inviting a girl for a date really doesn't involve meeting to eat up. A date involves meeting to get familiar. Even if food will be involved, it should be the guy that invite the girl that should ask the other if she will take something not the girl.

She will only end up seeing you like a mugu.

I don't have to follow ubuja to know what's good or not good for me,
And a lot of things can happen on a date, haven't you heard of people having sex on the first date? There is nothing wrong with a girl wanting to eat on a date
It's just simple understanding between the two

jimyjames:


Am not in anyway intimidating him, he invited her on a date what type of date was it, just a sit and talk date? He should have made it known to the girl in the first place, there are different types of dates, it could be at the movies, shopping, sit and talk with drinks, food etc

So if a female friend invites you out then you can boldly tell her you are hungry and want to order food so she can pay.

1x2x3:


So if a female friend invites you out then you can boldly tell her you are hungry and want to order food so she can pay.

Of course I will, it's same thing as her inviting me to her house I will ask for food if am hungry

jimyjames:


Of course I will, it's same thing as her inviting me to her house I will ask for food if am hungry

You are so right dear.

jimyjames:


Of course I will, it's same thing as her inviting me to her house I will ask for food if am hungry

Anyway not a big deal for me. If I have the money I will buy if not I would tell her politely besides I won't invite a girl out if I don't have money to host her or I would let her know I don't have much on me.

khia:


You are so right dear.

.. Don't be offended. So you can visit a guy you met for the first time and as soon as you entered his house,you demand for food?.

khia:


You are so right dear.

Thank you honey, I don't know why these guys are making a big deal out of this

jimyjames:


Of course I will, it's same thing as her inviting me to her house I will ask for food if am hungry

.. Are implying that there's nothing wrong if a girl visits a guy she just met and he demanded for sex as soon as she enters his room just because he is sex starved?

1x2x3:


Anyway not a big deal for me. If I have the money I will buy if not I would tell her politely besides I won't invite a girl out if I don't have money to host her or I would let her know I don't have much on me.

That's just one way to do it, very simple

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Are implying that there's nothing wrong if a girl visits a guy she just met and he demanded for sex as soon as she enters his room just because he is sex starved?

There is nothing wrong with it people have sex on their first date don't they? It's all about understanding

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Don't be offended. So you can visit a guy you met for the first time and as soon as you entered his house,you demand for food?.

Nobody said as soon as you entered the house. If a person is expecting guest to visit them it is only right to be hospitable to them by making them feel comfortable which includes feeding them.

khia:


Nobody said as soon as you entered the house. If a person is expecting guess to visit them it is only right to be hospitable to them by making them feel comfortable which includes feeding them.

I kept repeating same thing to them

jimyjames:

There is nothing wrong with it people have sex on their first date don't they? It's all about understanding

... Yea I know,and because of that he has to start demanding for sex as soon as the girl comes in? Somebody you are just meeting?.Well,its your opinion and you are entitled to it. Have a nice day.

jimyjames:

There is nothing wrong with it people have sex on their first date don't they? It's all about understanding

... Yea I know,and because of that he has to start demanding for sex as soon as the girl comes in? Somebody you are just meeting?Let's try and be honest a times when discussing..Well,its your opinion and you are entitled to it. Have a nice day.

khia:


Nobody said as soon as you entered the house. If a person is expecting guess to visit them it is only right to be hospitable to them by making them feel comfortable which includes feeding them.

. The guy said she demanded for food as soon as they entered the place.Even at that,won't you as a visitor wait for your host to ask you what he will offer you?

JONNYSPUTE:
... Yea I know,and because of that he has to start demanding for sex as soon as the girl comes in? Somebody you are just meeting?.Well,its your opinion and you are entitled to it. Have a nice day.

I don't even know why you are comparing sex to food in the first place, sex has to do with too people having sexual feelings for each other, been hungry is a different thing,

jimyjames:


I don't even know why you are comparing sex to food in the first place, sex has to do with too people having sexual feelings for each other, been hungry is a different thing,

.. Check your earlier comment. You did also compared going to the rest room because you are pressed to the food issue.Beside,she is hungry so she need food and he is sex starved,why cant he demand for sex? Both are hungry for something. They both needed satisfaction.

DonEd:
Guys, let's face it.

The guy no get the cash to spend. Forget all this noise.

You asked a girl out on a date, u expect her to drink water because she is modest? And worse off, u are planning to leave her there?

Abeg, grow up joor. Stop thinking like a poor man.

I really don't agree with this.. All these girls need to start being responsible, mature and classic.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Check your earlier comment. You did also compared going to the rest room because you are pressed to the food issue.

Yes I compared it cause of the discomfort of it, you are hungry why wait for someone to ask you if you want to eat? You want to use the toilet you can't wait for someone to ask you if you want to use the toilet,
Sex is a different thing cause it has to do with two people coming together to f*ck each other

jimyjames:


Yes I compared it cause of the discomfort of it, you are hungry why wait for someone to ask you if you want to it? You want to use the toilet you can't wait for someone to ask you if you want to use the toilet,
Sex is a different thing cause it has to do with two people coming together to f*ck each other

.. And you think that demanding for food from another person does not involve him or her?.

JONNYSPUTE:
. The guy said she demanded for food as soon as they entered the place.Even at that,won't you as a visitor wait for your host to ask you what he will offer you?

Yes, but if my guest is truly hungry I will give them a snack if I haven't finished preparing the main meal. Did the girl demand for food or ask for food?