JONNYSPUTE:
.. And you think that demanding for food from another person does not involve him or her?.

There is nothing wrong with it, it's the responsibility of that person that invited you to take care of you, like I said it's all about understanding people have sex on the first date

jimyjames:


Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

will u be happy if ur sis behave that way

cooluzi:
will u be happy if ur sis behave that way

Behaves how?

khia:
Yes, but if my guest is truly hungry I will give them a snack if I haven't finished preparing the main meal.

.. Good if we are talking about a guest you ve known for long.The story says,they just met and as soon as they entered the place she started making order for food. Be honest if you were in his shoes,how will you view or see the person?.

jimyjames:

There is nothing wrong with it, it's the responsibility of that person that invited you to take care of you, like I said it's all about understanding people have sex on the first date

.. Why do you think that he demanding for sex is a big deal but you don't see anything wrong from her demanding for food, knowing fully well that both demands requires a sacrifice?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Good if we are talking about a guest you ve known for long.The story says,they just met and as soon as they entered the place she started making order for food. Be honest if you were in his shoes,how will you view or see the person?.

There is no place for rudeness in my home. The guest can ask me for something to eat but they can not demand for anything. If I invited someone to my home they are my guest, it doesn't matter if I have known them for one day or one year. I will make sure they have something to eat and drink even if it's only fruit and water.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Why do you think that he demanding for sex is a big deal but you don't see anything wrong from her demanding for food, knowing fully well that both demands requires a sacrifice?

What sacrifice? Food can be given to anyone even a stranger, sex goes deeper than that, sex is driven from a strong sexual affection between two people, two people must agree 50/50 before having sex

khia:

There is no place for rudeness in my home. The guest can ask me for something to eat but they can not demand for anything. If I invited someone to my home they are my guest, it doesn't matter if I have known them for one day or one year. I will make sure they have something to eat and drink even if it's only fruit and water.

.. But she did not ask for something to eat,she demanded for it.I don't think the op would ve being angry if she politely told him she is hungry and allow him get her what he can afford. But in this case she demanded for it without seeking his permission.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Good if we are talking about a guest you ve known for long.The story says,they just met and as soon as they entered the place she started making order for food. Be honest if you were in his shoes,how will you view or see the person?.

Why are you twisting things here, khiaa don't let this guy confuse you, the girl in this story wasn't rude at all, she ask the guy if she could order for food, she didn't order food she asked if she could

JONNYSPUTE:
.. But she did not ask for something to eat,she demanded for it.I don't think the op would ve being angry if she politely told him she is hungry and allow him get her what he can afford. But in this case she demanded for it without seeking his permission.

Go back and read the op story again

JONNYSPUTE:
.. But she did not ask for something to eat,she demanded for it.I don't think the op would ve being angry if she politely told him she is hungry and allow him get her what he can afford. But in this case she demanded for it without seeking his permission.

I read the story by the poster and he didn't say that she demanded anything, she only asked. I don't understand the problem, when a man invites a woman out he should want to make sure she's fed, the same way if a woman invites a man out or to her home she should make sure that he is fed if he's hungry.

jimyjames:

Go back and read the op story again

I don't see where she demanded anything in the op's post.

khia:


I don't see where she demanded anything in the op's post.

She didn't order for anything she said she was hungry and asked if she could order, I don't understand what these guys are ranting about

There is a very easy solution.

LEt the date be you taking her to buy ingredients for a serious, preferably foreign, meal.

Then take her home and both of you cook together.

Thank me later when you both have your "nightsnacks".

like seriously

mmadu5:
we have so many weak men in this country

These nairaland men embarass males in society,,
Their thought pattern is so weak

mmadu5:



I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

1 bor for u brother. no mind ILegend...he just wants to sell his books. This has become a normal norms from girls and guys needs to let them know that it is not normal. this is not all about humor but a very serious brain problem the lady exhibits and guys needs to reset their brain to erase that hunger attitudes in them.

jimyjames:


Falling for what exactly? You invited a girl on a date it's your responsibility to make her comfortable, aren't you the one that invited her?

A male female date is a romantic meeting or outing with a lover or potential lover or expected lover/ friend , you hang out together with for familiarity purpose or bond, everything goes with it she's not wrong for wanting to eat something

u get sense at all? even at that, the lady should not be the one to request for food. what if he planned to spend only on drink

makes me wonder

jimyjames:

There is nothing wrong with it, it's the responsibility of that person that invited you to take care of you, like I said it's all about understanding people have sex on the first date

Then wait for the person to take care of you instead of demanding for it. Though to Me it's not out of place...But we are africans and such gestures are frown at. Courtesy demands that you wait for your host to offer you things....Not demanding for them....Na only oyinbo fit do that kind thing

SammieRexx:

Then wait for the person to take care of you instead of demanding for it. Though to Me it's not out of place...But we are africans and such gestures are frown at. Courtesy demands that you wait for your host to offer you things....Not demanding for them....Na only oyinbo fit do that kind thing

The girl in this story said she was hungry and asked permission if she could order for something to eat, she didn't make any demands

jimyjames:


The girl in this story said she was hungry and asked permission if she could order for something to eat, she didn't make any demands

she never asked for permission are you a rretard?? go and look at what I posted earlier and stop talking what you don't know ..

judgementyard:
Just buy the food for her if you can afford it,help a soul

Buy her meat pie and coke. Buying a girl heaven and earth these days does not assure you anything.

But her something way no pass 500 if u shoot your shot she no green bounce.

Inspectorsuga22:
Lol... Last week, I was hanging out wt my G, as we were having the bottles he remembered a new babe that gave him number the previous nite n decided to invite her to our venue. Without even alerting my guy, she decided to bring along her friend. On getting to the venue, we ordered thier brands for them, on the first sip, the one that accompanied my guys new catch boldly asked us if we are not ordering meat and snail for them, I was dumfounded cos I have never seen such stupidity before. I mean if she wanted to eat meat, she would have whispered it to me as friendly request n not asking openly and boldly like it's an obligation. Trust me, I sharply asked her openly if her friend told her they were coming to meet fulani herdsmen. The friend dat brought her along was so ashamed.... Some girls are really not well trained n yes many of them u see forming are gluttons forming slay queen.

u for tell her say you hope say them go follow contribute for the payment.

There's no wherw in this world that says guys must pay for girls

mmadu5:



I have more than 20k on me but I'm not falling for that crap a date it's not a dinner fools like you can pay that not me

You are broke...Stop all these lame excuse. If I consider her as a friend I should be able to buy food for her without feeling bad. What is 5k or 3k to spend on a friend at least it's the first time she is asking. What if she hurriedly left her house just to meet up with you? Baba you no need babe now, go hustle more

ArticleBeast:

You are broke...Stop all these lame excuse. If I consider her as a friend I should be able to buy food for her without feeling bad. What is 5k or 3k to spend on a friend at least it's the first time she is asking. What if she hurriedly left her house just to meet up with you? Baba you no need babe now, go hustle more

your a fool na your type women dey take play . I later found out the girl is a thot and that's what she does with guys go out and chop free free on their head .. so my wise nigga the Jokes on you .

mmadu5:



your a fool na your type women dey take play . I later found out the girl is a thot and that's what she does with guys go out and chop free free on their head .. so my wise nigga the Jokes on you .

Eyeah I'm not that broke that 1.8k food will make me open thread. Pray for grace my gee...If you some 7-8 figures for ur aza 1.8k go be like 100 naira recharge card. Pray for grace my gee

ArticleBeast:

Eyeah I'm not that broke that 1.8k food will make me open thread. Pray for grace my gee...If you some 7-8 figures for ur aza 1.8k go be like 100 naira recharge card. Pray for grace my gee

I repeat your a fool and idiot for that matter . you think is about being broke or rich. for me it's about using your common sense which obviously some of you weak men don't have. if you take your money and give the less previlleged is it not better than spending on these broke and hungry girls just to show off ?? I pity your kind

Hmm really hungry indeed.

If you carry motor go out you no go buy fuel put, be nature

hmmm too bad

Hungry mofos