I was here some time last week to ask Nairalanders to join me in praising the Lord for my cousin who broke free from the bondage of a gold digging girlfriend.
A married man of 32 years who almost lost his relationship with his wife & kids and lost over #4m as a result of d demands and slay lifestyle of this said gold digging girlfriend.

He has even confirmed that the girl was cheating on him and even at the moment,the girl is going out with someone else.

My people,u won't believe that this my cousin was chatting with me last nite for over 3hrs,explaining to me how he can't sleep, eat well or concentrate at work b'cos he misses the girl and can't let go his love for her.

I ve not seen this kind of thing b'4 o.Someone deliberately playing with fire.

It is obvious that he might love the babe but the babe is just after his pocket.

I did everything I could to convince him to 4get about the babe by deleting her contact,stop d occasional chats and stop viewing the babe's status and profile on WhatsApp and Facebook.Delete all pictures of d babe on his phone and anything that can remind him of this gold digging babe.

After all my talks,I was shocked to hear my cousin say he is considering going back to date d babe as he is not happy with himself since he called it quit with d girl.
That he is ready to 4give d babe for cheating on him and overlook whatever escapades she must ve had while they were apart.

That he has been trying to move on but he can't and he can't imagine to know and accept the fact that the girl is in d arms of another man.

A married man with two kids o.

I now see how some men end up having a second wife unplanned.

So,what am considering are;

1)Call his wife and tell her the situation of things,maybe that might deliver him.

2)Maybe take him to a Pastor for deliverance as I sense diabolism in this.

Pls,I need ur contributions house as this is not normal.

Tell her ur cousin is HIV positive...telling the wife will destroy the marriage and end up pushing him into marrying the girl...or get her arrested on allegation she threatened to kill ur cousins wife to enable her into his life fulltime.make her sign an undertaking.

Your cousin is one of the many stupid men out there. Nothing like love outside the love of God and your mother. Leave him to get the experience(bad) that he wants, since he doesn't want to learn. At 32 your cousin has 8yreas more to become stupid forever.

My brother, this is obviously critical.It won't be proper to tell his wife as that will destroy his marriage completely.
If there is a matured family member that u can consult to speak some sense to him,do that immediately.
The girl will finish him

This is going to be tough

telling the wife is going to destroy their home, as a result will have lasting effect on the children.

He should simply marry her. It's not against the law, is it?

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Charleys:
Masturbation is a safer form of sex that carries no risk of sexually transmissible infection or unplanned pregnancy.

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He said he is in love...Not sex starved.