We have been dating for eight months. I'm that kind of girl that often shows commitment when in love. I don't double date. I don't cheat..when am in love with someone, i give it my best and ensure he is just the one. So far, he has been good to me, but all of a sudden, i noticed that the rate at which he calls suddenly reduced. When i asked him, he said he wants to move out from relationship and concentrate with his life but that doesn't mean he has stopped caring.
I decided to give him space, but it has not been easy. He said he doesn't want to commit or tie me down... That if is the will of God that we would be together, fine but right now, he a'int sure and he expects me to live my life freely.

In as much as i love him and am willing to wait, but with what he is saying, it means i shouldn't wait. Am confused, should i give up on him. Does it mean that is now wrong to stick to a guy you love even when he is not financially ready.what should i do?

Please my sister, what else do you want this guy to say... The guy has already told you the bitter truth.. Incase you don't understand what the meant.... Let me use a � speaker to your hear.... He is no more interested in you shikena....

Why can't he do both? Have you asked him that? Dating is not a 24hr job, he's not dealing with someone with special needs. To me, this sounds like an excuse from someone trying to let you down, gently. It's an out.
But if you're willing to wait for him (which I honestly hope you don't), then focus on your own life, too. Set up some goals for yourself to keep busy, so you won't waste any more of your energy, obsessing over this non-issue. Who knows, a couple of weeks from now you could be in a completely different headspace, where you've shifted gears & no longer care whether he makes good on his word or not. Just don't dwell on it too much. Time heals.

PS, don't tell him you're going to wait & all that other stuff. It sounds desperate. That's for you to know. Accept his proposition & carry on.

God, please dash me a GF like ooop.

FCBboy:
God, please dash me a GF like ooop.

OP is officially single now but doesn't want to come to terms with it.
Oya, shoot your shot to OP, e fit enter

Dust your shoes and move on already swthrt

Cc
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