MobilityExpress:
This is the most hypocritical question ever on Nairaland. Nigerian girls will date anybody that has money, or big abula, or both. And most Nigerian girls don't have much to offer besides sex, so they come to the dating negotiating table as handicaps and beggars. If Nigerian girls can date criminals, thieves, ritualists, armed robbers, cultists, yahoo boys etc, then why won't they date a single father? Nigerian girls that date married men, mtshewwwww, na single fathers go come hard dem to date ? You guys commenting here should continue deceiving yourselves. Go on social media, see Nigerian girls shouting "zaddy" with pride, some dey even date their ancestors, like Regina Daniels .

placeofallure:


I was once in a relationship with one. To me it doesn't mean anything. He was separated from the wife before we met. He'd moved on. He was serious about remarrying and he was already showing me sensitive documents. He's comfortable at the least. I don't know, maybe the wife was still hoping they'd get back together or something and you know the way info flies around. I think she got wind of the affair between me and the husband. So she called me on phone (dunno how she got my number) and introduced herself. She asked if I am the new wife. Wife? I haven't even decided yet! She told me she's still in the marriage.

As expected I told him and he was livid with anger. He asked her to call me again and apologise or no child support from him anymore. Few days later she called and apologized, she passed the phone to some random women on the phone, they were all pleading. Only God knows the magnitude of threat she got that got them all jittery.
I feel if a fellow woman can be made to swallow the humble pie from her rival like this....Damn! I also feel for their 2 kids. She doesn't sound like she could care for them on her own. So I left him. Yes! I left him. I don't want to be involved in their drama. Even if he won't make up with her, it shouldn't be because of me.

Ebios:
Yes oh....l am in that category. lam even tired of talking to ladies now

pocohantas:


Oga please just shut up.

Every time, Nigerian girls will date anything. How many percentage of Nigerian men are Wizkid and Ned?

Even the Wizkid, didn't Tania leave him to move on with her life? Why did you conveniently leave that out.

The so called yahoo boys, is it every girl they ask out that dates them? Who are dating all the good men in Nigeria? Malians?

Nigerian men fck and impregnate mad women, do you also fck mad women?

Please, choose another day to be shallow.

oyatz:
The question is WRONG.


It should have been;

Why are Ladies scared of dating BROKE Single fathers.

Korllami007:


So, we're many that see the hypocrisy. I want to ask you, na alien date wizkid, David, patoranking and so on. After like 3 or 2 baby mamas, chioma still wan die dia. Wizkid nkor? Despite the fact that they are calling wizkid deadbeat dad, girls still de die for him even if it's a drop of wizkid sperm, make e enter their womb . I can't even remember the number of baby mama wey 2face get before he finally married. If 2face no finally marry, federal government go don create state for him, his baby mamas, and his children.

When I saw the post I was like, "Which planet is Op from? Abi na me change planet wey I know ni."

The think weak me.

KingRabota:
This thread has been a BIG time eye opener. Now I know why I'm constantly getting the rejection flag.
It's going to be a VERY :olonely road for me to walk on

MobilityExpress:
This is the most hypocritical question ever on Nairaland. Nigerian girls will date anybody that has money, or big abula, or both. And most Nigerian girls don't have much to offer besides sex, so they come to the dating negotiating table as handicaps and beggars. If Nigerian girls can date criminals, thieves, ritualists, armed robbers, cultists, yahoo boys etc, then why won't they date a single father? Nigerian girls that date married men, mtshewwwww, na single fathers go come hard dem to date ? You guys commenting here should continue deceiving yourselves. Go on social media, see Nigerian girls shouting "zaddy" with pride, some dey even date their ancestors, like Regina Daniels .

pocohantas:


Lmao. Onye ara

WorWorBoy:
Cameroon girls, Cotonu girls, and ivory coast girls.

Ryan03:
you should know ubunja is a misogynist, I read his miseducations cause it opened my eyes to alot of things , he is intelligent to an extent but I dislike his misogynist attitude. it's a free world, filter everything and choose what you want

Iphran6:

What of single daddies who was denied the hand of the lady In marriage due to marital or religious differences?

skukimania:


If he possesses all those attributes, I doubt his baby mum will leave him in the first place.

LilMissFavvy:
Well.....I would only chose him as the very last option after I have searched everywhere, then I can manage him.

uboma:



Me thinks that the ladies fear that the man's attention/love will be divided.

Again, societal views about her marrying a single father may the reason.

There could be several other reasons. Let's wait to hear what the ladies here have to say

LilMissFavvy:
Who wants problems? I can't date or marry a single father. I would rather marry a not-so-rich- man, than marry a single dad.

MariaLavina:
Honestly, that's the bitter truth. I see guys trying to sweep the truth under the carpet by using the other women excuse but the fact remains only an irresponsible one with a relatively low IQ will impregnate a woman he's not married to, or has no plan of taking to the altar.
Two, only an inhuman being will separate a mother and a child ( in cases where the father has the custody of the child) most times in this situation family is involved.

Believe me if I meet a single dad, I will be more curious to know about his characters, personality and way of life than his baby mama.

weyreypey:
Once they know that you are a single dad most ladies turn off....why?

pocohantas:


Tbh, if it is a one time thing, I will ask questions and if satisfied, would most likely dismiss it as one of those mistakes.

But if he has two kids from one woman and they are not twins, I will be very concerned as to what prompted a repeat journey. I will consider that gross (deliberate) carelessness irrespective of gender. Except if they were married.

Last last, it is really not something I am averse to. My decisions would depend on the dynamics of his single-daddyhood, not the fact that he is one.

What if he does a better job raising the child and mother is allowed visiting rights? I don't think a mother must always have custody.

weyreypey:
Once they know that you are a single dad most ladies turn off....why?

placeofallure:


I was once in a relationship with one. To me it doesn't mean anything. He was separated from the wife before we met. He'd moved on. He was serious about remarrying and he was already showing me sensitive documents. He's comfortable at the least. I don't know, maybe the wife was still hoping they'd get back together or something and you know the way info flies around. I think she got wind of the affair between me and the husband. So she called me on phone (dunno how she got my number) and introduced herself. She asked if I am the new wife. Wife? I haven't even decided yet! She told me she's still in the marriage.

As expected I told him and he was livid with anger. He asked her to call me again and apologise or no child support from him anymore. Few days later she called and apologized, she passed the phone to some random women on the phone, they were all pleading. Only God knows the magnitude of threat she got that got them all jittery.
I feel if a fellow woman can be made to swallow the humble pie from her rival like this....Damn! I also feel for their 2 kids. She doesn't sound like she could care for them on her own. So I left him. Yes! I left him. I don't want to be involved in their drama. Even if he won't make up with her, it shouldn't be because of me.

MariaLavina:
For me it's a no no. The only way I can be with one is if the baby mama is no more, even at that I must know the cause of her death. make I no go jam woman beater . Honestly I will do lots of findings about him ooo I no fit enter one chance abeg.