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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nicheey(m): 2:32am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters: Damn |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by udemzyudex(m): 2:39am On Aug 25, 2019 |
I have learnt this lesson as a guy, though I'm not yet married. There is a very big difference between love and attraction. If a lady love you ( because anybody can learn to love someone) and she's not attracted to you, believe me on the long run, it will only be a waste of time. If she love you, you really have to be sure she's also attracted to you. This way, she will do whatever you want. Of course you will definitely know when a lady is attracted to you, she will always try to make things work even if things are getting out of hands because she genuinely love you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Princeofasia: 2:39am On Aug 25, 2019 |
dont people assassinate people again? do they know that they can do it and make it look like a fatal accident? 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by ifiokbenzy(m): 2:42am On Aug 25, 2019 |
You no get money wahala, you get the money Gone!. Invest your money on something tangible, stop disturbing Nairaland with 1001 lessons learnt. Did the girl advertise any investment, you just waka for your too leg go patronize, even when she no gree. #Hard lesson: Don't go and pose to village girls when you can marry in the city. (Abuja). By the way, wetin kwasen mi
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by bossrillboss: 2:45am On Aug 25, 2019 |
BigJoe19:..oshey awon team I dnt bloody care.twale sir. 1 Like
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Solutiondesk: 2:52am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Lessons learnt 1. When a financial opportunity comes your way as a man self development should be your no one priority. 2. When you are not financial stable as a man, marrying a liability would be a stupid decision to make. 3. If a lady truly loves you, she will play the role of a strong support mate out of her own volition. 4. Never go out of your to impress a lady if your in tensions are for serious commitment. 5. Push hard ,extremely hard to be a champion at all times, never allow anybody undermine your dream, not even family. personal experience: Got a job of 130k, most colleagues assumed it wasn't enough, not long after I got involved with a lady, I really loved her, was making serious sacrifices for her, couldn't save at all, I realised not to long after the feeling wasn't mutual, we were already six months gone and I could deduce that all she wanted was money, Experience has thought me that a compatible partner wouldn't stretch your emotions, so I let her go and started planning, saving and in just over 3 years I own an auto worth almost 2m and a fast growing business of similar amount, my colleagues wonder how I did, it's simple don't turn your back on a palatable pot of chicken soup for a plate of indomie. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 2:57am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:wrong |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by kaywhy09(m): 3:07am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters: OMG! They're everywhere |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 3:07am On Aug 25, 2019 |
stag:infact i am angry and speechles readn ths post. U ve access to fed job, gave it to gold diggers then remain in contract..who dose that? So many wrongs frm d guy. He even refuse to invest 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Judybash93(m): 3:08am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters: 1 Like
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Judybash93(m): 3:12am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Solutiondesk: Yes sir.. Good advice.
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 3:14am On Aug 25, 2019 |
BigJoe19:lols |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 3:17am On Aug 25, 2019 |
DesChyko:lols |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by DevilhimseIf: 3:20am On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 3:21am On Aug 25, 2019 |
LordKO:was jst enjoyn d way u write 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by DevilhimseIf: 3:23am On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by DevilhimseIf: 3:23am On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by freemi(m): 3:23am On Aug 25, 2019 |
virgoquin:so for u mind nw ths one made money? Contract job without investin? For he didnt make kobo o. |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by millionboi2: 3:25am On Aug 25, 2019 |
daddytime:money can actually buy love 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by ipobarecriminals: 3:28am On Aug 25, 2019 |
DevilhimseIf: DevilhimseIf:kiddo! duz us beyond u |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by boolet: 3:28am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:werrey |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by martowskin1(m): 3:29am On Aug 25, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: No, he got it wrong where he tends to carry her family responsibility like he was their father, even got them a job... There are limit to things.... He invested too much getting nothing, don't tell me she gave her kids, because the kids still belong to her as well. Never marry a lady that is bringing nothing to the table, this ones that has nothing to offer are the ones that always behave stupidly Marriage is partnership, men should look at what the woman gat to offer in the union , if all they got to offer is their yansh, walk away, because they gat nothing to lose as well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by millionboi2: 3:30am On Aug 25, 2019 |
BigJoe19:after all u did for her and family |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by DevilhimseIf: 3:33am On Aug 25, 2019 |
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Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Seywayfem: 3:43am On Aug 25, 2019 |
This is a lesson to every man out there. Never force a woman to love you, never get married out of pity, make sure the woman you decided to get married to accepted you without any conditions. May God help the man and raised him up again 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Toroso: 3:45am On Aug 25, 2019 |
What a terribly foolish comment. Wow ! Your brand of foolishness must be truly divine. Moral of the lesson is not to chase girls that told you they ain’t down with you the first time you pop the question or beta be careful who you love n marry, Now you can have yourparent thank me. successmatters: Comment like this are reason to thank Gid for the wife I married wow ! So once a husband goes broke in a marriage the next is disrespect ?! Now that is some insight. GrabHisBalls: 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by millionboi2: 3:49am On Aug 25, 2019 |
gr8minds:all dis noise abt government is empty. Government job is just wat it is and not wat unemployed thinks |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Neddstark: 3:51am On Aug 25, 2019 |
When marrying a woman, it is good to know her foundation. With a mother-in-law like that, the family should have known the wife would be no better. 3 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Subonbon(m): 4:00am On Aug 25, 2019 |
Efewestern:thanks for asking him this wonderful question... As if he was happy when he lost his job... Please learn to think with your head... Head wey no think dey carry load... |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Nobody: 4:04am On Aug 25, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Have you ever made a business decision, good or bad? You sound like someone who has never been financially independent |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by Mavrick2012: 4:08am On Aug 25, 2019 |
akinade28:am so sorry to say, but, is their any woman who doesn't love for money? |
Re: How My Brother Learnt His Lesson In A Hard Way After Marrying A Lady by andrew12(m): 4:08am On Aug 25, 2019 |
successmatters:people who clicked like are likeminds |
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