Met this Lady when home in my church.
Talked to her. Had some datings before flying out after 3 weeks.
Kept communicating on phone and online.
She drilled me sooo hard b4 saying Yes.
But something happened which made me send some cash.
Afterwards I started sending more as we began to have some mutual plan towards Introduction to her Family.
Some money I sent to her for a purpose agreed to by both of us was used for something else.
She bought sometin with money on her confessing that was last money.
While trying to advice, she took offence.
Later confessed to me she's bad at spending.
Told her plans toward wedding,
She told me it isnt big when I have my money.
Told her I wanted a car of my level, but she demanded something higher(double).
I felt she is not interested in me, may be.
But when I got home 3 weeks after the misunderstanding,
She handled me with disrespect. Said, giving me her time was like a waste to her.
At the end of it all, we called it quit.
Because I saw some traces of double dating in her. Coupled with her non-readiness for any resolution of the crisis.

Could it be that I over-reacted or she is really not interested in me?

Phil Moane:

Met this Lady when home in my church.Talked to her. Had some datings before flying out after 3 weeks.
Kept communicating on phone and online.She drilled me sooo hard b4 saying Yes.But something happened which made me send some cash.
Afterwards I started sending more as we began to have some mutual plan towards Introduction to her Family.
Some money I sent to her for a purpose agreed to by both of us was used for something else.She bought sometin with money on her confessing that was last money.While trying to advice, she took offence.Later confessed to me she's bad at spending.Told her plans toward wedding, She told me it isnt big when I have my money.Told her I wanted a car of my level, but she demanded something higher(double).I felt she is not interested in me, may be.But when I got home 3 weeks after the misunderstanding, She handled me with disrespect. Said, giving me her time was like a waste to her.At the end of it all, we called it quit.Because I saw some traces of double dating in her. Coupled with her non-readiness for any resolution of the crisis.[b]Could it be that I over-reacted or she is really not interested in me?[/[/b]quote].

Not at all, that was not over reaction, you have just added more yrs to your life. Marriage or rela/ship based on material things don't stand the taste of time

Quit the relationship now before it's too late.

Nope u neva over re-acted.U did d rite thing n u shuld tank ur God dat she review her real self now.So any decision u take after on is ur making.

It's just a normal reaction. Considered it as a blessing in disguise and be thankful that you were able to find out her true color.

run

You should not even have posted here i guess u should av deleted from ur memory

Thanks all.

I am already out of it for few Months.

Only want to be sure I did not hurt or offended anyone.

Since I desired a Great marriage. Want to be sure my decision was right.

Had gotten over it. I think. Thanks.

Your experience sounds like mine.
Oh what a world.
Almost same thing happens to different people in almost same circumstances.
May God deliver us.