Hi guys.... Please I need your opinion as usual. So I met a new guy (not so new as I have known him for 3 years now as friends).... So we officially started dating this year March or so.... He has been inviting me to come over to his place which I have been declining( he stays in another state).. So after the whole persuasion and all I gave in. His birthday was this August and I was not physically there and emotionally there as he said so I decided to make it up to him. I visited him during the weekend as his birthday was on a Tuesday.... When I got there he was so nice and all.... I was really excited. We had sex nothing special he is not really that good in bed but I was not bothered as I am not a very sexual person. Now the problem is that the calls have drastically reduced. This is someone that could call me 10 times a day including chats and video calls. Before, he chats me up everyday buh since yesterday nothing. Even today, he just called and said 'shebi u are okay?' I was so shocked that I could not find the voice to reply him. I ended the call out of utter confusion.This is someone that we could talk over 1hr on the phone... Pls guys what could be the issue or am I overthinking??

who still campaigns after winning elections?

you have been chopped, move the fvck on

realest2:
you have been chopped, move the fvck on

OK Thanks

madam sorry but he just used you and dumped you

maybe you didnt wine him well on bed ,

guys like a girl who can fuvk them well including giving head,

well better luck next time, im sure he must have spent on you during the cause if your friendship so dont over think it and move on , he owes you nothing

Genset:
Hi guys.... Please I need your opinion as usual. So I met a new guy (not so new as I have known him for 3 years now as friends).... So we officially started dating this year March or so.... He has been inviting me to come over to his place which I have been declining( he stays in another state).. So after the whole persuasion and all I gave in. His birthday was this August and I was not physically there and emotionally there as he said so I decided to make it up to him. I visited him during the weekend as his birthday was on a Tuesday.... When I got there he was so nice and all.... I was really excited. We had sex nothing special he is not really that good in bed but I was not bothered as I am not a very sexual person. Now the problem is that the calls have drastically reduced. This is someone that could call me 10 times a day including chats and video calls. Before, he chats me up everyday buh since yesterday nothing. Even today, he just called and said 'shebi u are okay?' I was so shocked that I could not find the voice to reply him. I ended the call out of utter confusion.This is someone that we could talk over 1hr on the phone... Pls guys what could be the issue or am I overthinking??

My take on it, we all need time to simmer down or it gets a little overwhelming. You guys were together not too long ago, he checked up on you afterwards, so there's nothing alarming there. He's probably just soaking it in so to speak & will resume with your usual routine after he's collected himself, misses you or whatever the case may be. Don't read too much into now because it's only been a couple of days after all. Don't be distant to him or act weird because he could just be getting himself together or whatever.

@bolded though..

and u think having sex with him would tie him down

am one of those guys once I see ur unclothedness de shit I have for u..would reduce to zero,

jejely move on.he don chop ur cake so party don finish

Mmadu4 that was an amazing amount of rubbish you just wrote what do u mean by she didn't whine well, I mean who speak like that to someone the barely know mtcheeeeeewwww.Firstly genset or whatever your name is your write up is fucken weird considering the fact that you already understand that this guy was just playing you.he used to call 10 times now he doesn't,what don't you understand by that.

just move on...
his mission is to smash you, and he has succeeded.

cheers

Pubichairs:
and u think having sex with him would tie him down

am one of those guys once I see ur unclothedness de shit I have for u..would reduce to zero,

jejely move on.he don chop ur cake so party don finish

Thanks

emmysolo2001:
Mmadu4 that was an amazing amount of rubbish you just wrote what do u mean by she didn't whine well, I mean who speak like that to someone the barely know mtcheeeeeewwww.Firstly genset or whatever your name is your write up is fucken weird considering the fact that you already understand that this guy was just playing you.he used to call 10 times now he doesn't,what don't you understand by that.

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you can see the girl said shes not a sexual person and that is the number 1 turn off for most guys , cos technically thats all you girls can offer a man , just sex

Sorry dear. But sad to tyqe. He just used you. Even though it might seemingly take forever get yourself up and move on. The as$hole doesnt deserve your love.

mmadu4:

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you can see the girl said shes not a sexual person and that is the number 1 turn off for most guys , cos technically thats all you girls can offer a man , just sex

And what can men offer?

AK6464:
who still campaigns after winning elections?

Never seen anyone said the truth this polite

« We had sex nothing special he is not really that good in bed but I was not bothered ——«  Don’t be confused,Just listen to yourself and think, just think. At this time, what you’re looking for is a man, not a man with brains and I sincerely wish you well

Blackivy27:
Sorry dear. But sad to tyqe. He just used you. Even though it might seemingly take forever get yourself up and move on. The as$hole doesnt deserve your love.

I feel so heartbroken right now.... He was sweet and all. I thought he was different... He was even telling me that sex is secondary to him in a relationship. So I shouldn't bother calling him or chatting him up

mmadu4:

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you can see the girl said shes not a sexual person and that is the number 1 turn off for most guys , cos technically thats all you girls can offer a man , just sex

what do u mean by saying thats what we girls have to offer, I don't know if you've heard this before but it wrong to generalize basic things you don't understand it's not because most of the girls you've met have been sex mates means u should generalize,it just like me saying all men are fucken bag of shit but clearly I don't mean all except some I've met on NL

emmysolo2001:
what do u mean by saying thats what we girls have to offer, I don't know if you've heard this before but it wrong to generalize basic things you don't understand it's not because most of the girls you've met have been sex mates means u should generalize,it just like me saying all men are fucken bag of shit but clearly I don't mean all except some I've met on NL

ok but please let me ask you this question apart from sex what else can you ladies offer a man ?

Blackivy27:
And what can men offer?

please dont even ask that silly question , you know what men can offer ,i know your type cant date a broke guy

Genset:


I feel so heartbroken right now.... He was sweet and all. I thought he was different... He was even telling me that sex is secondary to him in a relationship. So I shouldn't bother calling him or chatting him up

Truth is, he wasn’t all that into you. All was just a facade to get between your legs. Nonetheless after another long while, he will start to call you again and insist you visit him. Don’t bother calling him or chatting him up. Just move the fvck on

mmadu4:


ok but please let me ask you this question apart from sex what else can you ladies offer a man ?

LOVE,RESPECT, COMPANIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, ADVICE,PRAYERS, OH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY A SWEET GOOD LOOKING LICKABLE AMAZING FOOD. IF YOU'VE NEVER HAD THIS FROM A WOMAN IT SIMPLY MEANS YOU ARE NOT A MAN

emmysolo2001:
LOVE,RESPECT, COMPANIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, ADVICE,PRAYERS, OH AND MOST IMPORTANTLY A SWEET GOOD LOOKING LICKABLE AMAZING FOOD. IF YOU'VE NEVER HAD THIS FROM A WOMAN IT SIMPLY MEANS YOU ARE NOT A MAN

nigerian girl will give you advice? love and respect that YES only if you have money , amazing food? nigerian girl? madam wake up from your sleep this is nigeria

mmadu4:


please dont even ask that silly question , you know what men can offer ,i know your type cant date a broke guy

i got no beef with you just asked a question.
dont assume to know me.
so men bring money and women sex, right. And if each cant offer that then there isnt a relationship?? Good to know.

Blackivy27:

i got no beef with you just asked a question.
dont assume to know me.
so men bring money and women sex, right. And if each cant offer that then there isnt a relationship?? Good to know.

women have nothing to offer a man , aside sex, how many women can advice their man , they are all about themselves

Genset:


I feel so heartbroken right now.... He was sweet and all. I thought he was different... He was even telling me that sex is secondary to him in a relationship. So I shouldn't bother calling him or chatting him up

Honey we're one the same boat. Although in my case i told him no sex. (we are both virgins) his reply was, "okay nah we can still date." after that he stopped texting and calling. Once in a while, he'll send a fb message. This is the same person who destroyed my first relationship. My ex cheated and this guy is his close friend. He told me about the affair. Later he confessed his reason for snitching was cause he knew i would break up with my bf. And i would be available. Guys.

Sorry but the truth is that all he really wanted was the sex and now that he has hit jackpot he has moved on but trust me when he is pussy starved again Mr nice n caring guy will be back again,by then hope u must have had sense though

Just move on, that guy deserve your hatred not your love..

It takes two people to have bad sex. Just as the sex wasn’t great for you is the same it wasn’t for him. Unlike girls who will stick around because of the African mentality of ‘he has seen my unclothedness already’ guys have no such inclination. Just accept you are not sexually compatible and move on otherwise you are setting up yourself for a bootycall situation i.e that girl you dont really like smashing but you call whenever you want sex and theres Noone else available. My two cents.

AK6464:
who still campaigns after winning elections?

Guy you no well ooh

mmadu4:




women have nothing to offer a man , aside sex, how many women can advice their man , they are all about themselves

I agree completely. Atleast now i have a mans post to show those rascals condemning their girlfriends love for money and not them.

Blackivy27:
Honey we're one the same boat. Although in my case i told him no sex. (we are both virgins) his reply was, "okay nah we can still date." after that he stopped texting and calling. Once in a while, he'll send a fb message. This is the same person who destroyed my first relationship. My ex cheated and this guy is his close friend. He told me about the affair. Later he confessed his reason for snitching was cause he knew i would break up with my bf. And i would be available. Guys.

And you fell for a snitch?
A backstabber?
Shame

Pubichairs:
and u think having sex with him would tie him down

am one of those guys once I see ur unclothedness de shit I have for u..would reduce to zero,

jejely move on.he don chop ur cake so party don finish

I don't get you tho
If you see a woman's naked body you will lose respect for her?
Why's that?You don't have a girlfriend?
And if you do have a woman in your life you haven't seen her unclothed before? Is that what is keeping you with her?