Me forgive? Forget? I don't know. Quess I will have to cross that bridge

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i think it all depends on the situation in which she cheated. knowing myself, i think i will be willing to forgive her and move on. but as i said if the circumnstances are such that there is reason to suspect she may just be playing me and will likelly do it again, then it's a total door slammer.

by doing d same

I believe sex outside marriage isn't acceptable. If you are sleeping together before marriage then why can't she sleep with someone else. Is still fornication she just chose to do with outside.

Both of you can't be trusted by God so why trust each other?

I will forgive her, after all "All have sinned and come short of the Glory of God"

But will cautioned him/her and quit the relationship.

I will forgive her, wont forget and probably wont take her back.

Forgiving her means, i have let go of the pain she inflicts on me, it means i have released her, but i dont have to be with her again.
It is like a pastor beating another bigger pastor and removes his tooth, he has to forgive the person as asked by God, but each time he looks in the mirror, he will remember the tooth that is lost.
There is a difference btween forgiving and forgetting.

Well Scudamore, Yes you have forgiven that's why you are in a happy relationship now, but the fact that you still want a discussion about it leaves much to be desired. This in my mind tells me that you cant seem to forget about it and you should ask yourself why? By all means, I am not suggesting that you leave her, stay if love is still calling. Its just that she's managed to put a stain in your relationship and some stains are hard to remove. I challenge you to delete this post if you have totally forgiven and willing to move past this experience

You, haven't you slept with someone else?

Your more man than me.

I could not forgive. I would just keep her as a bed mate, but keep it shallow.

well me and my girlfriend are tryin to work things out now, but shes been with another guy (co-worker) but i dont know if she slept with him or not, i ask her and she said no but the way she said it makes me not believe her in a away, i dont know what ill do if the answer was yes, i want to know the truth but i cant deal with it but i have to know, i mean guys u know what im tryin to say, i just wished this has never happened,

She or he has my permission.
What next is what I want to know.
Are you coming home or should I lock my doors?
Or are we swinging?

Chances are. . .I am doing the same thing.
First to taya. . .first to quench. . .the show must go on!

As much as I hate cheaters and their ilk, I have to say that the cheating is not what would upset me the most. I am willing to accept that some people make mistakes but the sad part is that so many people say that they made a mistake when they knew what they were doing all along.

If a boy cheated on me, I would be really upset, but it would not be the end. It would be the beginning of the end because his behaviour after that would determine whether I should stay or not.

The truth is that if a person cheats but wants to change, you can always tell from their actions.  If a person genuinely cherishes you , his remorse and his actions after the deed would be obvious. So if a boy cheats on you and still wants to be friends with the other girl he slept with,  THEN  you should leave because it means you're just an option for him and he's trying to keep the doors open for the "other girl". That would mark the end of our "relationship", not the cheating itself.

Your girlfriend that cheated on you and you forgive, chai, me i yam very sowei, wen she come b yur wife nko, she will say he will kuku forgive me, so why not? hop on Brother, n then yio wa ma feyin bi sho wa lale wen they r doing it, then wen she reach yu, crocodile tears will begin comot, I am a woman of pride, its abomination for two ppl to be hoping on me @ the same time, mo taka oshi danu loruko Jesu, AMIN!!!!

@all,

Have you guys asked yourselves why guys find it difficult to forgive their other part? I guess not! This is it. Guys always imagine someone else's d*ickk penetrating the hole he calls safe haven. In doing this, they find it irritating and somewhat disgusting to want to do that babe again.

And if you are aware of any guy who tend to forgive, he's probably gaining something out of the relationship, in this case, p*ssy and money. Mind you, he stopped loving the girl since the incident happened.

'Que sera sera'

It would be a never ending video playing back in my head, I would forgive but sir i can't forget!!!!!

Q Will You Forgive Your Girlfriend If She Sleeps With Someone Else?

A Hmmm!!,it's the best way to exploit a gurl sexually,emotionally,and monetarily.So,i'll forgive her

[size=18pt]I will forgive her and then forget completely about her. I don't like "tokunbo cars"  [/size]

Men are selfish, big time.

^^^ not really, the thought that another guy(s) has been through the laps of your babe will always haunt you no matter what

hey pls how do i post on here im new with this. tnx

i would forgive her if she confesses and i see that she is really sorry for what she did.

One thing ppl do not understand is its easy for a guy to have sexx wiv one girl n move on, its hard for a girl to do this (except she is getting paid for this)

^Where do you people come up with reasons like that.?

Kpollipedia

i know d reason cannot be for s.ex. so maybe i could

ANODA WAN DON COME!
MU HE HE HE HE HE HE

Blazay: She or he has my permission.
What next is what I want to know.
Are you coming home or should I lock my doors?
Or are we swinging?

Chances are. . .I am doing the same thing.
First to taya. . .first to quench. . .the show must go on!

DAZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ RITE BABY!