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Re: . by Eagba(m): 7:56pm On Sep 12, 2019
[quote author=ubunja post=82162726]true. You keep it to yourself. Among my friends only 1 knows my Red Pill life. And he's a long time Player whose life reflects a lot of my writings.


Otherwise others just think I'm quiet when it comes to romance. I repeat the lies when I'm with them and their wives. To keep the peace. [/white]
I feel honoured to be quoted by you

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Re: . by Greatomotoy: 11:24pm On Sep 12, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Is the red pill, men are now becoming aware suppose to be a secret or should spread to all? The comments I'm seeing here are surprising, I was expecting all comments above should be advising him to spread the Gospel of red pill far and wide, so why telling op to keep it a secret? Don't you want more members? Or is the recruitment only limited to the Internet and not real life? Lmao, I cannot but laugh cheesy
A married Lady once told me I can't be a marriage counselor, I asked her why? she said you can't tell a lame man he has one leg .. meaning you got to be Economical with the Truth.
I only express my view/ being my self when am with close friends because my opinion on issues were always blunt and honest/harsh. I notice people don't ask of my view on issues only when it's severe/ very important or when they need honest opinion.
People hate the truth, they prefer you tell them lies/ massage their egos than reality.

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 12:14am On Sep 13, 2019
ericsmith:



same way i was surprise when i saw d instance u gave, maybe i failed becos i just could not picture mysef in such situation. however these are problems with lower tendencies, besides there are solutions n if she want to leave no problem.
the number one cause of divorce is money issues. She will leave if the money runs out because in the first place if you don't have money she won't marry you. You romanticize romance too much.

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Re: . by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 13, 2019
ubunja:
the number one cause of divorce is money issues. She will leave if the money runs out because in the first place of you don't have money she won't marry you. You romanticize romance too much.



[b]The number one cause of a broken r/ship(bf & gf) is money [/b]while the number one cause of broken marriage is sex/infidelity ... my source: margistrate court hearings. search cases of divorces on NL,
You also av a point, money is one of the reasons (perhaps 2nd) why a woman walks out of her marriage ... ubunja what d essence of miseducation apart frm getting guys laid, it can also be use as a guide in making the right choice of a woman. bro when u marry a gurl that loved u 1st when d world wasnt looking @ you ...how wil she leave you in a marriage just because of financial hard time. i av 3 best friends, two are married with kids ,these guys av been thru financial hard times n i don't see there young wives living yet.

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 10:28am On Sep 13, 2019
ericsmith:




[b]The number one cause of a broken r/ship(bf & gf) is money [/b]while the number one cause of broken marriage is sex/infidelity ... my source: margistrate court hearings. search cases of divorces on NL,
You also av a point, money is one of the reasons (perhaps 2nd) why a woman walks out of her marriage ... ubunja what d essence of miseducation apart frm getting guys laid, it can also be use as a guide in making the right choice of a woman. bro when u marry a gurl that loved u 1st when d world wasnt looking @ you ...how wil she leave you in a marriage just because of financial hard time. i av 3 best friends, two are married with kids ,these guys av been thru financial hard times n i don't see there young wives living yet.
a Citibank survey found that 57% of those it polled divorced because of monetary issues.

And about your friends I also know a few people who make exceptions. But the majority of women leave. As always go with the majority. Cause the minority are miracles. And you can't count on miracles.

I'm here to make guys fvck hoes. I'm not gonna act like I'm here for some high mission. Fvck these hoes

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Re: . by healthserve(m): 11:07am On Sep 13, 2019
ubunja:
a Citibank survey found that 57% of those it polled divorced because of monetary issues.

And about your friends I also know a few people who make exceptions. But the majority of women leave. As always go with the majority. Cause the minority are miracles. And you can't count on miracles.

I'm here to make guys fvck hoes. I'm not gonna act like I'm here for some high mission. Fvck these hoes



Ubunja. cool

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Re: . by Nobody: 12:06pm On Sep 13, 2019
ubunja:
a Citibank survey found that 57% of those it polled divorced because of monetary issues.

And about your friends I also know a few people who make exceptions. But the majority of women leave. As always go with the majority. Cause the minority are miracles. And you can't count on miracles.

I'm here to make guys fvck hoes. I'm not gonna act like I'm here for some high mission. Fvck these hoes


i acknowledge ur submission, buh i also av a recent case study of causes for divorce by (NBCI). guess what : infidelity & extra marital affairs was no: 2 on the list @59.6%. Financial problems also made it on list no:5 @31.6%. commitment was no: 1 on the list @75%, what do people without commitment do asides cheating anyways .. say it !
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/family-relationships/these-are-the-11-most-common-reasons-people-get-divorced-ranked/ar-BBT1uns
Ubunja, some of us don't av problems with getting laid, my friend yestidae was listing gurls he had fvcked these year alone n i had to be reminding him the ones he forgot, lol!.. life is as gud as that ok ! buh i still. believe ur miseducation can still be use to secure love. we all need love, except you never want to marry in life.

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 12:43pm On Sep 13, 2019
ericsmith:



i acknowledge ur submission, buh i also av a recent case study of causes for divorce by (NBCI). guess what : infidelity & extra marital affairs was no: 2 on the list @59.6%. Financial problems also made it on list no:5 @31.6%. commitment was no: 1 on the list @75%, what do people without commitment do asides cheating anyways .. say it !
https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/family-relationships/these-are-the-11-most-common-reasons-people-get-divorced-ranked/ar-BBT1uns
Ubunja, some of us don't av problems with getting laid, my friend yestidae was listing gurls he had fvcked these year alone n i had to be reminding him the ones he forgot, lol!.. life is as gud as that ok ! buh i still. believe ur miseducation can still be use to secure love. we all need love, except you never want to marry in life.
then it becomes research vs research and the sun can rise and set and rise while we swap polls. Let's leave it.

If people can secure love from my writings, good for them. The Miseducations are my space to put my thoughts, experiences and analysis down. They clarify the game even to myself. That's why some of the things I write you won't read anywhere else.

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Re: . by Nobody: 1:24pm On Sep 13, 2019
ubunja:
then it becomes research vs research and the sun can rise and set and rise while we swap polls. Let's leave it.

If people can secure love from my writings, good for them. The Miseducations are my space to put my thoughts, experiences and analysis down. They clarify the game even to myself. That's why some of the things I write you won't read anywhere else.


ALOL ! i concur, as for the miseducations they are on point n conforms with the reality. #peace bro

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Re: . by Nobody: 1:47pm On Sep 13, 2019
ubunja:
then it becomes research vs research and the sun can rise and set and rise while we swap polls. Let's leave it.

If people can secure love from my writings, good for them. The Miseducations are my space to put my thoughts, experiences and analysis down. They clarify the game even to myself. That's why some of the things I write you won't read anywhere else.

You are an enigma in my life.
Re: . by BBBmall25: 2:27pm On Sep 13, 2019
ericsmith:



ALOL ! i concur, as for the miseducations they are on point n conforms with the reality. #peace bro
That Man Is Great

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Re: . by Nobody: 2:33pm On Sep 13, 2019
BBBmall25:
That Man Is Great



U tew can be Great !

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Re: . by sheDD(m): 4:21pm On Sep 13, 2019
Well my problem after following and reading some the write-up from ubunja is to make others understand clearly as ubunja most times spelt out his analysis

Though I internalizes most of the facts coz of a truth some are factual
But can't analyze in clear terms as ubunja to someone else
I guess I'm a dull student...lolsss grin
Re: . by COOL10(m): 4:45pm On Sep 13, 2019
sheDD:
Well my problem after following and reading some the write-up from ubunja is to make others understand clearly as ubunja most times spelt out his analysis

Though I internalizes most of the facts coz of a truth some are factual
But can't analyze in clear terms as ubunja to someone else
I guess I'm a dull student...lolsss grin
.



Lol,you're not dull. Not everyone has the ability to teach/explain things to others.

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Re: . by Dami12345: 5:29am On Sep 15, 2019
emmaodet:


Yes you are right but we shouldn't forget that no matter what these boys say, there is an iota of truth in it and some bring there issues here for opinions and we learn from them but nevertheless, have learnt my lesson and will adjust.
I think one of the main reason they haven't removed me from the group is because am one of there major financiers and they respects me alot but i think i shouldn't push my luck too much before they explode on me.
I will have to respect myself and take dressing.

I've been off niaraland for a while but I pop In for billyonaire and ubunja.

Lemme say this.
The bible says seek and you shall find. The truth is that something led you to seek out all the things you are confirming on niaraland.
The problem with sharing it with that group is that TO YOU, this is knowledge and news, to majority it isn't, its just one of those things they turn their eyes away from, they obviously know all this and are active participants, y they are shocked is cause they are all afraid that their deeds will come out, dont be surprised you are the only one on the group not cheating around. do you know the feeling you get when a child ask about how babies are made?, that uncomfortable feeling? Thats how you're making them feel.

I suggest that you observe them carefully and you will notice those who are sleeping with each other, those we like each other, but I warn you, if you dont have the heart for this dont look, ignorance is Bliss. But since you have come this far I suppose you should at least know the truth.

By the way, the truth is bitter and a truthsayer has few friends. Lies is everything the world is built on.

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 1:05pm On Sep 15, 2019
sheDD:
Well my problem after following and reading some the write-up from ubunja is to make others understand clearly as ubunja most times spelt out his analysis

Though I internalizes most of the facts coz of a truth some are factual
But can't analyze in clear terms as ubunja to someone else
I guess I'm a dull student...lolsss grin
what matters is that you yourself understand the truth.
Re: . by emmaodet: 9:23pm On Sep 15, 2019
Dami12345:


I've been off niaraland for a while but I pop In for billyonaire and ubunja.

Lemme say this.
The bible says seek and you shall find. The truth is that something led you to seek out all the things you are confirming on niaraland.
The problem with sharing it with that group is that TO YOU, this is knowledge and news, to majority it isn't, its just one of those things they turn their eyes away from, they obviously know all this and are active participants, y they are shocked is cause they are all afraid that their deeds will come out, dont be surprised you are the only one on the group not cheating around. do you know the feeling you get when a child ask about how babies are made?, that uncomfortable feeling? Thats how you're making them feel.

I suggest that you observe them carefully and you will notice those who are sleeping with each other, those we like each other, but I warn you, if you dont have the heart for this dont look, ignorance is Bliss. But since you have come this far I suppose you should at least know the truth.

By the way, the truth is bitter and a truthsayer has few friends. Lies is everything the world is built on.

you are 100% right bro.
too much lies, funny enough there is a married man that asked out my wife in the church and i know few looking at her lustily.
one thing have realised is dat people close to you are also the ones who want to back-starb you.
my family doctor, church family friend etc are some of the people close to me that have asked my wife out, its an unfortunate world out there

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Re: . by Ishilove: 1:43am On Sep 16, 2019
Offpoint:
Lol, if you're in a religious group your opinion should be religious based... comment outside that and sound backslider.


Anyways I don't know this Uban** of a guy, I've never read any of his thread... I once stumbled upon one of his comment. He tend to objectified the female folks which I find offensive.
His preferred form of entertainment is dark pornography. Really sick, perverted stuff so his objectification of the womenfolk is expected from his ilk.

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 6:59am On Sep 16, 2019
Ishilove:

His preferred form of entertainment is dark pornography. Really sick, perverted stuff so his objectification of the womenfolk is expected from his ilk.
when 50 Shades Of Grey broke records??

Are you drunk?

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Re: . by Offpoint: 7:53am On Sep 16, 2019
Ishilove:

His preferred form of entertainment is dark pornography. Really sick, perverted stuff so his objectification of the womenfolk is expected from his ilk.
LOL at the 'entertainment' part...
Funny enough, he sees himself as MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER. It's pathetic.
Re: . by ubunja(m): 8:14am On Sep 16, 2019
Offpoint:

LOL at the 'entertainment' part...
Funny enough, he sees himself as MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER. It's pathetic.
hate won't get you anywhere. You just get worked up but nothing changes.

I post, people read. Life goes on. Why even bother hating??

Makes no sense.

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Re: . by MrFuckallday: 8:25am On Sep 16, 2019
pocohantas:


I didn't confront my boo o, I don't know how you concluded he is "my boo".

I asked questions from my FRIEND. I didn't go about causing trouble, suspecting people or saying in public that all men cheat and fck around. I get sense pass that one na.

Abi will these undergraduates on NL marry me when I have succeeded in making the sensible men in reality think I am mad?

Better keep madness on NL. Filter your circle off here and do them right. [b]The people you are following will logoff and call their girlfriends at night, after scattering your own[b]

How did you know?
Re: . by Offpoint: 8:37am On Sep 16, 2019
ubunja:
hate won't get you anywhere. You just get worked up but nothing changes.

I post, people read. Life goes on. Why even bother hating??

Makes no sense.
Hate is a strong word bro...
I'm not your hater, you got it all twisted.
Re: . by pocohantas(f): 8:39am On Sep 16, 2019
MrFuckallday:


How did you know?

Naso world people dey do na. tongue

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Re: . by ubunja(m): 8:39am On Sep 16, 2019
Offpoint:

Hate is a strong word bro...
I'm not your hater, you got it all twisted.
okay. But words like "pathetic" are equally strong.

You do know disagreeing is okay. But obsessing about people who don't agree with you isn't good for you.
Re: . by Offpoint: 8:43am On Sep 16, 2019
ubunja:
okay. But words like "pathetic" are equally strong.

You do know disagreeing is okay. But obsessing about people who don't agree with you isn't good for you.
Lol, I don't hate you bro... I just don't buy into your ideologies.
Re: . by generationz(f): 10:15am On Sep 16, 2019
emmaodet:


Hmmmmmmm
Ubunja, sometimes i do hope am blinded and don't know the truth because truth hurts alot.
Ye shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free...... But what they didn't tell us is that the more knowledge you have, the more likely you become sorrowful

The truth in Christ not the truth about evil in the world.

Remember the tree of good and evil.
You have started feeding of the evil, through the knowledge you are getting. At first it sounds exciting and shocking but as time progresses it drains you.

You can never look at people through innocent eyes. Everyone is bad and cant be trusted.

That's one of the reasons Christians should not take part in gossip and reading articles exposing demons. Its all knowledge but it messes with your mind.

I'm more concerned about your relationship with your wife, if care is not taken what you read here might put a strain on your relationship with her. Less trust, less commitment and the likes.

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Re: . by generationz(f): 10:19am On Sep 16, 2019
spongeisback:
The fact that a married man is reading, digesting and applying what is written here by a bunch of people that cannot even keep a relationship is shocking. Do you know most of this boys here have nothing going on in there lives so they come online to bash women?

Don't destroy your relationship with people around you because of what you read on a faceless forum.

grin
Re: . by generationz(f): 10:32am On Sep 16, 2019
ichidodo:
If you ask me I wouldn't want all men to be delivered because if we all become lions who would become antelope? thus the system becomes highly unbalanced and volatile, many guys could use their newly found powers wrongly thus crashing this harmonious system simps have built.Our sisters and daughters could be caught out and exploited..

Oh, so, you people have the conscience to think about your sisters and daughters.

Una never see something.
What goes around will definitely come back around.

It could even bite your wives in the ass.

How would you like that thought uhn, another red piller banging your wife while you are away.

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Re: . by generationz(f): 11:57am On Sep 16, 2019
ubunja:
even myself i sometimes regret being Red Pill. But there's no turning back now. For better for worse we soldier on.

This just made my day. grin grin grin
Re: . by ichidodo: 12:24pm On Sep 16, 2019
generationz:


Oh, so, you people have the conscience to think about your sisters and daughters.

Una never see something.
What goes around will definitely come back around.

It could even bite your wives in the ass.

How would you like that thought uhn, another red piller banging your wife while you are away.
Then she has freed me from the syndrome of Oneitis therefore I am free to spread my wings and Bleep b**tches to my heart's content...Its a win-win situation, Everybody wins..

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Re: . by Ishilove: 2:39pm On Sep 16, 2019
Offpoint:

LOL at the 'entertainment' part...
Funny enough, he sees himself as MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER. It's pathetic.
Don't blame him. Blame those hailing him and making him believe he is writing sensible things.

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